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Posted: 9 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: swapno


Ahh!! Loved it 😊
One thing I need to add. When Ritwik is being good and understanding people complained and said he is so good to be true and he is beyond reality and blah blah...blah!!!
Now he is reacting like a real person and people are saying to go him away!! 😆 😆
What is the logic here?

If we remember Sonakshi's journey then it is true for Sonakshi too. She is too good to be true for Dev but no one points out that 😉
Here rule changes as per leads...😆



Some r confused what they want.Riwtick is not helping in uniting DevAkshi.Above that he questioned the great Devraat Dixit.So he received flak.If he done the same with Ishwari.He would have been praised so much. Ritwick one logical question stumped Dev.He kept quiet.When Ritwick asked Dev why don't U marry her.Mama's boy was silent.

Yes here leads have diff rules 😆.That's why the post title is apt Hypocrisy
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Posted: 9 years ago
#82
I can speak for myself. I don't want a Ideal character.Flawed character is good.But being stagnant is the problem.Now for me Dev does not look like a flawed character.He look like obsessed psycho lover n a bully.If he can't take a stand for his love.He just need to back off.Instead troubling Sona n Ritwick.Does he have guts to say what all he did to his mom. Dev come across coward n spineless guy.Who can do drama n trouble others.Do not think about Sona's parents.For him his wish n his mom wish matters.Others get pain does not matter to him. There is no character growth in him.Not asking Dev to behave like god.But Dev need to behave like a sensible guy. He is in this situation because of him n not because of others.He is responsible for the state he is.He can only help him.If he is not ready to help him.Then he need to back of.I don't empathize or feel bad for Dev.

So true achai ka zamaana hi nahi raha.That's why a guy like Dev gets free pass.Guy like Riwtick get criticized n also Sona gets criticizedsome time.Also Ritwick aka Jay's height n look is made fun.He has been give name like Chirkut,Cheele huey aloo n what not.Dev cannot be questioned by any one.If the person real or reel does that.They also criticized.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: sajinifaby

Strange it is for me
When the language n tone is of hatred
Acha hai we have many who knows how to stand against injustice

Strange it is for me
To know was there a need to open another post to start it all over again?
Acha hai same energy toh lana hai to win a point Kyunki waha pe discussion equal thi

Strange it is for me
Ki KRPKAB mein all want ideal characters, n continue supporting side cameo..N watching it for them
Acha hai unhe bhi Haq hai Na to have real fans

Strange it is for me
That life mein I went thru all this n still going thru, Phir bhi I understand Dev's position n empathise
Acha hai achai ka zamaana hi nahi raha..


Wah, kya shayari! You make a great poet. It is said that when the heart has experienced pain, it then releases the sweetest aroma in life. It is the turning point in life. The posts that you make reveal your heart! In humor there is pain, in pain, there is humor. This is something that only a life of rich experience can speak. Outwardly it appears to be a mystery but to one who is willing to unravel the mystery by going to the depths of it, it is no more a mystery but a revelation of truth. That is why it is said, deep calls unto deep. Only one who has been in the depths can understand another who has been in the depths!

I read most posts but chose to respond to what I consider are only balanced views. One cannot even engage in a discussion, leave aside making a point that will be heard, when the discourse has gone way above the subject itself.

But after reading your comment, I can only concur, strange are mans ways! There are some things in this world difficult for man to understand, the way of an eagle in the sky, the way of a serpent on a rock, and the ways of a man with his maiden!,

PS - before the discourse changes, man means 'human' not the gender!
Edited by pkbdas61 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#84
Being a Men I oppose the generalized view.Saying Men r always strange.That just don't justify any men's crime or justify his action of not standing up for his love.But resort to doing bad things like Stalking,Cancel loan n buy the place,spoil their date.Behave like a bully.If Men try thiking sensibly.Keeping aside their MCP thinking n male ego.They can understand everything.Also understand women feeling better.Also respect her wife or GF family as his family.Treat them has his own parents.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: Sweet_Ashum

Notwithstanding with spoilers of R being negative and all

IRL if a guy whose nursed a broken heart himself and took quite sometime to get out of it sees a girl willing to move on and asking him to help her in the journey and subsequently sees all the things the ex has done he is bound to be a knight in shining armour for her

Had this been a serial where this 2nd guy was the ML people would have gone ga ga over him as to how he's sticking by his fiancee and he should confront the ex. Exactly what R is doing now

Just because we know he's not the ML and we desperately want the leads united we are not trying to see both sides of the coin

Its actually quite commendable that the CVs are showing this side too. Not many do that


Hit the bulls eye 👏

What I noticed on this forum is Hypocrisy, biased and pre- conceived ideas for the ML. In any romantic situation the leads in love is a delight to watch and DEevakasi had good chemistary.but it does mean that one can force his / her love on the other.

R is getting into an arranged marriage and is rightly trying to get into a love which is matured and slow- at happens in such marriages. This is not a first sight spark but a gradual one.😊


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Posted: 9 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

I can speak for myself. I don't want a Ideal character.Flawed character is good.But being stagnant is the problem.Now for me Dev does not look like a flawed character.He look like obsessed psycho lover n a bully.If he can't take a stand for his love.He just need to back off.Instead troubling Sona n Ritwick.Does he have guts to say what all he did to his mom. Dev come across coward n spineless guy.Who can do drama n trouble others.Do not think about Sona's parents.For him his wish n his mom wish matters.Others get pain does not matter to him. There is no character growth in him.Not asking Dev to behave like god.But Dev need to behave like a sensible guy. He is in this situation because of him n not because of others.He is responsible for the state he is.He can only help him.If he is not ready to help him.Then he need to back of.I don't empathize or feel bad for Dev.

So true achai ka zamaana hi nahi raha.That's why a guy like Dev gets free pass.Guy like Riwtick get criticized n also Sona gets criticizedsome time.Also Ritwick aka Jay's height n look is made fun.He has been give name like Chirkut,Cheele huey aloo n what not.Dev cannot be questioned by any one.If the person real or reel does that.They also criticized.


Hold it yar peace

..I have read the maximum post now and let's get it straight that it's jus a show

Shaheer Erica jai supriya j are all getting paid for what dey do..durijoy N shekawat too have a clear story in mind..Mamta yash and sony are promoting well..aap itna kyon feel bad kar rHe ho

Two things

This s dev s journey so obviously he has a back story he has a mother and he fell in love with a girl who s diametrically opposite to his thought process..so they got attracted to each other and since both are pure souls they cudnt stop being in love..time struck and they stand separated .
.now coming to the acquisition abt rithik being bashed.. firstly he s genuinely good so my sympathies with him. Secondly he accepted sona with her past kudos to such a male. Thirdly he had the guts to face an influential dev and blow him into pieces..another Pat on the back..
but what effect it had on dev or his dewangi? Nothing not even zilch.. neither ritu s Bashan affected dev. Not his togetherness helped sona move on!!! Why ?
Coz he doesn't have a depth in his characterization..he came he made her feel better and now he should go.
.come on guys he had talk to sona abt the news first. Take her along and confront dev ..in this show everyone take their decisions and Do what's right for them...same did ritu..I see no fault of him here ..so having done tis it'd time for him to move on...his need s no more as he made dev realize something which ll b revealed today

dev s spinless , he does not have courage to confront his mom and cries bucket - but still this story belongs to dixits and their only intruder ms. Bose. So let's all wait and watch what all natak comes on Monday..actor bashing character bashing ll only spoil the zest of d show. Sab hadh k andar h mazaa Deta h or else we too ll becum ish aunty

Sincerely my pov.. peace
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Posted: 9 years ago
#87

Originally posted by: ...Doctor...

So I made a post yesterday about how I felt bad for Dev because he's so DUMB! Here's the link:

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4711216

People on that post taught me or rather lectured me that it was really mean of me to tag an emotionally vulnerable person as dumb, told me that I had no right to use such a word for Dev etc. etc.


Today people on the forum are calling Ritwik dumb, telling him to stop barking on Dev, making posts on how Ritwick has no right to question Dev, making fun of that poor guy and everybody's enjoying such posts. Such hypocrisy, much wow.

Just because Dev is the male lead and he's hot so he has all the rights to be weak, to stalk a girl and still claim to respect girls, to interfere in a girl's life without her permission and get away with it, to emotionally harass someone to the level of insanity, to not stand up for his love but he shouldn't be tagged as dumb because he regrets his decision and he was compelled to do the aforementioned things and he's so cute. Wow!

But Ritwick who accepted Sona with her past, took all insults of Dev, tried to help Sona in moving on, respected her family, stood up for what was right, can be called dumb because the aforementioned things are signs of dumbness. Amazing 👏


What hypocrisy!


👍🏼 im glad sum1said this
just the male lead is handsome & the audience has grown to like him all the months & because te male and female lead look good together THAT dosent mean the other introduced guy is ad or is not worthy of the lead and cannot question the lead when he is affected by his actions.
I still feel Ritwick is better for sona than Dev. look at dev he cant even let his mother know that he still misses sonakshi and broke up because of her
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Posted: 9 years ago
#88
*reads some of the comments on this post*
*bangs my head on the table*
*kicks the wall hard for good measure*
*shouts to the void: HOW HARD IS IT TO UNDERSTAND THAT ANY PRECONCEIVED NOTIONS OF "MALE LEAD" AND "MEANT-TO-BE" AND "END GAME" DO NOT TRUMP THE BASIC DECENCIES EXPECTED OF A HUMAN BEING*
*composes self* Ahem. That's it. I have lost my faith in the human race. 🤪
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Posted: 9 years ago
#89

Originally posted by: sajinifaby

Strange it is for me
When the language n tone is of hatred
Acha hai we have many who knows how to stand against injustice

Strange it is for me
To know was there a need to open another post to start it all over again?
Acha hai same energy toh lana hai to win a point Kyunki waha pe discussion equal thi

Strange it is for me
Ki KRPKAB mein all want ideal characters, n continue supporting side cameo..N watching it for them
Acha hai unhe bhi Haq hai Na to have real fans

Strange it is for me
That life mein I went thru all this n still going thru, Phir bhi I understand Dev's position n empathise
Acha hai achai ka zamaana hi nahi raha..


Now that you've said all this, I think it deserves a reply.
First things first, if you're actually in a relationship with a guy like Dev and survived it then kudos to you for that.

Secondly, this thread is about the hypocrisy of forum members who say whatever they want to when people make posts against their amazing male lead but can make similar posts for the side characters and still claim to be "mahaan"
So your point is that if a male lead turns grey and there's a side character who's believable and nice then we should support the male lead because he's the "hero"? Why? Everybody has their own opinions and choices. If you like the male lead and justify his actions, good for you. I don't support him. Is it necessary to support the leads of a show? I didn't read the 'guide to watch daily soaps'. Sorry.

Thirdly, what ideal characters? Every character has been ruined to the point of no return. The promos and initial episodes promised something totally different. Dev was never an ideal man but he was honest, strong and believable. He's none of those things now. Ishwari was real, caring towards her family and thoughtful. She's none of those now.

Thanks for the reply.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#90

Originally posted by: rope_and_anchor

*reads some of the comments on this post*
*bangs my head on the table*
*kicks the wall hard for good measure*
*shouts to the void: HOW HARD IS IT TO UNDERSTAND THAT ANY PRECONCEIVED NOTIONS OF "MALE LEAD" AND "MEANT-TO-BE" AND "END GAME" DO NOT TRUMP THE BASIC DECENCIES EXPECTED OF A HUMAN BEING*
*composes self* Ahem. That's it. I have lost my faith in the human race. 🤪


This is what I want to do. I've lost the will to explain what we're trying to say because nobody gets it 😆

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