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Originally posted by: gemini54

This thread seems to be addictive..so here I am on a Friday nite thought of a 'positive post' so bear with me

Disclaimer: this is just my wild imagination 😆

Story so far:

Dev worships Easwari

Easwari treats Dev as her prized possession

We have a disgruntled Neha in the mix

Enter Sona who was brought for Easwari health

Sona and Dev fall in love

Sona the smarter of the two tells Dev that Easwari does not like her

Dev worships Easwari..so falls in deaf ears

Easwari accidentally overdoses

Dev panics and breaks up with Sona

Easwari got what she wanted but accidentally..so she thinks good riddance Sona let us send her to Ritwik land..wrong move

Dev goes bat crazy and starts questioning Easwari..the worship seems to be on shaky ground

Easwari strategize and begs Sona to come back

She hit 2 mangoes with one stone

Dev worships Easwari and along with him a new Bakra Sona joins the clan of followers

Neha comes back citing poverty...Easwari thinks..I don't want to go back to poverty

Enter lawyer..Easwari thinks wow this is jackpot let me ask Dev to sign

By now Dev does not have time to worship Easwari as he is trying to woo his lady loves family

Easwari plots( maybe she goes to any ends to get what she wants Khatri angle?

Gets Dev to sign using deceit

Dev is back to worship mode ofMaa because she brought his sona back

Sona falls ill

Dev comes to know but who does he think to say it to his Maa because she did bring Sona back

Easwari thinks aw this is quite opportune

Story ahead..in my dreams

In the meantime Sona gets the pre nup and questions Dev , Dev connects to dots..and it leads to Maa..she now tries to use the vansh card..but Dev does not agree

The two bakras are slaughte d...light bulb goes on

Dev renounces all his wealth and moves with the Bose family..enuf references in the serial of ghar

Jamai

Starts biz maybe with Saurabh

Enter Neha who uses this to get the wealth back and Ranveer

Of course Neha knows her mother so Easwari can play no tricks

The dixits lose the wealth again

Sona sees the plight of Easwari mends her relationship with Dev

Dev and Sona with the 7% chance have a baby

Easwari blesses them

Sub ham

Pleas don't kill me for this post😉

Originally posted by: --Destiny--

I'm myself a bong and yes a non veggie. But I don't find her feeling so aghast at the matter of non veg food unnatural and hypocritical. Non veggies can go along with both veg and non veg but for veggies it isn't the same. Veggies genuinely have a lot of trouble when non veg food is served in the same area and even more when its near religious stuff. Its simply a belief and a practice and intimately revolves around ones life. My friend once shouted on me when I touched her books after having an egg. :P So her apologising to God for that isn't something new. Ishwari's conscience doesn't hit only while manipulating her son toh I don't expect her repenting to God about that . Humans are all in general hypocritical in some way or the other. The post here strongly criticises being a vegan in general as well at many lines with the silk and stuff as examples . Underlying that's calling whole vegan thing hypocritical. Thats not needed I feel. This whole veg and non veg issue is extremely common and happens in most inter cultural marraiges. And they handled it quite well I feel. About the medical issue. Yes its confidential. But family has the right to know it. Ishwari isn't an outsider. She will be her mother in law. Its not like Dev went and told RadhaRani. Its a big thing. This isn't back biting but awaring someone of a truth. People usually throw in a big ruckus of deceiving people from health related matters in marraiges. Its better to stay clean. If Dev had a health problem Sona's parents would have liked to be aware of the matter. I'm sure Sona wouldn't also like keeping people in the dark.

I strongly support your view. When I read this post ( TM's) I really felt depressed. Being a vegetarian I can understand how Iswari must have felt.I can not even be where Non Veg is served.That is a genuine problem for vegetarians. Still Iswari agreed that itself is good.Why should she be blamed if She asked her God to forgive? As for the deceit that is attributed to her due to the ignorance of CVs I mean getting the papers signed by Dev, I feel dejected . Pre nup in no way is a matter to be handled by one partner's mother and his lawyer. The issue was used to degrade Iswari's Charecter more and more. What is the difference between Ekta Kapur's Saas Bahu Sagas and this serial? The Medical report of Sona should be known to her,her parents,Dev and his mother. It is not a couple issue. Indian marriage unites two families not two persons.Both the parents have every right to know and discuss before the marriage itself. If Dev wants to tell his mother it is not a crime. Like Asha and Bijoy should know,Iswari also should be aware of it.

Originally posted by: sompi123

OK... 😊... But still as a bengali what I can understand you can't

I also agree with Payal here. Although I don't support that and I believe everyone should co-exist peacefully, but if something really bothers you (smell/the thought etc), then just because of the ego or likings of the other party, it's not wise to continue with that idea. It's not a battle 😃. While vegeterians sometimes absolutely go nuts about the non-veg thing (I have seen mostly in South Indian Brahmins), and it's like they can't have it, for nonvegeterians what's the problem in adjusting for 1 day or 5 days .. Remaining 360 days have as much as you want na 😆

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

And maybe as a Punjabi what I can understand you can't. This is what is known as cultural difference.

So let's respect that difference.

That is why dear I said let's agree to disagree.

I agree... I'm not disrespectful to anyone but when there are many ways to solve this issue then why anyone has to compromise? That's what I'm saying... I respect every culture and religion...Let's see what happens in this show

Originally posted by: tia.o

Arre they are hypocrites, naa. CVs ne socha hoga ke idhar unko aaj onion aur garlic se bhi problem dikhate hai aur udhar omeletter khila dete hai.

Waise, Dev ka surname Dixit hai na? Madhuri Dixit to non-vegetarian hai. Apne pati ke liye Shrimp curry banati hai? Problem create karne ke liye kuch bhi karte hai CVs.

Originally posted by: reachanupama

Madhuri Dixit is a Maharashtrian Dixit and by caste is a GSB (Gowd Saraswat Brahmin). This caste originally belonged to Goa and because of the Portuguese invasion, some moved upwards (towards Konkan) and rest moved downwards (towards Mangalore, Udupi etc.). This is besides the point. However because these set of people always lived near the coast, fish and other sea-food have been a staple part of the diet. My husband is a GSB and hence I know.

Now there are Dixits based in UP who are pure vegetarians and they are nowhere connected to GSBs as well. I know this because my best friend is a Dixit from UP. They normally don't use DIXIT. They spell it out as DIKSHIT (like Sheila Dikshit, former CM, Delhi).

And coming back to your post, I don't think there is anything wrong if Ishwari asks that non-vegetarian food not be kept in the wedding. Normally many people avoid bringing meat or any kind of non-veg stuff near a place where religious activities are scheduled to be performed. I have attended a lot of weddings (from all castes) and normally the meal after the wedding/pheras don't include non-veg but they do have non-veg during reception.

yeah agree with you, I'm a Hindu from Mauritius, normally during the wedding day there in no non veg food, everyone is treated with pure veg briyani before/after the pheras and on the reception depending on the choice of the family, both veg & non veg food is served.

But coming to the show, Dev mentioned he read somewhere that non veg (maybe he said fish) is very important for bengalis. I tried to google about bengali wedding rituals but didn't find anything like that..

Please do correct me if I'm wrong.

What I did not like however was Ishwari praying to God to forgive her for keeping non-veg during the wedding. That was utter non-sense. She should instead ask God to forgive her for all her previous sins and not make her kids pay for the deceits she has done.

Originally posted by: --Destiny--

I'm myself a bong and yes a non veggie. But I don't find her feeling so aghast at the matter of non veg food unnatural and hypocritical. Non veggies can go along with both veg and non veg but for veggies it isn't the same. Veggies genuinely have a lot of trouble when non veg food is served in the same area and even more when its near religious stuff. Its simply a belief and a practice and intimately revolves around ones life. My friend once shouted on me when I touched her books after having an egg. :P So her apologising to God for that isn't something new. Ishwari's conscience doesn't hit only while manipulating her son toh I don't expect her repenting to God about that . Humans are all in general hypocritical in some way or the other. The post here strongly criticises being a vegan in general as well at many lines with the silk and stuff as examples . Underlying that's calling whole vegan thing hypocritical. Thats not needed I feel. This whole veg and non veg issue is extremely common and happens in most inter cultural marraiges. And they handled it quite well I feel. About the medical issue. Yes its confidential. But family has the right to know it. Ishwari isn't an outsider. She will be her mother in law. Its not like Dev went and told RadhaRani. Its a big thing. This isn't back biting but awaring someone of a truth. People usually throw in a big ruckus of deceiving people from health related matters in marraiges. Its better to stay clean. If Dev had a health problem Sona's parents would have liked to be aware of the matter. I'm sure Sona wouldn't also like keeping people in the dark.

her son created a chaos by getting drunk in sona's family function..but all is to be forgiven and forgotten because they are "the ladk wale" and so called pure people🥱

Originally posted by: _Payalj_

@tia

Food can be a very sensitive issue and I am not blaming Ishwari here. For a non vegetarian it is very Easy t to be magnanimous but for a vegetarian the sight or smell of non veg can be vomit inducing . They might not even like anyone touching them after eating non veg.

I am a punjabi and am supposed to eat non veg but my son can't tolerate the idea of killing and eating an animal and doesn't allow me also. I know plants have life and all but somethings are just a matter of personal thought process. Also it is perfectly possible for a non vegetarian to eat vegetarian but vice versa is just not possible.

Further in North India marriage is considered a yagna and hence non veg is not permitted. Even in Sikh weddings there is no non veg in the wedding function as marriage is done in gurdwara.

So even the theory of two halls is not tenable as for the Dixits the entire marriage process will be vitiated.

Saurabh and Elena are immature, Dev is bending over backwards to get in Bose good books but Bijoy and Asha were supposed to show some common sense and consideration. Bijoy is literally acting as insensitive as Ishwari.