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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: KRPKABRocks

I agree with you, Sonakshi is confusing

Yes totally confusing.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Amid Sonakshi being a supergirl and strong one, this post is path-breaker. Your post is much interesting and have some different aspects to look out for.
Hmmm... What an idea!!!

Par mujhe lagta hai ke, Dev should knowing give space to Sonakshi. She needs time. Time to see through mist. It's all very hazy for her. To know the exact feeling and make correct decision this time Sona really needs time. I think with this trick he will surely get her back.!!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

You think she doesnt want to marry him ?? Ofcourse , she does...but she wants it her way...If he had comes yesterday stating, "I am sorry for what happened...now no matter who says what , my decision wont change...I know what I had nearly lost ...I love you and want to marry you ...I really dont care what my family is going to think...this is my final decision!! "

Then she would have said a "YESSS!!"...but how was his approach...he said now no one will come in betwn us ...mom has said a yes to our marriage...blah blah...which girl will accept that ?? So its like mom said yes so its yes...later if mom says no...then ??

Ideally women prefer men who takes their own decisions and stand by her...is able to protect her from ppl who try to harm her ...She sees security in a marital relationship...I dont think Sona is getting that from him...


Completely agree. She is waiting for his approach to change to one of independency! To be able to take his own decisions even if it is not in sync with momma! she knows that Dev loves her deeply and is now doing what Ishwari is doing too.. Playing Dev. He has danced enough to Ishwari now it is Sona's turn. If he needs her in his life as badly as he says, then he better do what Sona expects him to do. She has given him clues and will continue to do so till... Poor Dev he now will have to do what I call the Sonish waltz... Sona-Ishwari waltz.. Good luck to him..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61


Completely agree. She is waiting for his approach to change to one of independency! To be able to take his own decisions even if it is not in sync with momma! she knows that Dev loves her deeply and is now doing what Ishwari is doing too.. Playing Dev. He has danced enough to Ishwari now it is Sona's turn. If he needs her in his life as badly as he says, then he better do what Sona expects him to do. She has given him clues and will continue to do so till... Poor Dev he now will have to do what I call the Sonish waltz... Sona-Ishwari waltz.. Good luck to him..


@ Yes too many hints ...especially yesterdays episode...but I doubt if that tube light has understood it !!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61


Completely agree. She is waiting for his approach to change to one of independency! To be able to take his own decisions even if it is not in sync with momma! she knows that Dev loves her deeply and is now doing what Ishwari is doing too.. Playing Dev. He has danced enough to Ishwari now it is Sona's turn. If he needs her in his life as badly as he says, then he better do what Sona expects him to do. She has given him clues and will continue to do so till... Poor Dev he now will have to do what I call the Sonish waltz... Sona-Ishwari waltz.. Good luck to him..


my wish is.. Sonakshi is not pushed and pressured again to marry Dev and xpt him with all his flaws. Flaws are fine but ability to make key decisions on own and stand by the one you love instead of discarding them or disregarding at the first sign of trouble.. is serious business for a girl and should be.. for anyone for that matter! This is not what Sonakshi wants him to do, in my opinion. This is what Dev must do to redeem himself in the eyes of "love of his life" and to grow from this experience.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Can't disagree with you at all..and that is why i am so annoying with Sonakshi
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I for one has been a very staunch supporter of Sona because I am yet to see something that I can support Dev for.
However I do agree with what you wrote below


It's much easier to point out wrongdoing in people who actually take action, rather than those who play it safe. When she impulsively ran to Dev from at engagement... that was fhe first time I saw Sona step out of that safety zone. So while I do see your point from a logical perspective, that Sona shouldn't expect Dev to be something he is not, what I saw in yesterday's episode was a Sona who was finally taking a stand for herself and calling the shots instead of going along with whatever Dev decided, just because she loves him. This is not the same Sona who believed implicitly in fairytales and happy endings; that Sona would have happily rushed into Dev's arms and accepted all his conditions. Now her eyes have been opened to the darker side of human nature, and I'm happy for her! I would love to see a Sona who is more willing to take risks, take charge, and fight for what she wants... no matter whether it pleases her family or not, and no matter whether it involves Dev or not (even we know it does, because fiction! 😉).

I blame the execution of cvs for the mess this show has become that we have to take sides between the leads rather than root for them to be together...I may be in the minority here but that is what I feel at this juncture and that too not watching the show
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Zubi10

Can't disagree with you at all..and that is why i am so annoying with Sonakshi

Just like me
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manasi90

Amid Sonakshi being a supergirl and strong one, this post is path-breaker. Your post is much interesting and have some different aspects to look out for.

Hmmm... What an idea!!!

Par mujhe lagta hai ke, Dev should knowing give space to Sonakshi. She needs time. Time to see through mist. It's all very hazy for her. To know the exact feeling and make correct decision this time Sona really needs time. I think with this trick he will surely get her back.!!!

Thanks .In Ritwiks's case Sona did not give time to herself. Now I hope she takes time for retrospection.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Enough Sonakshi Bose! Why are you having a dual face? Do you have clarity on what you want to do with your relationship? Why can't you be honest ? You know Dev is a Mama's boy. Still you loved him knowing his weakness. You believed him when you accepted his confession of love. You enjoyed your moments with him when he still could not admit your affair before his mother.

Very valid point .She is not clear about her feelings .Before the office breakup she wanted to move on to reduce her pain but after the office scene she said she is doing it for her parents .No matter how uncivilized Bijoy is he never forced her to get married .She agreed to it because she was looking for short cuts and wanted to replace Dev with another guy .

She knew what she was getting into and Dev had given her enough warning on how complicated he is .He had responsibilities towards his family .She knew everything about his past , present nothing was hidden from her .

Then the Break Up. Dev admitted sincerely that his mother is against you so he would like to break up.
Your ego was hurt. You challenged him that you would move on knowing that still you are desparately in love with him.You played with Ritwik and his family with your false pretensions

On top of it you went ahead with fixing the engagement date despite Ritwik warning you to take time and your family always ready to give you space if you insisted. But no. You should prove that you are Sonakshi Bose. You can show Dev that nothing matters now.

Bang on .Agree with each and every word .She agreed to get engaged to Ritwick because she wanted to prove a point to Dev .For a minute lets agree that she genuinely wanted to move on even though she had feelings for Dev but none of her actions showed her efforts to move on and accept Ritwick .

Why was she waiting for him in Ashirwad ceremony and on engagement day ?


Why did you invite Dev to your engagement? Don't you know his present state? Just a couple of days back you went to his office when Tina called you. Despite knowing how weak he is mentally you invited him to your engagement?

She did not discuss with her fiance or her parents before inviting Dev .Just a day before their photo was on the newspapers first page .Any sensible girl who wants to forget her past will not invite drama .

Do you have any common sense or Manners? The way you just paid attention only to Dev leaving your Fiance to his fate,will any sensible girl of today do that? You knew he will not be able to see you wearing the ring on another's name. Still you played with his feelings by inviting him there.

She was being selfish here .She was just thinking of her pain, her moveon never once she thought about her family , Ritwick's family or Dev. It was always about her

Actually you never wanted to go ahead with the engagement. Do you? So when Dev fell unconscious you took the opportunity to your benefit. You just ran with Dev to his house. Can't you send only Saurav Dada to drop him home? No. You know no family will go ahead seeing the girl's option of being with her Ex on her engagement day. Your purpose got fulfilled.Poor Ritwik and his family. They became the scapegoats in your scheme of things.

Now Dev came to your office. His mother accepted you. What is new in that? Dev broke up for his mother. He came forward when his mother gave green signal. In between when you asked him let us get married then also he did not pool up his courage. He is Dev Dikshit. Iswari's son. Don't you know that? Then why are you blasting him for behaving exactly the way he is supposed to be? Here also your ego did not let you accept him before you have your fill. You want Dev,Iswari every one to come and pacify you. Then you will oblige.

Her whole lecture did not impress me.There was a disconnect between her behavior on engagement day and her speech next day morning

I would have respected you if you had not gone ahead with the engagement or cancelled it before the humiliation happened to Ritwik. Don't you know how he will be laughed at ? His fiancee ran away just before the ring ceremony.That is enough for people to draw conclusions about his lapses or deficiencies .
And you blame Dev for creating a scene at the function? Atleast be true to yourself Sonakshi . You will never be true to your family who are the best any girl can have.You will never be true to your love either. Enough Sonakshi Bose! Enough ! Enough of your hipocracy.
After much deliberation I realised Dev is anyway a weak charecter but you are no less .

Well said !!

No matter how weak Dev is he has always been clear about what he wants and he has the guts to accept his mistake .He never blame others for his mistake nor plays double games .Among both Dev come across as a genuine person .

I respect Dev more .


Great Post 👏.You have raised some valid points

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