Originally posted by: randomramblings
loved your caption. this story is all about these 3 most imperfect characters.
This is the story of how a "SPINELESS" dev, due to his lady love earns his "SPINE". only to loose it again in difficult time 😆
This is the story of how a "selfish and Blind " Ishwari, learns to open her "EYES" and "SEE" thingswhich she is royally ignoring and prentending to be blind
This is the story of how a "STUPID" Sona, emerges out of her "STUPIDITY" she isn't emerging out of stupidity, she is becoming one
Since you started off so beautifully , let me make you see the other side of the coin which you are conveniently trying to brush off!!
1. for the son, when did he see his mother as a "HUMAN" for you to be complaining in the first place.
for him he will always hold his mother at the highest pedestal and he need not show it in actions to prove his devotion for her. when ishwari could outrightly accept natasha , a random girl thrust down his throat for a damn deal, sona was her dearest nootrishan, the one she looked after as her own daughter, had emotional connect , took her along with her to a party... i can go on blah , blah, blah... why on earth do you expect that dev would have any doubts about his mother accepting sona and that she needs TIME????
For him the only reason him mom was angry is because ishwari had figured it out, while he did not tell her about this most important part of his life, himself. so as soon as he came clear with Ishwari, the chapter is closed. period.
the real problem started when was forcing Sona in Ishwari's live while with Natasha it was not the case, he wasn't desperately trying to bind Natasha n Ishwari whereas with sona-ishwari he did that...every single person noticed Ishwari's discomfort but the son who kept at her pedestal failed to notice
2. his mother taking pills is not the driving point dear... if you have not watched the episode , i suggest go watch it again... his mother blaming herself that she is not happy with her sons decision and calling herself as a bad mother was the break point. He can bear anything, but not a freck of disappointment in his mothers eyes, and here she was not only disappointed, but DEJECTED and calling herself NAMES.. do you think he would behave rationally.
i didn't said that taking pills drove him, what i said that the extreme action taken by his mother made him realised that she was not happy wid his relationship
3. he ignored sona ????? are you sure??? how about the phone conversation he had with sona where she clearly stated that they are strangers now... do you think for a man like Dev who never opened himself even to his mother, to be able to digest the fact that the only person to whom he has bared his soul, treats him a stranger now!!!. can his mind even process what was being told, to react ??? to me he is brain dead, even to invoke a reflex action as soon as sona called him a stranger!!!
what do you expect sona to do? to behave normally? she was DEJECTED by break up, she tried her best and consoled him and told him together they will solve this mess and convince Ishwari still he broke up, he should have made more attempts if he was so concerned
4. Who said ishwari is WEAK?? what everyone is afraid of is not her emotions/health but her EGO. They all know how she relates even the smallest action of Dev like eating a halwa to him being devoted to her!!! how to make a egoistic person like her to come out of this lala land without mentally disturbing her??? since you want the story to be realistic can you give some ideas to the CV's ???
i am fine with her being weak health wise but emotionally she is weak. Don't she hv trust on her love? she is afraid of loosing Dev and that is not due to some EGO but her emotions which are fragile
5. Sona, she too was in her own dreamworld, wasn't she?? for her love was always a fairytale where a prince charming would sweep her off her feet, and they will have a happily ever after. Dev being her prince charming, always treated her as his queen. You call her strong and LOVED her way of handling the break up??? so moving on means get hooked to the first available bait... shabaash...
give that shabash to Sona she deserves it 😳 😆 I never said that she shld get married, i said she rushed in shaadi due to CHALLENGE she gave to Dev and wen she decided to do that she should stick to it
6. Dev was stalking her, oh so she knew it and had problems with it?? hahaha... who are you kidding, atleast dev maintained his distance. She on the other hand directly goes to his house at the slightest pre omnition... ... i think we need to redefine stalking.
then what should I make out of that whole date sequence 😆
7. is it fit of rage,??? i dont think so. The best of both Sona and Dev came out only after verbal spats. every instance where they challenged each other, ended in making them aware of the new layer of emotions/side of other person , brought them more closer to each other emotionally and binded them with unseen twines.
but there verbal spats were too late, dont you think so? it did make them aware of new layer but disrespected other's feelings
8. darling when you are broken/shattered , the person who needs to be sitting next to you is" THE ONE" who can make you assemble all the broken pieces. not your family/fiancee/spouse because they are related to you. one look at his room, sona knows dev is on the verge of self destruction. NO amount of self respect is worthy when it comes to mending a broken individual. let alone respect, there is no humanity left in you , if you chose to evaluate your worth over somebody's very existence.
9. oh so you feel inviting an ex is a stupidity?? really!!!,
true yesterday you were hitting the headlines along with your ex and your so called fiance's family had issues with it.
when sona knew he is so heart broken she should not have invited him, you urself gave answer in above point 😉 mending broken individual at the cost of family respect, parents feelings *wow*
Today when you are walking into their family with you head held high infront of your ex, mere presence of him shall cause them embarrassment. iska matlab yahi huva na, that as long as your ex is not picture , they are ok with you but at the mere sight of ex, they are reminded about your flaws????. same goes with Ritwik, if he did not have issues in accepting sona with her share of past relationship, he should not have any problem in seeing her ex in the party. Sona's family, Ritwik and his family knows that DEV is "EX"- that should have silenced them . why does an EX bother you so much when sona's "CURRENT" and "FUTURE" is right next to her????
isn't it too philosipical to follow in life #justasking
you should keep the situation in mind while acting. IT was her engagement not some B'day party
Is Ritwik blind??? did anyone force him into this relationship,?? Did sona not make it clear to him that she is trying to use him to overwrite her past?? . so when you have walked in with our eyes wide open , why complain that you are being "USED" .
wen did he complained? What I am saying is wen someone is trusting you so much atleast respect it
of course DEV was sleep walking.. he love his sleep and his dreams, he never wants to wake up to harsh realities...
but unless he open his eyes he cannot solve the mess and to face harsh realities one needs COURAGE
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