Saalo ke Armaan..Shaadi ke 'Ek Din' Ke Liye..

i think it is best to respect the wishes and feelings of the girl's parents.. it is she who is leaving home onwards to a new journey amidst a lot of new members, some welcoming, some not, some truly hostile... I am with the bose family on this and what they decide is what should matter.

and can some one stuff the mouth of the old hag... whatever her name is.. please.

1st option.alot of things to say about it but i hv no words.

GReat thought Of Urs Fr making The Post

I would have chossen Option1 and 4 If I got 2 options

But Now I choose Optipn 4

as a Girl The nature i Have Is I Always Try To Make a right balance between every Realtionship

As wedding day is The Biggest day Not only in My life nut also In my parents ,My groom's And his family's Life As well

So I Will Try My best Not to Hurt anyone\

My parents Have A Lots Of dream Fr My wedding day

My Would be husband has Same
My In Laws
Nd his family As well..As From the moment I will get Married My First Priority Will Be In Laws Tht means may Be It would Be The Last Chance fr Me To Give priority to my Parent's wish

But at the Same Time I Can't start My New life With New Relationships by Hurting those Ppl

So i would Rather choose To Talk about This with My Would Be Husband

Cz I Have Fulll trust On Him..Nd he will Never let me take any wrong decision

and One more Thing ..It's not like Ki I Will ask Him what to do..It's like I Will discuss with Him about What My family wants ..Nd Will clear Everything Before Wedding..If want to Go with My Family choice Then will Defntly Talk about it at first with my husband And then With His opinion I will Talk with my in Laws

Cz I don't Want to Hurt anyone,s feeling And more on that I don't want anyone To Point a Finger On My paren's Upbringing..my family will never let me to do anything which will hurt my in law or husband

This is totally from my background and life..in this kind of situation i would behave like this way

i will never comment on other's opinion..every one is right at their own point

A girl leaves her house and enters the mandap wearing the dress given by her parents. Later she can wear what her husband gives. Thankfully , most south Indian Hindu weddings ..this is how it is . During the wedding ceremony boy will give her the attire she needs to wear. She will change her attire and come . then tying thali /mangalsuthr ceremony happens.