Ishwari is not as wrong as she is made out to be! - Page 3

Originally posted by: -SparklingVibz-

Yes. But I probably am with a more bigger perspective. Did Dev ever object being given preferential treatment? Irony enough 😆

can you explain what basic things Dev forget. he still listens to his mother give job to un deserving person taking risk of his company maybe face a loss because of an un experienced employee because his mother told him. he still eats her cooking food. he still sits with her talk to her his daily routine .so according to you what basic things he is ignoring. coming to Honey moon its every right of newly married couple.what he can do with Neha problem how can he solve it. neha problem is money and Dev can give it to her but ranveer don't accpet. he knows that and he can't go to ranveer and say that you leave your parents and responsibilities only think about my sister only. only neha herself can solve her problens with her mother guidance. and why would always dev should understand for a change why can't his family understand him. he is working very hard since 20 years .if he want some time for him then why don't they understand and let him happy for some time before burdening with family responsibilities. is it too much to ask.

I agree to you and Ishwari for one thing only. When daughter is not happy with the married life, she cannot see son and DIL to be happy

Hello TM you belong to this forum! I am shocked. Such sensible compassionate understanding member existed here,? I am thankful to God. Still motherhood is respected in this land of gods.

Originally posted by: Danseuse

Nice post. Ishwari is a good possessive mother who is changing to include Sonakshi in her life. She is also accepting changes in her son's behaviour - as seen in yesterday's episode. But she knows Dev deeply. Sonakshi is yet to reach there. 😃 But the precap is again showing her indulgence in Neha's behaviour and her high expectations from Dev, which is not correct. As a mother, she needs to first talk to her daughter and Ranveer and find out what has gone wrong. Or who is wrong! Just keeping her daughter hidden away from the Society would not help resolve problems. Dev is a successful businessman and has several other important matters to handle. Why can't Ishwari try and resolve this problem and then turn to Dev?

Besides, there is no reason for Dev-Sonakshi to postpone their honeymoon for Neha-Ranveer. In a best scenario, they can be asked to join in!! But then, privacy is lost. Or send them somewhere else. 😃 But, why wait till Neha-Ranveer reconcile? 😲 That is uncalled for...Lets see what the CVs have in store for viewers.


-Rekha

Does Ishwari really know Dev, Does Dev really know Ishwari. Well the answer would be a big No in both cases. The two just pretend to know each other. but in reality they have no clue what goes in each others minds and lives. They try to make each other happy even If that means telling lies to one another. Like Dev never disclosed how stressed he was all these years, that he had to rely on sleeping pills or how upset or hurt he was after breakup with Sonakshi due to Ishwari. Did he tell he broke up because of Ishwari no, because he didn't wanted to make her unhappy and Ishwari belived that. Ishwari never said she disliked Sonakshi as Dev's partner, she kept lying to Dev n what happened "Pills overdose" which still is suicide attempt as far as everyone around Ishwari is concerned, no one knows the reality of pills overdose by accident. Until these two would keep lying to each other, nothing will be sorted out in their lives. And Ishwari does have a obsessive behaviour when it comes to Dev, like I said in another post, It is very important in psychiatric treatment (not considered a good thing to talk in Indian society) to realise and accept that a person has a particular unstable state of mind only then they can be treated well with the help of family. If you keep denying of having any problem because one is elder or with respect, things keep accumulating in wrong direction and becomes problem for the individual and all. In real life such mothers have broken marriages of their sons n shattered lives of couple's and kids If involved. This from some real life incidents by member posts on forum.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Hello TM you belong to this forum! I am shocked. Such sensible compassionate understanding member existed here,? I am thankful to God. Still motherhood is respected in this land of gods.

I am grateful to you for posting your views. Please don't go away. Ninety nine percent of the members take pleasure in abusing a mother who needs our concern,love and sympathy. If Dev and Sona can not go for HM it is a crime done by Iswari. You used the correct word. Bloody Honeymoon!

Kudos to you for feeling for Iswari who is a mother first above everything.My heart broke when she is called names,when the equation between her and Dev is described in the meanest manner I can't explain how I felt. If Supriyaji reads all those how would she feel as a mother and as an actress?

Yes it is wrong timing for HM. Atleast Dev should have stopped his plans if not Sona from whom I won't expect anything.

I thank my day that I found you here. Today only vexed with the state of people's minds I posted in some one's thread that Iswari should divert herself more into religious activities. Atleast I hope she may find peace with herself.

Thank you for respecting a mother however different she is.

That is really sweet of you.

I am not sure about "as wrong as" but she is wrong in my view.

Yes, all mothers need respect, love, affection and space in their children's life forever. I would hate to lost the special place in my children's life and would never wish that on my parents or ILs lives.

Ishwari and Dev have a special relationship. Not special in being mother and son but theirs in unique in that they run the family. He is the man of the house and she is the lady of the manor.

I believe every child, however hard a parent tries, ends of being treated differently. Purely because they are all individuals and need to be cared differently. Different strokes for different folks! So I won't blame Ishwari for how she interacts with each of her children.

From what is portrayed, Ishwari is an intelligent, sympathetic, well groomed, sophisticated lady. There is no ignorance and naivety shown.

Sonakshi has always been shown polite, intelligent, adaptable and like anyone in their 20s, excitable and willing to learn.

Now when Sona comes to Ishwari's house, after marriage, she, Ishwari and we clearly know who has the upper hand. This is like someone made a post about the bus passenger, driver and his favourite passenger.

IMO, it is only and only Ishwari's job to give Sona the space. Like she wished well and went to speak to Sona about the navratri vrat. Its her job to show magnanimity, accept Sona will make mistakes. It was not wrong of Ishwari to ask Sona to stay away from Dadi bua but when she didn't and then ended up making the mistake of coming to pooja with her footwear, it should be Ishwari who says that is fine, come and help me clean. While Bola was allowed to help clean, Sona was asked to leave. That is insulting.

What goes around does come around. Might not be the shape or form but it does. And hence the honeymoon plan and Neha.

Faith is important. Maybe Ishwari should spend more time in religious activities or what ever that gives her the understanding to accept and willingness to look at Sona as only her children's age; Sona is not Ishwari's competitor. She has come to fill the gap that Ishwari can't fill in Dev's life. There is a reason why typically man of the house and lady of the house are married and share a lot more than daily stories and meal at the table!




What goes around comes around.

Umm sorry but disagree. It is absurd how that woman begs forgiveness from god when she allowed non veg food to be served at the wedding but did not feel an ounce of regret for decievingly taking her son's signatures. Honestly that is one hell of a toxic relationship. Hate her so much