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Posted: 8 years ago
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seriously that was simple normal hug.😆.i don't think ishwari wants to prove anything to any one Dev asusual take ishwari blessings and when he is leaving with out eating breakfast for meeting she is proud of him because he is working hard.that was her affection for her son. iam sure if sona was not there she will do the the same. and coming to Dev he is upset about last night fight and longingly seeing at sona. maybe he expected she will talk to him
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

No. It is not wierd. A mother son hug should never be interpreted in such a way. It is a natural moment but not done with a specific reason. Dev's look is of anger. Iswari's hug is a gesture of happiness as her son honoured her word.

I personally am against drawing such thoughts as mother son relationship should be treated with respect. If Dev does not hug Sona that is a different matter. How can both be taken under one breath?

Supriyaji and Shaheer will never agree to do the roles if what most of the members attribute to Iswari Dev relationship is a part of the script.

Shaheer loves his mother( real) so much . During Navya days he was even teased for being a mama's boy. He will never do such a role that brings disgrace to mother son equation.
Supriyaji is a lady with moral values and principles. She won't accept any such role.

Time and again restricted myself from commenting where the mother son equation is interpreted in a wrong way. But just like that I did the comment now. Any way it is my personal opinion.


I think you got me wrong ...I didnt mean that hug had any other dimension to it..I understand it was a mom son hug...what I was emphasizing was on the timing..I felt it was purely done to make Sona emotionally insecure...she kind of enjoyed the fact that his son didnt acknowledge his wife's presence.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld


I think you got me wrong ...I didnt mean that hug had any other dimension to it..I understand it was a mom son hug...what I was emphasizing was on the timing..I felt it was purely done to make Sona emotionally insecure...she kind of enjoyed the fact that his son didnt acknowledge his wife's presence.

I still disagree. It is an instant gesture not done with scheming etc.
Read so,many posts interpreting mother son relationship in a despicable manner.
Frustrated and desparate. If your intention is not like that fine.
The comparison that he didn't hug Sona yet also out of place for me.
Edited by ltelidevara - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

I still disagree. It is an instant gesture not done with scheming etc.

Read so,many posts interpreting mother son relationship in a despicable manner.
Frustrated and desparate. If your intention is not like that fine.
The comparison that he didn't hug Sona yet also out of place for me.


Ah now I understood what made you interpret my post that way...I think I didnt express it well...
Ok ...these two always ended their fights with a hug but after this fight they hadnt resolved and he was going to office with out talking to her . She was also adamant of not wanting to give up...

Ishwari on the other hand new things were not good betwn them because of the previous night issues..( Her reference to read religious books for peace of mind...😉 ...smart lady ...)

I still believe , Ishwari's body language is a lil different towards Dev in front of Sona...( Let me make it very clear...pure motherly affection ) but its a lil exaggerated... and I dont think she realises it ...its from her extreme insecurity that is making her do...

So what I was trying to convey was ...Sona was feeling sad that they hadnt resolved and when he hugged his mom...there was this look on her face which was very sad...which is what Ishwari wanted...

( Hats of to Supriya ji for her acting skills...that moment was spot on..subtle expressions ...beautifully executed )

For me Ishwari doesnt fall under normal insecure MIL...she is on to the extreme side.
Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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😆 😆 😆
I watched the hug scene again n again just to see if I am missing something. Dev was absentminded during the whole conversation and hug because his mind was preoccupied with their fight and stubbornly angry at his wife's non relenting attitude. 😆 Ishwari was aware of the tension between them since it was really palpable but she didn't initiate the hug intentionally to hurt Sona or make a point to her. Even if the intent was not conscious the outcome was the same. Sona was left on the sideline as an observer to watch and understand their dynamics. Unless Dev n Sona initiates PDA in front of Ishwari she will not do anything to sabotage or interfere in it. The precap would be the best example. 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi

😆 😆 😆
I watched the hug scene again n again just to see if I am missing something. Dev was absentminded during the whole conversation and hug because his mind was preoccupied with their fight and stubbornly angry at his wife's non relenting attitude. 😆 Ishwari was aware of the tension between them since it was really palpable but she didn't initiate the hug intentionally to hurt Sona or make a point to her. Even if the intent was not conscious the outcome was the same. Sona was left on the sideline as an observer to watch and understand their dynamics. Unless Dev n Sona initiates PDA in front of Ishwari she will not do anything to sabotage or interfere in it. The precap would be the best example. 😆


@BOLD...🤣

Oh Yeah , thats all we need , we will have to tolerate her another set of drama...no dear I am happy with what they show...cant take chulha drama again !!
Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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now thats what I said ish is more physical with dev than sona😆...come on who does that.???so freq??sometimes its ok...she gave her dharmic book like she is maa n she is huging dev😡
Edited by dhank - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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On second thought you do have a point. She was not affected by the tension between them and was the affectionate and caring one 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld


Ah now I understood what made you interpret my post that way...I think I didnt express it well...
Ok ...these two always ended their fights with a hug but after this fight they hadnt resolved and he was going to office with out talking to her . She was also adamant of not wanting to give up...

Ishwari on the other hand new things were not good betwn them because of the previous night issues..( Her reference to read religious books for peace of mind...😉 ...smart lady ...)

I still believe , Ishwari's body language is a lil different towards Dev in front of Sona...( Let me make it very clear...pure motherly affection ) but its a lil exaggerated... and I dont think she realises it ...its from her extreme insecurity that is making her do...

So what I was trying to convey was ...Sona was feeling sad that they hadnt resolved and when he hugged his mom...there was this look on her face which was very sad...which is what Ishwari wanted...

( Hats of to Supriya ji for her acting skills...that moment was spot on..subtle expressions ...beautifully executed )

For me Ishwari doesnt fall under normal insecure MIL...she is on to the extreme side.

In my view Iswari just showed her happier side to Dev with that hug. She had a reason to rejoice because Dev kept her word .She always feels proud on seeing him go for work and hugged him blessed him. She is least bothered about Sona or her fight with Dev. So it is not a planned one it is a mother's spontaneous reaction on seeing her loyal son.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gmgi

On second thought you do have a point. She was not affected by the tension between them and was the affectionate and caring one 😉


I dont think she realises what she is doing ...and that is why I said she doesnt fall under normal insecured MILs

She was really happy of what happened ...and she wasnt even bothered of their fight and them not talking because that is what she wanted. She wanted to be emotionally secured.

If you notice... how happy she was when Sona said she wanted to get back to work?? Look at her expression and sense of relief. She was relieved to get Sona out of the house ...and away from doing activities related to Dev. She always has this happiness when it has something to do with Dev.

Every emotion has to have a balance...being happy /sad /angry/ etc...and sometime we over do it or over react...when we over react and express a particular emotion repeatedly for the same cause ...then there is something to worry..this is what Dev is missing to see . Why ? because for him he has seen this from childhood and its natural..he socialises very less so he doesnt have any other character to compare with...

Sona will understand it soon...because she has something to compare and to top it all she is Dr.

Does Ishwari hate Sona as an individual - NO...she likes her as long as she doesnt have anything to do with her Son's affection and attention !!

No MIL even the most insecured ones will try to keep the Son away from his wife because she doesnt want them to get intimate...Yes they wouldnt like husband and wife spending too much time together because they want their son's attention..but to keep his wife away from him even at night...now that is not at an acceptable level of being insecure...

That is a point of worry...and needs healing ...something in the past has made her this emotionally attached to her Son that she fears loosing him even when he shows affection to his own sisters.!!

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