Enough Sonakshi Bose - Page 2

Originally posted by: vidya0000

Nice post. She had never left any opportunity to insult dev. Actually she played with the feelings of two guys. When she herself couldn't stand for her love. After break up if she could have insisted dev to convince his mom for their marriage. Even after taking promise from dev she was expecting call from dev on the roka function day. Yesterday, if she would hv handled the situation gently will be much more appreciated. Nice post

True. Like Dev she also faltered in handling the situation properly. But she involved a third person here who is so nice and concerned.It is easy to blame others. Before blaming Dev Sona should realise her faults first.

Originally posted by: AngelsFlyAlone

I am sorry but I have to say that i think you have kinda misunderstood Sonakshi here. She wanted Dev to marry her, but by taking a stand for their relationship and NOT for his mother. He came back only and only because his mom told him to. If one day, she even sneezes because of her, who knows? She may get kicked out again? just saying... Her behavior is fully justified.

then why did she ask him to marry when she went to his office? Did he assure her then that no matter what I love you and I will go against my mother?He is always clear about one thing he will not marry her without his mother's approval. He stood by that. Even when the ring ceremony is happening he did not commit rather he sulked within himself. Sona is confused. I feel so.

Now again she just wants to marry dev but wants to be sure that she won't be hurt again if Dev plays to his mamas wishes. She is an upright person and just wants her love - drama toh dev and ish kar rahi hai😆😆

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

Interesting view point... has me thinking..

however, just from the top of my head, i think she is simmering with discontent, among other things, rejection included, of being a disappointment for her parents, especially her father.. I think deep down she knows that their relationship was the root cause for the engagement disaster.. and that it was not Dev or her who were to blame. She was a willing partner in this complicated relationship. She is weak and vulnerable.. and just like Bijoy shooting his mouth off, Sona is doing the same.. emotional state is very disturbed.

She may be waiting for Dev to tell her " i love you - no matter what Maa thinks or wants, and i am willing to go forward with our relationship.. and i will handle my maa, not matter what". This is a tough ask and does not look possible today.. But then in love, people do all kinds of things. In Dev's case, given how much emotion they showed of him, drinking, restlessness, losing himself etc.. I think Sona's expectations may come true only if there is some thing dark about Ishwari that Dev does not know about... well let me not get there.

I don't think Iswari's past has anything to do with Dev's loyalties. The crux of the story itself is meant to be the son's unwavered devotion towards his mother.So Sona 's expectation may not get fulfilled.I believe she is more imbalanced than Dev . She is inconsistent and fickle. She is desparately in love with Dev she needs him in her life with Iswari's approval or without . She just is too egoistic to accept the fact.

Originally posted by: Jade0001

Interesting indeed

Somehow I feel that Sona is also emotionally disturbed, we all know that both Dev and Sona loves each other but with love their also other pillars that supports love .

I had always felt Dev was truthful about his mother he spoke to her while Sona never really shared her family stories with Dev always been the stronger one .

There was no equality in the relationship.

Sona slowly discovered Ishwari was possessive about Dev still she quietly accepted everything, now together with her emotional outburst she realizes she needs to be respected as a person .

Agree with you. Honesty and Truth are the pillars of a strong relationship.While Dev is honest of his weaknesses Sonakshi failed to hear her inner voice.

You think she doesnt want to marry him ?? Ofcourse , she does...but she wants it her way...If he had comes yesterday stating, "I am sorry for what happened...now no matter who says what , my decision wont change...I know what I had nearly lost ...I love you and want to marry you ...I really dont care what my family is going to think...this is my final decision!! "

Then she would have said a "YESSS!!"...but how was his approach...he said now no one will come in betwn us ...mom has said a yes to our marriage...blah blah...which girl will accept that ?? So its like mom said yes so its yes...later if mom says no...then ??

Ideally women prefer men who takes their own decisions and stand by her...is able to protect her from ppl who try to harm her ...She sees security in a marital relationship...I dont think Sona is getting that from him...

Sonakshi is so confusing...
I thought the same wen she said to Dev that he ruined her engagement whereas Sona herself is responsible for whatever happened in her engagement.
But she is doing right in refusing Dev because he only listens to his mother...

Completely agree with you.
Nice post.
More than dev , sona is a confusing soul.

Love your post and totally agree with you... And I can't understand Sonakshi tbh...i can understand that dev's decision to break up with her was wrong and she was hurt.. but he is after all a human being.. Sona very well knows that Dev loves his mother more than anything else...In that situation he was so worried about his mother.. That's why he took that decision.. Woh itna darr gaya tha ki usko kuch samhaj nehi aaya aur usne yeh galat decision le liya.. Uske apne maa ke liye aisa kiya, koi aur ladki ke liye nehi.. Usne sona ko dhokha nehi diya... He was very clear that he will not take this relationship forward without his mother's permission and his mother gave permission that's why he came to sona...I think now Sona should say yes... Kyunki imo jaha pyar hota hai waha ego nehi hota... Toh She should keep her ego aside then think about it... And if she is so concerned about her Self-respect she should never marry Dev...