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Posted: 8 years ago
#21
Somethings are clear.

Sona and her parents gave in too soon. Maybe the CV's intentionally did it to come back on track after the needless separation track!

Another thing is clear, Dev has definitely not grown up. Even now wonder how he can tell his maa that he loves her the most, he must be either kidding (which he is certainly not), or he must be a duffer not to understand a woman (which he most likely is now) even after what he made himself and Sona go through. Does he expect Sona, his wife, to accept this statement?

Then, Ishwari has not changed one bit (we all know that). Rather, she has become even more diabolic!

Ishwari Mansion is worse than hell for Sona right now. But I am sure she will handle all the 'pack'

Dev will learn the hard way that if he opens his mouth, and argue as much as he can, the final word will always be his and that will be - I am sorry Sona! This is the key to a successful marriage for a guy like Dev who just does not understand a woman!

Sona's fuse has already been lit... this is going to come out one day. Hope it will not be on Dev but on the real culprits. After all her Dev is a Chota Baccha!!

I kind of liked the episode for its interest value. Sitting in the Dubai Airport lounge, did not realize that 20 mins just flew by!

Edited by pkbdas61 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: rash2222


and we cannot expect dev to open his eyes in one day... it is a process which might take little longer coz of the bonding the mother-son duo share with each other... infact no guy will believe that their mother is insecure especially if it is told by the wife...😆😆


@bold : fact fact fact 😆👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: Sumuki

You took the words right from my mouth!!! Every single thing u said is exactly what i wanted to say!!!Sona is all right and very very very sensible character and everything she asked is extremely right.

That face off between sona and ishu woahhh sona u are super smart u understand every thing on the first day u came in. I really liked how she said everyone thinks she manipulated into the house pinpointing to maami.

Very sensible story!

Yes , thats the reason we all are hooked to the screen once episode airs even after knowing what is going to happen in advance😆 Smart Sona, oblivious Dev and insecure Ishwari will be a delight to watch if handled carefully😉


Bechara dev u have so much to learn and sona u have soo much to teach bechara dev and enable him to see the real world!

Even if Sona teaches him , if Dev is not willing to see beyond Maa, it will be off no use😳

Tdy episode made me realise why i really love the show. Be it the small scene where sona saying need to remove the hairpins so realistic. That happens in real life. Unlike other serials which show utter nonsense like consummating with all the things on..oh rubbish...KRPKAB is different and very much pitched to reality!!!

Yes that hairpin scene and those dialogs ☺️ I am happy with the subtle romance because these two just burns the screen just by sitting next to each other but I need CVs give us a little more to balance the drama..kya kare ye dil maange more😆

It feels like the show has started even though its been into 150 epis!!!

Kuddos to the whole team!!


Exactly the story have come back to the original theme and I hope the makers shape it exactly the way they envisioned. I will wait with others😉

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Posted: 8 years ago
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and we cannot expect dev to open his eyes in one day... it is a process which might take little longer coz of the bonding the mother-son duo share with each other... infact no guy will believe that their mother is insecure especially if it is told by the wife...😆😆


😆 😆It has crossed 155 episode.Lets see when CV's will open his eyes .I am a guy.I am single.So I have no experience reg wife n mom clash.

Oh please enjoy the freedom while it lasts Vimal😆 You don't want to learn this lesson now as life will throw curveballs as per your handling capacity and you will know then😆

Honestly I am waiting to see what will Dev do when Sona medical condition comes out in open.I am looking forward to this track.

oh the pity 😆 I can't imagine his face between his shocked Maa and equally shaken wife😆 Thats going to be one hell of an episode!



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Posted: 8 years ago
#25
Wow that was exactly my thoughts after the episode !!! Shallow foundation - perfect title !!!!
Here is my 2 cents

What a way to start SR , I havent watched any first night as real as the first few moments of todays episode in Television !!! First discussing about how the whole day went ,of all the chaos , and dying to get out of that heavy ornaments, make up and hairdo ,I am sure all of them who are married here would have gone through the same !!!! And cherry on the top , our dear Sona and Dev spoke our mind , come on now DevAkshi and fandom also have wifi connection 😉 And how refreshing and realistic it was to see Dev helping her out with it , instead of the usual hero's sensual jewelry removal like he has done it million times before (trust me guys and jwelries are a weird combination ) and heroine's asthma attack ... As you said he was right on the track till RR came n broke the news !!!

But what came next shook Sona to the core ... She was not even aware of the fact that Dixit family was unhappy about the menu , and she fired the right question , why didnt anyone esp Dev inform her about it , her family would have accommodated veg food happily . But wrong move Sona especially in front of this mom-son duo ... They both cant bear anyone, no matter who pointing fingers at the other one ...At that moment Ishwari became defensive and and while trying to convince Sona unknowingly she blurted out the truth !!!!
Yes all Sona's fears were true , and there busted her bubble !!!! She was right at the very first time when Dev came running saying his mother accepted their relationship now !!!! How could she get so fooled by Ishwari's beggings and puppy face ... Did she really think Ishwari thought there were made for each other , and she is her 4th daughter !!!! All that were only for her beloved devotee !!!
Here she was thinking , this was going to be the happiest day of her life only to be insulted for her culture and family, and to realize what sort of mess she stepped into !!!! That shocking realization didnt make our Sona crying her eyes out in the rest room , kudos to CVs for sticking to the characterization of Sona ... She let out all her frustrations , didnt hold up any ... Yes thats my girl !!!!

Not just Dev The whole pretentious Dixit family would struggle a lot to face the HONESTY of Sona, in future !!!

"This is our first night for heaven sake..." I really felt bad for Dev, he really didnt expect this night would take a turn like this ... But he has a long way to go in this journey to come out of his trance !!! I was irritated when he let bua, n GKB insult Sona in front of him on the first day in his house ...

When Sona said "Its Mrs.Dixit for you .." he took a moment savoring it ... I think its not sunk in yet ... She is not ur employee and lover any more , but ur wife ... So if you dont stand up for her especially for the mess you caused, how you are going to take care of her pain like you said a moment ago ...And wrong move again by bringing in the insult of " my mother "... But our Dev is always a slow learner , let us give him benefit of doubt and see how much he try !!!! I cant be mad at him seeing his sad face going to the bed ... All those planning ahead and buying dress everything went in drain 😭 ...

It was an episode of contradictions !!!! Dev's "I didnt love anyone this much before" to Sona , Ishwari's "She is the one who brings happiness to this house , I have four daughters now " , Sona's "now I dont think we should differentiate by saying your family n my family" , Dev's assurance to Sona that "its ok for baba to speak like that , after all I hurt the best daughter in the world " ... Didnt they all contradict themselves ... Yes the wounds are not healed yet , its still fresh , give it some time to heal ...

PS: I am happy for once RR burnt the house , Mamaji is a much needed presence there now , his line after Ish's fainting drama " The best thing is RR is not gonna faint any more ... " cracked me up ... !!!!

PPS: : "* I am sure you have enough money left after spending so much on marriage..so please please get a return ticket to this Buaji fast😕 "

hhaha so finally you also admitted that ha ...

When she told Sona you better not speak up , I was like says the woman who made this mess , you better not speak up ... 😡
I had requestd forum members to gift DevAkshi a return ticket for bua , I knew this was gonna happen . After watching the precap , I badly want her exit than DevAkshi romance !!!

I really hope they wont take the normal TRP route , to make this typical saas -bahu drama , plz dont disappoint us Cvs !!!

Edited by desigirl987 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#26
I will just says everyone lovely writing 👍🏼. That's I like about this show that Sona is the strongest. Not cry baby like other shows. I still believe that she have ability to make Ishwari change for good. And Erica is doing great work. Thanks for the post 🤗.
I always love when women stand up rather cry
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: deepsel

Yes if the foundation is not strong and not given enough time, whatever structure you try to built on it will be shaky and so our Devakshi have started their first night of their family journey on a shaky note. Again a very real raw set of emotions played out shutting and raising new set of doubts!! CVs have definitely taken the TRP route now (wanna disagree here, coz my inlaws did the same, husband like Dev acted like the 3 monkeys and came to room thinking i was like the 3 monkeys, expecting me to understand..from day 1 until date..so it does happen..maybe a minority...but..i cannot believe this is not real) but I can also see the original story with Ishwari's deception around Devakshi coming into play !!


Journey to "their" room :

So Mamaji tackles the fish problem and sends the newly wed to their room rightfully so😳 Sona's pain and helplessness to leave Elena and Dada was spot on. Thank God for creating a sane person like Mamaji who promised to take care of them as well (how long can one depend on a 3rd person, the real stand should be taken by Dev only..else none of the 3 will be in peace)

Bhola bhaiyya ..aap sach me itna bhola hai kya😡😆? The whole house was tearing Sona and her family for that fish and you come and ask "What to do with the fish?"no wonder Buaji starts her fresh set of taunts😆 (bhola himself is freaked out at the fish incident..😆😉)

Amidst all these headaches, am glad Nikki and Ria managed to decorate our lovebirds room..very simple and smart decoration 😳 and thankful for Neha who took both these naughty nanads out of their room to give them lone time. (for once nikki n ria was just trying to ease the mood)

And comes our married couple first conversation☺️ Sona just like most of the forumwasis is pissed off that none of the ceremony went smoothly like they envisioned only to be consoled by Dev like the positive topic makers in this forum by giving water and cracking a joke out of fish🤣 and they both couldn't even have a talk during marriage(CVs for sure spying the forum 🤓😆) - yea i started to notice..all Q raised here, are answered the very next day...😆😆

Then came the most important question from Dev "Why do you look so beautiful ?"☺️ and "I haven't loved anyone else like you"😲 ( Screw the problem let me get on with the deed quickly 🤣 ) - kaunse deed gal.. just staring...and max touching her face or hair or palms..or hug... isse zyada toh kuch nahi karenge..😆😆😆

Bechara Dev, he was almost on the right track to complete his "muje nai sambaal paayega" kaam only to be disturbed by Mami on the exact moment we were about to get first passionate kiss of Devakshi :( What cracked me is how Dev got pissed off immediately asking "Is this also a rasam" with what a f*k expression 🤣 - that was the only line of Dev i loved...to the core..!!! Even if it is a rasam, dear Mr Dev, how would your Bengali wife know?


Ishwari's Zidd :

CVs gave all the answers to all the questions the forum raised "Why can't they pack food before", "Why can't you have fruits", "Why can't anyone else cook food", etc etc😆

The answer to all the question is "Ishwari can't afford to ruin her 'Adarsh' Maa, bahu, Saas, Sambandhi' image for anyone😳 as simple as that !! -- yeah as simple as that..!! Dev you still asked your mom..funny u 2 are... dont u still speak the same language..bina bole sab samajh jaata hoon..

So today they made it clear that not just for her Son, if Ishwari feels her image is about to be tarnished, she will go out of her way even to let her life to give that back 😕 - yeah that was obvious right from the start

Devakshi obviously rushes to her aid and Sona's confusion quickly turned into anger when she found out what happened. Poor girl was so oblivious to all the things happened being in her lala land and the reality shocked her! Her expression when Dev said " Maa I know how much you love me and you know I love you the most in the whole world" 😲 ( Welcome to husband's world Dev😆, this guy is seriously clueless I must tell you) - sona land...is shattered... now welcome patni to the pati's world of Maaa

Ishwari have managed to fool everyone until now because Sona saw the inner Ishwari today when she said "I compromised everything for my Son and his love" (Yes Sona hear it loud and clear and come out of the bubble my dear) That 3 sec face-off scene was the scary indication of what to come😒 - too much to handle right at the first day.. i can feel for her.. coz she is just a fiction.. i am going thru it in real..from first day...and believe me it is not easy...as day passes.. you just fail to hope anything...


First (spoiled) night :

So understandably visibly frustrated Sona shoots the barrel of questions to Dev
* Why didn't you tell me that your family won't eat outside ?
* Why did you agree for non-veg food when you know Maa won't eat?
* Haven't you guys never had food outside?

Bechara Dev tried to reason her politely (first night jo hona tha 😆) but ohoh boy slip of the tongue " Your parents too brought the fish and insulted my mom" raised the s*t to the roof

The ugly past of insults and shock creeped up and Sona just couldn't handle anymore even his slightest touch. Rightfully so for any girl to endure so much on her first day of married life, decided to take some time off alone.

Dev tried to reason this is not how they imagined about this night to end but Sona is hurt beyond to even think about their union leaving Dev high and dry ( Now you know how we are craving Dev😡 ab bukhkat 😆)

For all of this, i just want to ask you a Q - Why do men think that problems or discussions are out of that thing which just happened...and in this context how did Dev think that after what happened down.. Sona to hear a lot.. and her family too.. he expects a suhaag raat? give me a break...is he even normal? is this all his love for Sona.. in front of vikky..nikki riya.. neha.. all this shit happens...and he doesn't speak a word...saying it was his mistake as he was trying to balance both sides..but overlooked many factors..aage se nahi hoga or anything of that sort...instead he let his mom cover his mistakes...shit...😡😡😡

Precap:

Anticipating beautiful Sona's "Mooh Dikhai" but got to see Buaji's ugly tongue instead 🥱 (CVs please KRPKAB doesn't need a double meaning dialogs like that..It left a bad taste in my mouth)
is it necessary every single thing she do..be wrong..not one can be gone smoothly???

An expected episode but with an unexpected disgusting precap. (i felt the other way round...


P.S: (To Cvs)
* A simple Devakshi hairpin removing scene can make us all go so please please have some mercy on us and throw us some more crumbs and we promise to bear this TRP headaches 😆 --- hahahaa...😆😆😆

* I am sure you have enough money left after spending so much on marriage..so please please get a return ticket to this Buaji fast😕 - i made an exclusive post on that
throw her out koiii pls...

To Dev (How to make any night your night😉)
* Use your mouth only for what it meant to be on nights and never talk back
that will worsen situations yaaa...😕
* Always learn the lesson "Wife is always right no matter what" 😆
now don't tell me u feel that Sona was wrong today?
* Keep a sad puppy wala face and keep staring at her 😆 ..(many more tips on the way from our highly talented gutter girls😆 take the help and best of luck👍🏼😉)
i will smash him if he tries doing that...

P.P.S:

* Sona looked extremely gorgeous in the Moo-Dikhai make up😳 - true..

* I am hoping to see some romance ( Sbas seg of Night dressed Dev and Sona) before the inevitable😛 - don't know how much i can enjoy these fake ones..or real feelings which are shallow...n meaningless..as you can never give your wife respect in your mansion...


Better watch some old episodes and get good night sleep sweethearts 🤗 heartburn is not good for health😆 - not able to sleep..which is why am on the forum...instead of sleeping..got work in 6 hrs from now...and i havent slept yet...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashakd

Here it goes, my fav part:

Welcome back Asha 🤗 Hope your kiddos exams went fine😊 Saw your likes in all posts and understood you are just busy to reply 😳


there was so much of first night wali feel in that scene nah!!!!!
I dont mind the crumbs of crumbs of crumbs...that tiny weeny portion can satiate me. Shaheer and Sona, ooomphed a lot of raw S***Y desire in that scene.

😆😆 We are impossible I tell you.


( nah she needs to get a little more insulted before she leaves. Wait till something about Sona impresses her, she wont go before that.
Waise , I liked the dialogue she made about GKB spoiling her DIL... she knows to what berardri GKB belongs 😆

I was not at all mad with Buaji infact she was correct till the precap Asha..something about that pallu dialog just disgusted me to core🥱 Lets see if she can redeem herself in my eyes because once a person falls down in my eyes its quite difficult to get back my love😆


( yes Dev after a fight never try to hug your wife, it wont work...believe me...thats the last option, stay away and let her vent her feelings.

just sit and brood, over the past missed opportunities and never waste the future ones ☺️

you have the entire forum wasis giving you ideas, even google wouldnt support you this much...


🤣 Experience is a golden lesson..make use of it Dev..fully



( he knows that Sona is always right...he just needs to realize that Sona is now his Wife 🤪

True 😲 now don't tell me he will behave like a husband then 😆

Just mouth 2- 3 senti dialogues, and Sona will just crumble into your arms Dev.
See how easy😆

( Probably Dev changes his clothes , freshens up and just shows his puppy face to Sona, and she wont be able to resist the poodle in front of her )

And he caresses her cheek and this time sach me Mamiji will knock the door for "Mooh Dikhai" rasam 🤣 Dev will be like 😆


I actually expected far worse scenarios and happy the damage was less than expected. I know I am minority in this, but the optimist in me has risen for today .
👏 there you go girl..today is your day then😉


Tomorrow may not be a bad day as shown in the precap. Someone will handle it , not sure who, but as of now, I think the precap is not to worry.
I know someone will handle as always, but that dialog😡😡 I know am still stuck at that😆 should divert my attention to gorgeous looking Sona instead 😳

Deeps loved your take on the episode. And the best part was the title. So apt, how did you manage to think of it?
Thank you 🤗 the title just pops up when I watch the episode so far have been lucky i guess 😳


We begin our marriage with so many dreams and plans and expectations. I feel for Sona, today. Many of her dreams came crashing down. It happened to me too, but soon I took everything into stride and converted everything to my advantage. Today more than a decade later, I understand the pain, anxiety and fear that Sona felt. Sona was in no hurry to get married, she was not a burden on her parents, they were happy to have her at home for many more years to come, but the society demands a girl to get married and to adhere to this norm, she got married. It was similar with me, I was in no hurry and neither were my parents. But today looking back, am happy with the journey I made, and am sure Sona too will be, because its the companionship of Dev that matters and that she will retain at any cost.

This is exactly similar to what i wrote in Diksha's "Change" post today👏 Very well said Asha, after so many struggles , sacrifices, compromises me too happy in the place am right now. Every marriage can be turned successful with little patience and trust😳 I am hoping the same for Devakshi❤️

Inspite of a ruined first few hours of first night...Devakshi journey will beautiful and we will be here to witness a beautiful journey.

We are glued to the screen with this same hope dear🤗

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Push-pull

Deeps...🤗

I loved loved loved Sona's Daadi.. 🤗
How easily she put herself in the shoes of the Dixits'.. And yes, why make a drama out of something which was not at all in their drama plan.. 😆

Baaba.. 🤗 I can very well understand his state of emotion.. He couldn't say or do anything.. If it's my way I could try and lock my girl in the house telling whatever she's chosen is not right for her.. Alas.. it's her life.. And my lesson to let her choose and live her life and to be confident about herself will be falsified.. What good it's gonna do to her if she doesn't know to appreciate the goodness that I have chosen for her.. Just can pray that she gains strength to live through it in her way or blend in without a fight or walk out after a fight not because of losing but because if it's not worth it anymore.. 👍🏼

Whatever it is it's her life and let her learn to live it.. All I can do is worry about it and wait to be the supporting factor no matter what her decision is.. 🤗


🤗 I realised I totally missed out Bose family conversation in my post today after posting Glad you picked those points to share my views here 😳

Me too loved Daadi, a real light of guidance !! What a contrast the makers have shown between two oldies on either side of the family 😳

True naa a helpless father whose scary dream are coming true after Dada and Elena blurted the entire truth. What else can he wish other than hoping that his daughter get all the strength needed to overcome the hardships in her new family. His pain of helplessness for voluntarily sending his daughter to that house packed of volatile people was beautifully portrayed by Bijoy today.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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wow i like how u describe the episode with a pinch of humour.
it feels positive n light n gives a feeling of Allz well 😆

so Devakshi have transitioned from dreamy proposal to dramatic wedding to reality of married life where between husband-wife, none is right or wrong; they just have different perspective of same situation; read food saga here!

i personally liked the episode for its touch of realism n showing characters true to its original plot- smart sona, sandwitched Dev n misdirected Ishwari.

let show not digress from reality into OTT scenes n showcase some hues of intimate shade of pyaar; am up for this ride; however bumpy it is 😊


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