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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bas tum logo ko uska fault nikalne ka bahana chaiye...yes, he didn't tell sona truth because he doesn't want to spoil her happiness. Dev kuch bhi kre...ek post le kar aa jaoge sab.
Sorry but not agree with ur post
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think dev is doing right. He won't tell anyone until the marriage happens. Dev loves sona unconditionally. If he had told her, she would not want to marry him and spoil his life which dev does not want. He won't tell his mom because she might refuse sona. It is a very personal issue between dev and sona eventhough it effects everyone in the both families. He will eventually tell her after the marriage. Yes it is disheartening to see unhappy dev during marriage. Let's wait and see what is in store from cvs. They r doing amazing job so will keep up the spirit.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

I also saw the video and wanted someone from the 'complaint box group' to make a topic on this for me to reply 🤣

I have huge huge issues with this whole infertility track. Doctor tells a would-be husband that his would-be wife is infertile From where did they get such faltu useless doctor with zero practical sense ? Doctors treat each patient and their cases differently, they are in a public-service profession.. I can take bullshit of Dev being oblivious to the whole world's real issues and making a lost-puppy face in all practical situations, not understanding human psychology, not reading expressions from Mommy-the-God (much like the looks of PK from the movie PK when he initially arrived from the spaceship 😆), but teachers, doctors etc don't behave so impractically. Major blunder there.


Second thing Dev's sangeet dance expressions. I really couldn't decode it whether he is in grief or is still in the shock. Can I expect a little LESS OTT expressions from Shaheer because it's really coming across as a confusion from his side whether to go with this marriage or not, instead of conveying his sadness. 🤔 He looks more like unsure than sad. Boy, you're getting married to the love of your life. Just be in the moment man. I agree this is a huge blow to any person wanting to have kids and regular life, but when it's a love marriage, this shouldn't really be a confusion 😔. It reminds me of the HIMYM scene where Robin tells Kevin that she never wants to have a kid, and Kevin, despite having hugely upset, just decides to keep her in his life (It's another story that Robin herself broke up with him). Only few lucky people get to marry their love. Why ruining your most precious ceremonies of your life over something which can be discussed and shared to reduce the pain ? Rather you're confused and shocked for 5 long days ? 🤔


Another weird thing was Sona's expressions. I mean it was QUITE obvious that Dev was having a sulking face, how can you royally ignore that and keep grinning like that 🤣 It was really odd. The show is slowly losing its realistic touch 😳


Dev and Sona, specially Sona looked GORGEOUS Only if Dev had an OK face (I think somewhere in between he lowered it down and it looks good).

Sorry for my rant, now things on your topic 😆 - Being a boy of 8/11 yr old, he loves remote control devices 😃 While he has given his own remote control to Ishwari's hands, he wants to keep the remote of Sona-device to his own hands. 😃 For Dixits, it's all about hiding stuffs from each other, going at each other's back, trying to feel better that 'I am great because I bear so much of pain for others' and the false pride of superior feelings than the rest of the world. Oh, one more - 'I am always right' syndrome too 😃.


OMG! I love this reply. I wanted to say all that you said but I'm too lazy 😆 Itna type nahi karna tha.
I felt exactly what you felt seeing his expression. It looks like he doesn't want to marry Sona because she's infertile instead of looking sad. The way he throws her away during a dance step is too weird. Ab Sona infertile hai usme uski kya galti hai

Sona looks too happy, like it looks OTT. Dev looks like someone punched him and Sona is still smiling like everything's okay. I mean c'mon, anybody can tell that he's not happy.

He's getting married, why not focus on that first. It's not like they'll have kids immediately. They can think about that after marriage, discuss it, think about it, why miss on the best days of our lives?

All things about Dixits on point :D They love hiding things and then making them melodramatic later.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Multifandom_Tee

Well the point is,even dev knows how sensitive sonakshi is...do you think she would marry him after knowing the fact that she cant bless him with a child?no she wont.

Dev at this point doesnt want to distance himself from her again or to hurt her again when she is so happy.

Tho i would have loved if he had told asha and bijoy about this issue


After watching 140+ episodes, it's safe to say that Sonakshi handles problems practically and loves Dev too much to let him go so probability of leaving him was low. Dev wouldn't let her do that either. Also, this could have been a chance for Dev to show Sona and her family that he'll be there for her always.

I hope he tells Asha and Bijoy but he won't (probably)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ...Doctor...


Exactly!
Also, I've never heard of a case of inhospitable uterus without even trying to conceive. When couples are unable to conceive or suffer few miscarriages, it's only then that the doctor's declare problems with the uterus. They should atleast try before reaching conclusions.
Ishwari ko batana is the worst step though. She'll probably faint after listening to that.


Same here. When I heard that yesterday, my first instinct was to call my neighbour who is a doctor and ask her if there is any such thing as inhospitable uterus. Anyway for everyone's benefit. My SIL had 8 miscarriages / abortions before she was finally blessed with a beautiful baby girl. Hers was much more serious a condition than Sonakshi's but they kept patience and husband and wife (alongwith both the sides of their family) stood together and helped them get through that horrendous phase.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I had a feeling they are going to show Dev not telling Sona.Who cares about practicality and logic and patient's right to know about her own medical issues?Its all fair in lou.How dare you question his intentions😡How dare you point a finger at Dev?
Logic like Sona discussing her case with doctor,reading her own reports? Oh lets ignore that please. Or even better, when the doctor doesn't give a thought about patient-doctor confidentiality then he won't mind lying to his patient on Dev's request either.
Also with how the CVs are showing Sona as the all forgiving great woman, I won't be surprised if they show Sona willing to sacrifice her love when she gets to know about her issue instead of her willing to be strong and face this problem with Dev.

As for Dev's expression in that scene well I think he looks sad not confused😕Although it is a thought to ponder on how can Sona not see his clearly unhappy expression and dance happily.If Dev's intention is to hide this info to keep her happy, he'll surely fail if he keeps giving such grief filled expressions.Why not live in the moment and enjoy the wedding with the love of your life?

@pehchaankaun: complaint box group🤣the ones who dare to think about logic and common sense
Edited by rose4ever - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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He is concerned about Sonakshi happiness and no matter how strong a girl is ,its a biggest blow to her when she comes to know she cannot be a mother .What would he achieve if he tells Sonakshi or her parents before marriage .It's just gonna spoil their happiness .

Had it been any other guy he would have used this situation to score brownie points but Dev being Dev will care about Sonakshi''s feelings

Well history has shown how she can act on instincts without thinking decsions through .

Lets appreciate the fact that he is being her support and he is not ditching her when she needs him the most .The guy has some feelings too and being an emotional person he is not able to mask his true feelings .

If he was happy during the Sangeet then there would have been a post on how insensitive he is and he is happily enjoying his Sangeet when love of his life is having such a serious issues .How he doesn't deserve her and how she deserves better


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahulvats12

Bas tum logo ko uska fault nikalne ka bahana chaiye...yes, he didn't tell sona truth because he doesn't want to spoil her happiness. Dev kuch bhi kre...ek post le kar aa jaoge sab.

Sorry but not agree with ur post


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Posted: 8 years ago
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I wld love to make another post with the similar heading "doctor is doing it again"😆...doing wat? jumping into conclusions and making assumptions...
We have just seen the episode where Dev gets to know about the report..and you have already made a post about the remaining part...why cant we just wait for the episodes to know the whats gonna happen and WHY its gonna happen..yes, even i am sure Dev wldnt tell Sona now...NOW in caps...and why wld he tell ? he lost her once, he knows she wld never agree to the wedding if she hears this news..and even if she is ready, she wldnt ever be happy ..he knows how imp this day is for her..for that matter for any girl and also how painful it wll be for a girl to hear this...there is no medical urgency..she doesnt have to undergo an operation or be treated right away ..if that was the case we cld blame Dev for the delay in communicating this info and jeopardizing her health..He loves her and he just wants her to marry him and make sure she enjoys the most important day in her life...if i was in Dev's position i wld have done the same..and same goes for you too...if you tell her, it wld just show u want to move out of the marriage coz u know the girl wld be heartbroken and wldnt agree to the marriage for ur sake..
I understand you love criticizing...but why cant u find some valid points..atleast wait for the track to reach the climax so that you can judge them..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Patience bacha patience 😆

Just based on video u hv jumped to conclusion. Incomplete information does more damage than false one..so I jst want to say..let the story unfold in upcoming episodes...lets see if he actually does that or not. Yes I guess till the wedding happens, he mite not tell anyone thinking of everyone calling off the wedding. So basically his insecurity and that fear of loosing Sona again mite force him to make that decision for now. Later on he wil discuss and open up abt it to Sona..

Lets wait and watch what actually happens...agar by chance usne bata diya to ur disappointment and anger towards Dev will be of waste.

Ps: Sorry but R u noticing how we humans are? Your post just talks abt how miscommunication leads to misunderstandings and assumptions and that Dev shud give complete info abt Sona to her. And here in your post, I can see some jhalak of assumptions and jumping to conclusions based on little communication/ news we have from video / spoilers

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