Saalo ke Armaan..Shaadi ke 'Ek Din' Ke Liye..

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Sajini Cherian

@sajinifaby

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+ 5

Posted: 8 years ago

#11

I so agree with you.. a win win situation by wearing a chunni of the lehenga.. but problem is in the expectation.. we all live in this brutal world of big expectations...

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
A girl leaves her house and enters the mandap wearing the dress given by her parents. Later she can wear what her husband gives. Thankfully , most south Indian Hindu weddings ..this is how it is . During the wedding ceremony boy will give her the attire she needs to wear. She will change her attire and come . then tying thali /mangalsuthr ceremony happens.
In Sona's case since they wear chunari ...she can choose a middle path so that both can be happy. She can wear the attire what her dad gave and wear the chunnari what her mom in law gave. So its a win win situation and she has the blessings of both families with her.

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Chandni Davey.

@Chandniyati

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

A very sensitive n important topic...👏

If I would have been in such situation I would go for option 1 & 4...

Coz as I m leaving my own parents n home n entering into in-laws relation n home then it is my duty to look after both along with the support of my would be husband...

If I have to leave my parents n home then equally I have to except the in-laws too...

I would surely try to convince my in-laws...

Coz my parents always would understand me n would never ever let me hurt my in-laws (whether they deserve it not) as they would b my parents ever after.

As my upbringing is that do Ur duty rightfully... never let anyone point u, Ur decisions, Ur actions, n Ur emotions n Ur upbringing too... even though each n everyone makes mistakes but b calm n confident to accept n clear..

But never hurt anyone's emotions too.. instead try to understand their emotions n reasons for it...

If I wear my parents attire n make them happy, but after seeing or witnessing any kind of hint (even in future ) that my in-laws r not happy or have compromised unwilling then I would surely go with the in-laws attire... coz when my parents would come to know abt the same at that moment or in future they will surely feel bad n guilty...

N I never ever want them to feel that... instead I would love n alw ays look forward to make them proud of me...

N that would b the best smile, happiness, say a smile from their heart...

Coz wearing parents choice of attire would give them happiness n smile only for those few moments of marriage, but choosing the in-laws attire n making in-laws satisfied would bring a smile, happiness n a unique feeling of proud would last life long...

N respect their upbringing...

Sry m in hurry... will update more... I want to make one more point to this...

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Aazeen02

@Aazeen02

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

The best thing was to talk before even purchasing the shaadi ka joda. both the bride and groom's side sit and talk, ek baar mein decide kar lo na. Itna tamasha kyu karna?

And been into Sona's situation, frankly speaking I would have worn the dress my in laws sent, rather happily, coz I know my family, they won't buy a dress and sit from my childhood that, this is what their daughter will probably wear on her wedding.

Shaadi koi gudda-gudiya ka khel hai kya ki bas scrunch your eyes and keep walking. You will hit also and you will fall down too. Aankhein kholke baatein kar lo aapas mein, masla hi khatam..

Par nahi, they have to show it like a hyperbole...

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