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Posted: 8 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: gemini54

Beautiful , beautiful title it said it all👏


Thank you 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: babli1

I think foundation is strong but maturity little low for both Dev and Sona ..they need to buckle up and be in this roller coaster ride together


I couldn't say it as less maturity as both have been the matured member of their own family but if they looked immature only between both then its a definite foundation problem. Both fell in love for who they are but failed to realize what impact would be created if they remain the same person they fall in love with.. Love doesn't need any changes but marriages do and for that to succeed your foundation of trust and respect should be strong !!😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: supercool3

Once again a brilliant post written by you 👏 But I got to say despite all the drama, I'm like super happy with this episode.

Thank you so much for coming out of your silent mode to share your inputs here 🤗Am elated😆

I'm just glad that the main issues are still there and the foundations are indeed shallow (Love your title!) These issues being Sona's fear that Dev will reject her again, Dev afraid that Sona will leave him, and Ishwari's insecurity about Dev not toeing to her line.


Excellently pointed out👏 Inspite of all the drama am happy for the real crux of the story to return😳

As much as I loved watching Dev and Sona's love story, I always felt that they need to grow. They are still very immature, and somewhere I can't blame them either 'cause it's a first for both of them (having previously never been in any relationships before). And today's episode only made me think about the time when Dev and Sona had a discussion about Neha and Ranveer. Dev at the time had wondered if "love" alone is enough for Neha and Ranveer to sail through, while Sona was insistent that it is.

It actually feels like the tables have turned, and I'm wondering if this so-called heart's cholesterol (As Elena puts it ) named love is enough for these two or is there more to it.

How true !! Thats a great observation you brought to the table comparing Nehaveer's and Devakshi's love story 😲 Even with the current scenario I still feel love is enough between both given that the trust and respect was reciprocated mutually😳

As weird as I find Ishwari's obsession with her son to be, I still find it hard to paint her as a villain. End of the day, I just feel she has a sense of misguided righteousness. Here's a woman who had to cope with a lot things when her husband passed away, and it's not easy to raise one child being a single parent, let alone four. Hence, she just has this need to feel in control of everything that transpires in her children's life, especially Dev's. So while I don't support her actions and do get annoyed with her, I don't see her fully black either. ( I don't know if I feel this way also because Supriya ji has such an innocent face😆).

😆 Haven't you read my previous posts till the prenup fiasco?..I used to be the devil's advocate for Ishwari in this forum because I understood her so well and fought with everyone to prove she is not black as perceived. But that prenup scene totally spoiled her image inside me Her action of taking signature by deception just killed my mother's heart and I couldn't connect with her anymore. Had Ishwari did any other drama even blackmailing Dev for that signature, I still would have felt she is just a possessive insecure mother and not a money minded deceiving woman. I feel that scene was a deliberate attempt by CVs to shake my trust on her😆 So I perfectly understand where you are coming from😳

Today's episode burst the bubble everyone was in, and helped set the boundaries for what is expected to come. While I'm annoyed with the way GKB and Bua taunt Sona, I really don't care much about their taunts either. At least they say things out, unlike Ishwari. And it's so much easier for Sona to deal with people like GKB and Bua. She just needs to learn how to deal with someone like Ishwari.
@bold : THIS!! Exactly dormant volcano is much dangerous than the erupting volatile ones😳


I think end of the day I'm just heavily biased towards Sonakshi and want to see her triumph over everything. But I also dread the day that Sona finds out about the medical reports that Dev hid from her. She'll need support that day more than today, and I fear that if she doesn't get that support, that'll be major breaking point for her. (Hopefully it doesn't go that bad!)

You are not alone 😆 After today's drama am sure everyone wishes the same maybe some with Dev's help some without his !! If the situation goes to that extend I am dreading the CVs might show a "new rang" of separation too because no girl deserves that in the name of love


You really have a clear perception about everything👏 Like I requested in my previous post please do make a main post..I would be delighted to share that space with you inside your post because I would love others too enjoy this beauty of your words and analysis!! Thank you again!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i am telling you my personnel experience dev like son's exist, my husband is like him thankfully my MIL is not like ishwari😆😆, but for my husband if it is b/w his maa and me he always drift towards his mother... i just have to say get a life dude and he understand😆😆... about foundation we were in 7 yrs of relationship and 4 years of marriage and he is still dev😆😆😆
me and MIL make fun of him a lot when he is stuck in the situation...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayu1982


@Bold 🤣🤣 Omg Bhabo version -2.0 too good


@ Tm : Nice post 😳


Thank you 😳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Agrata23

excellent analysis.👏.but didnt expect this on their wedding night.i loved sona today wtever she felt she vent it out..love u sona felt sad for dev..pls someone send buaji to kanpur cvs if u spend so mcuh on devakshi wedding cant afford for buaji ke ticket..we will book a ticket for buaji..pls spare us😆


Thank you 🤗 even after all the segments and spoilers ? 😲😆... Yes Sona showing the power of Mrs.Dixit now😉 no messing with her Mr.Dixit, keep your hands off and sleep😆

Buaji please redeem yourself tomorrow before we all come and personally lift you out of the house😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i am telling you my personnel experience dev like son's exist, my husband is like him thankfully my MIL is not like ishwari😆😆, but for my husband if it is b/w his maa and me he always drift towards his mother... i just have to say get a life dude and he understand😆😆... about foundation we were in 7 yrs of relationship and 4 years of marriage and he is still dev😆😆😆
me and MIL make fun of him a lot when he is stuck in the situation...

IKR 😆😆 Mine is arranged marriage almost completing 13 years but still the foundation is with cracks and holes 😆 This guy is a different person till he sees Maa , so now am used to it and not putting him in the spot being a good wifey and DIL 😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice post as always.😉 You are my daily dosage of medicine. Its like a breath of fresh air that I need every day!!
I kinda of felt sorry for Dev actually yesterday..I saw a man who is caught between his mother and his new wife...tough situation. Its like do or die...whatever he says...can be misconstrued ..
So what if he said he loves his mother the most and just a few minutes ago he said he loves Sona...To me it is a very trivial...two different types of loves and cannot be compared.

Also, Dev has grown so much in character now...how he was so calm when Sona was venting out on him and was explaining and telling her to forget about it as its their first night. Bugger was ready to consummate marriage twice ,but Sona was too angry...😆 Hopefully he pacifies her going by the spoiler.

I know one things is for sure...and finally understood what the doctor meant the other day, though I still insist they should seek 2nd opinion.

There is only a 7% chance of Sona and Dev sleeping together !😆Dont even talk about pregnancy! 🤣 How to with this chaotic environment! They will be always be interrupted by all the ladies in the house wanting this and that...non stop and worse with now doctor in the house 24/7 ,they will go looking for her all the more to treat their ailments free of charge and Niki might even sleep in between them.!

I enjoyed the DevakBushi scenes though...hope the makers gives us more longer scenes. T

Bijoy is also getting on my nerve...another whinner...he hates the dixit to the core.. Nowadays, you cannot see him smiling at all. Forever he is on fighting and attack mode!

Let's see how the CVs plan to take it with the challenges...ahead for Devakshi.







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Posted: 8 years ago
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i am telling you my personnel experience dev like son's exist, my husband is like him thankfully my MIL is not like ishwari😆😆, but for my husband if it is b/w his maa and me he always drift towards his mother... i just have to say get a life dude and he understand😆😆... about foundation we were in 7 yrs of relationship and 4 years of marriage and he is still dev😆😆😆
me and MIL make fun of him a lot when he is stuck in the situation...

IKR 😆😆 Mine is arranged marriage almost completing 13 years but still the foundation is with cracks and holes 😆 This guy is a different person till he sees Maa , so now am used to it and not putting him in the spot being a good wifey and DIL 😉

mine too arranged marriage almost 18 years completed.i have seen men r mostly like that even if they know their mother is wrong they wont question ..def they will defend their mother.
@ bold the same goes with my husband..but i am used to it

my close friend's husband is exactly like dev..he is from a poor family he is very very sucessful today in his business,he dont have faith on god he is very confident and hard working..but his mother always ill treat my friend he never ever raised a question against his mother..even he loves his wife and family.sometimes his mother badmouth his wife in front of him though he wont say anything

i think men r weak infront of mothers(really i hate this fact bcoz suffered a lot)..even i have two boys but i have told them i am your mother and also a human so if i commit a mistake u have the right to question me..i will give u the explanation if i am wrong i will change and apolozise
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Silambu

Nice post as always.😉 You are my daily dosage of medicine. Its like a breath of fresh air that I need every day!!

Thank youuu 🤗🤗🤗 😆

I kinda of felt sorry for Dev actually yesterday..I saw a man who is caught between his mother and his new wife...tough situation. Its like do or die...whatever he says...can be misconstrued ..
So what if he said he loves his mother the most and just a few minutes ago he said he loves Sona...To me it is a very trivial...two different types of loves and cannot be compared.

Yes two different love but he is buddhu enough to use the same words to express that😆 He could have understood Maa's feeling by looking into her face as he says but boy can he do that with wife?😉😆 Tough road ahead

Also, Dev has grown so much in character now...how he was so calm when Sona was venting out on him and was explaining and telling her to forget about it as its their first night. Bugger was ready to consummate marriage twice ,but Sona was too angry...😆 Hopefully he pacifies her going by the spoiler.

Kaikku yettinathu vaakku yettavilai 🤣 Glad he just left her alone else with the anger Sona was in , some punches were on the way😆

I know one things is for sure...and finally understood what the doctor meant the other day, though I still insist they should seek 2nd opinion.

There is only a 7% chance of Sona and Dev sleeping together !😆Dont even talk about pregnancy! 🤣 How to with this chaotic environment! They will be always be interrupted by all the ladies in the house wanting this and that...non stop and worse with now doctor in the house 24/7 ,they will go looking for her all the more to treat their ailments free of charge and Niki might even sleep in between them.!

🤣 So its not about conceiving but consummating 😆😆😆 I like the way you think😆

I enjoyed the DevakBushi scenes though...hope the makers gives us more longer scenes. T

They are like small trinkets of joy in this megadrama

Bijoy is also getting on my nerve...another whinner...he hates the dixit to the core.. Nowadays, you cannot see him smiling at all. Forever he is on fighting and attack mode!

Bijoy is tormented Silambu..think about a father who just sees his daughter life to be in mess yet helpless to do anything..but I agree his comment about veg food was insensitive glad Daadi's wisdom came to rescue😳

Let's see how the CVs plan to take it with the challenges...ahead for Devakshi.

Alrighty 👍🏼😉

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