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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Love marriage / arranged marriage / live in ...all on the same track when you start sharing the same roof. There will be disagreements and if both treat each other as equals ...if they are truthful to each other and not scared of each other , the fights will be more and will be loud. Reason they dont shy away from speaking what they think or express their feelings.

So if a couple says , we dont fight at all...most of the time its not because ONLY love exist with them its because of 1) they are scared of telling the truth to each other 2) Not treated equally 3) Some one is giving in too much and the other is benifiting out this silence ..or 4) one is scared of the other...this is more dangerous than the ones who fight.

Now back to our serial , its because they have lost the balance . They show only negative track...and touch of reality and associated logic is not in line with the urban crowd thought process. Too much of contradiction in the narration of story itself. What they showed in the earlier track doesnt seem to match with what they are showing now. And MILs are ONLY possessive of their son but dont keep their son's away from his wife. What they are showing will be one in thousands.

For that matter any relationship can go bad if not treated with respect...and the same holds good for ppl in love living together under the same roof

Originally posted by: siddhi.d123

I m terrified of marriages the show gives more reason why I should not get married 😃

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Originally posted by: yyy

I completly agree why marry a guy who has always loved you to the core,who never hesitates to apprecite his wife in front of the whole world ,one who did not hesitate once when infertility truth was out ,one who loves for what you are and doesn't expect you to lose your individuality for his family , has always valued you over materialistic things ,treats your parents with respect ,one who apologies even if it's not his mistake ,is loyal to you and doesn't run behind other girls .

Forget husband and wife in every relationship I have seen people lose their temper ,sulk,get angry at the other person and patch up .

I guess it's OK if the wife takes unilateral deciaion,yell at her husband in frustration, force her thoughts on him,blame others for her mistake after all he is a women and being a man husband should tolerate all this .

If a wife decides something for both without considering her husband's feeling then it's her love for him and his family .Omg what a independent and strong women she is 😳...

Originally posted by: yyy

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Originally posted by: pomegranate

lol

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

Sad to see people supporting others based on their gender not based on their actions.

Exactly i am saying this.

I can't blame anyone it's patriarchal mindset grilled in indian society 😊

Certainly . Cant blame people who abuse the word feminism .😃

Defending for women right consider as gender inequality.

Just because someone defended a man's right action people think its OK to term them as old fashioned with regressive mindset .

same like feminist and non feminist argument 😉

Originally posted by: pomegranate

ok I'm back.

both sonakshi and dev are just unlikeable characters...I can't relate or sympathize with either of them. Dev earns no brownie points for his harsh break up with sonakshi or not putting in any effort to win her back. ishwari did all the leg work.😳 sonakshi with her rose coloured glasses thought everything basically sonakshi made her own bed and now she should lie in it simply because she blindly trusted love and forgot to be realistic. so if she is being insulted left right and center by people who are below human decency, then she has no one but to blame herself.

Originally posted by: yyy

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