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lavanya

@dlavanya

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: tina59

As a 30 plus adult, he didn't need to bring in his dad into all his issues. He didn't need to tell his dad about the issues as he handled it well himself.

No dear i am talking abt sen's visit after news paper came out in the morning.rithik came with his dad.. Why didnt he take care of explaining to his dad the sotuation.. Rithik did not open his mouth until sona told his dad that she alread told rithik every thing.:

Alsoi am so glad cvs showed that rithik is a normal human and he too gets angry.. Otherwise i was starting to think he is saint rithik or reincarnation of mother teresa..

Also he is just 26/25 not a 30 yr old but that is not the point
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Also i do root for devakshi but i want dev to redeem before that happens.. I do not bash rithik at all.

Edited by dlavanya - 9 years ago

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charminggenie

@charminggenie

Stunner

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Posted: 9 years ago

#52

Engagement is on. So Ritwick clearly calmed his dad down and stood by his commitment to Sona. Hmm, isn't that what we wish from Dev? To be firm with Ishwari and take his own stand for Sona?

Ritwick is a plot device but what we object is how he is being used as the easiest escape route to elevate and eschew Dev. If anyone truly care for Dev-Sona, they will see what is being done..but whatever.

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gemini54

@gemini54

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#53

This whole so called love story of Dev and Sona is laugh worthy and Dev and Easwari relationship pukeworthy

Kuch Rang Pyaar ke aide Bhi...this rang is tainted as hell and surely runs

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lavanya

@dlavanya

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: charminggenie
Engagement is on. So Ritwick clearly calmed his dad down and stood by his commitment to Sona. Hmm, isn't that what we wish from Dev? To be firm with Ishwari and take his own stand for Sona?
Ritwick is a plot device but what we object is how he is being used as the easiest escape route to elevate and eschew Dev. If anyone truly care for Dev-Sona, they will see what is being done..but whatever.

It is a story thay cvs are telling.. As long as they dont show rothik as negative character i am ok with it..
We all know it is the story of dev and sona from the beginnig... So if rithik is helping in bringing out the real feelings that sona has for dev (clearly she has not moved on)... Then i am ok with cvs using rithik as a plot device to move the story fwd..

Pls dont turn rithik negative to show that dev is saviour .. Thats all i can ask from cvs

We want to see changes in devs charachter and he should learn to stand up for sona and for his love.. He will do it eventually... Until then i am wiating

Edited by dlavanya - 9 years ago

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aaliah3108

@aaliah3108

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: AnnaPaquinFan
Frankly speaking your posts are probably the best thing about this forum right now. Bang on post once again.
What Rirwik did today was a natural reaction of a fiance towards the stalking interfering plotting and planning ex of his would be.
We can discuss wrong or right. But you know where do I find the biggest hypocrisy? ? When R's character was introduced people used to say look at him he's too good too white to be true therefore we can't relate to his character. We need to see flaws and human moments of non-perfection and weakness and faults in him to add flesh and blood to his character.
So my question to those who found him at fault today are you guys then warming up to him now ?? ;) Come on don't people gaga over a certain extremely almost irredeemably flawed guy ??

The last line Gargi.. .. .. it does not appeal to me. And im saying this without any Sarcasm etc dear. Everything that shines is not gold in real Life. A whirlwind, sweeping off the feet type personality or an extremely understanding caring.. .. wanting nothing for himself guy... .. too hard for me to believe .. Its not prejudice trust me. Just experience. I really would like to know more. And coming to Dev...it comes to the same thing see.. I can speak for myself .. Im not averse towards ritvik... I find him good... He is what he is and he is lucky to be what he is coz of the quality of life he has had until now. I see the qualites in him Of a free thinking individual.. . But I cannot compare him to Dev or Dev to him. ... Coz Devs quality of life has been extremely tragic.. .and very very different... Its said that the Foundation years of a child lay the character sketch... . . If I can try to understand how Ritvik is. ... I Wil definitely give a chance to Dev to try and see if he can redeem himself. The world we live in does not live on cut to cut emotions... There needs to be a balance of right and wrong... All this will need time and a new set of situations. .. Unless we give him time to at least make an attempt how will it happen... cant happen in two min na. Well all this is my POV and it does not reinforce any thing on anyone. I will always be on the side to give him a chance.

P. S: Just like anyone who despises Dev do not like to be genralized as being anti Dev or anything.. ... there are others too who do not hate Ritvik... and generalising everyone as Haters is not good either. Quite a few of us are open to discussions. .. and no one is asking for a change of opinion at all. At least I am not so I guess we can stop mocking by keeping everyone in the same flock.
Come to think of it... what is being asked to done is being done itself... If anyone feels offended... .im sorry i did not mean so. I feel there is no shame in saying sorry for anything that hurts anyone even though its unitentional.

Edited by aaliah3108 - 9 years ago

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charminggenie

@charminggenie

Stunner

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Posted: 9 years ago

#56

I think Dev benefits from being a flawed character but he is not a real human but a character which means you push his graph up which is stagnant . He might not have that upbringing but he had worldly experience far more than Ritwick- a businessman , tycoon, with daily interactions with women like Tina . His smart way of tackling mom when he got that internship for his sister at his place. this dumbness and stupidity is okay once but the way they have handled and pushed him , it's a tough ride.

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

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Posted: 9 years ago

#57

Since you asked the difference between Ritwik staying silent and Dev staying silent, here's the major difference. Dev loved Sona and Sona loved Dev. Ritwik doesn't love Sona and Sona doesn't love Dev. So when Dev stayed silent, he betrayed Sona.

It's like saying Sona cried when Dev dumped her so she also should have been heart-broken when Ritwik's father decided to end the wedding. NOT the same situation.

Originally posted by: aaliah3108
😆 see i did not see Ritvik standing up for Sona!! ! When Sona said I told him everything... Its then that he pitched in.. .. . And what did his dad say... . I will have to rethink about the decision... . And Ritvik was stumped too and followed his dad out.. Did he oppose when his Dad silenced him.. .. NO. . .. OK not bringing in Dev here but I dont see that Ritvik did anythibg different!! ! Kahan hai different.. .. dikhao.. . Id like to see. Ritvik too did what Dev has been doing.. .. If it was that simple... This visibility that he is aware of Sona 's past should have been explained by him to his dad... no??? Why..? Coz he has been shown to be a frank and practical person... I expect him now to have taken care of this situation in the way he has been shown to handle Sona' s relationship issues.. . ... the crux of the matter is.. .. Neither did Dev speak for Sona in front of his mom.. . Nor has Ritvik spoken in front of his dad as such.. .. I see no difference in approach... Show me please if there is.

And to add.. I absolutely abhor the Boses pleading to them in order to save the marriage. Mr Bose who threw the jewellery box back on Ishwari saying Sona is his pride could not say a word on this... OK I agree its embarassing but its not like Sona did a mistake in falling in love... she did fall in love is a fact that cannot be changed and were we not told that Ritvik had a past too... Then why this reaction!? ?? OK may be because his love affair was not out in the open or assuming the kind of sane up bringing he has had.. . He may have or may nit have told his dad... I dont know!! It was a hidden past or an open one does not change the fact that he did do it! once again same situation has been created ..the girl is being judged like Ishwari judged Sona and now Ritvik's father is judging her, his Son has a past too !! ! its becoming more like the rectification of some action gone wrong! Is this the only way to move on... Do it... . Just do it at any cost... . Is this not the same kind of pressure on sona to attempt to make this work anyhow... Somehow.. Just like it is on Dev to leave Sona.. .. Aren't both set of parents coaxing their children to follow what they want... all this is just so complicated.

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

#58

So so true 👏

Now if we come to think of it, one more point I would love to add is - Rithvik didn't protest or shout back at his father when his father was talking to them, but he did interrupt twice. And that's kind of maximum what can be done when it's an arranged marriage. Before the alliance is concrete, in arranged marriage we don't and cant expect the would-be groom to be a rebel. For Dev it was a love marriage, he was the thread by whom Sona was going to be bonding with others, love marriage always demands extra responsibility from the groom and the couple than arranged marriages ..

Life is no fairy tale, everyone has to fight one's own battle, Rithvik can't act like a savior to Sona's problems and baggages all the time, but we need a companion who will be beside you in all your fights, not someone who will walk away leaving you alone in the battleground. While Dev has done the later, Rithvik is the former one, the desirable one. 😆

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CoffeeCake

@CoffeeCake

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

#59

I wonder why all male leads are douche?

Why cant a handsome be a good person as well?

At last they would make Rithvik a psycho lover to glorify some epic love.

Disappointed the way Dev handled this matter. He cant have his cake and eat it too. Either he should stick with maa ka pallu and continue his Maa jaap forever, or grow some spine and take a stand for his love.

Disappointed the way this entire break up mess was handled. Moving on doesnt mean another guy in your life. Heart is not Gopi bahu that you can replace one face with another overnight.

Stupid writers.

Edited by Divine-Pearl - 9 years ago

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Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#60

Honestly I feel some reacted not only here.But also in SNS.As if it was not Ritwick who questioned Dev.It was Jay questioning Shaheer.Because they did not understand yest situation.Also Ritwick questioning Dev.When Dev came to destroy their date.Some were like Dev need to punch Ritwick.How dare that chirkut question him.He is not tall as Dev n what not.

Now questioning why Ritwick did not say anything to his dad reg Dev N Sona.But ready to analyze Dev's walk n body language .Come to conclusion that he was disgusted by Ishwari.When Ishwari blamed Sona.Dev can't be questioned if he do mistake also.If done.There will so much defense for him.

Ritwick a guy who stand up for the girl's honor.Who he is going to get married.That guy is tagged as Dumb n bashed saying how dare he question Dev.

Simple theory be it show n forum.Whatever ML do he gets free pass.Others will be bashed left right n center.

If Dev did not do any mistake.Ishwari also did not do any mistake.

Edited by VIMAL.M - 9 years ago

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