Sona also doing wrong

In today episode ,before fight...sona doesn't want to do engagement soon and asks for time from his father and now during fight, she wants to do engagement and even marriage as soon as possible. She is so rushing everything and taking wrong decision just like dev did during breakup. She is very angry and that's why she didn't think about what she is doing...by taking marriage decision in a hurry ,she forget to think about future conclusion... She will not only ruining her own life but also of ritwik.

After having a normal childhood and supportive family she still unable to think right after the breakup ...she is taking impulsive decisions ...even the strongest of strongest can have a weak moment ..glad to see she is not portrayed as super women who can never be wrong...this gives us more reason why she she will be able to understand Dev''s dilemma as she herself made a similar mistake ..

Originally posted by: yyy

After having a normal childhood and supportive family she still unable to think right after the breakup ...she is taking impulsive decisions ...even the strongest of strongest can have a weak moment ..glad to see she is not portrayed as super women who can never be wrong...this gives us more reason why she she will be able to understand Dev''s dilemma as she herself made a similar mistake ..

My only hope is makers should focus on Sona''s redemption track along with Dev..both have to learn a lot when it comes to relationship. ...

My only worry is they should not follow the typical serial track where FL can never be wrong and all her mistakes are justified in the name if sacrifice

Copy pasting from another post , because really don't have much more to add , except the last part in P.S.

Originally posted by: yyy

After having a normal childhood and supportive family she still unable to think right after the breakup ...she is taking impulsive decisions ...even the strongest of strongest can have a weak moment ..glad to see she is not portrayed as super women who can never be wrong...this gives us more reason why she she will be able to understand Dev''s dilemma as she herself made a similar mistake ..

My only hope is makers should focus on Sona''s redemption track along with Dev..both have to learn a lot when it comes to relationship. ...

My only worry is they should not follow the typical serial track where FL can never be wrong and all her mistakes are justified in the name if sacrifice

Are we comparing Sid of SGP with Dev ? I have watched SGP from beginning and from no angle we see any similarities between the two characters .

Originally posted by: AnnaPaquinFan

Copy pasting from another post , because really don't have much more to add , except the last part in P.S.

Yes she isn't any where close to moving on right now, I agree , what with her shuffling with Dev's pic as her pastime at night in her phone , but that doesn't mean she isn't trying n she won't try .

And that doesn't mean her relationship with R is doomed from the very beginning. Actually far from that . Rithik and she are spending lots of quality time with each other on a daily basis , going out regularly , she has even started to smile and chat when with him , even Elena couldn't make her do it but R can.

R is not n nor he gonna push her into being a wife in the real meaning of the term soon post-marriage. Till now his character is immensely positive n supportive n understanding . So why not get married first and move on after marriage ?? Is there any rule you must sort out your feelings for your ex before the marriage happens ?? If the groom has no problem waiting for as long as she needs , then who are we to object ??

Koi jabardasti hain kya , " You can't get married till you've fully moved on ." ??

By the way , it's absolutely Sona's right whether she'll get engaged and married to Rithik while still in love with Dev . No body can question or dictate her on this. It's her marriage her life and she isn't hurting any body or being dishonest with her future partner.

P.S. In SGP , the previous superhit show of Jay Soni, there Suhana married Ishaan only to prove a point to her ex-bf Sid and also to make her father happy ( notice the basic similarities in the circumstances of these two marriages ) and when she got married she was much more of an emotional wreck than Sona is currently in and yet what happened ?? Suhana and Ishaan fell deeply in love with each other , much time after marriage and were extremely happy with each other in the end.

So just because Ishaan was the hero there and Rithik is not here KRPKAB , rules changed, kya ???

It's considered regressive because R treated Sona like a human being n with utmost respect and support and honesty , n Dev doesn't respect Sona even a little bit. He needs to back off at this point , or else Sona will start to hate him and rightfully .

Originally posted by: rose4ever

Bang on. I was about to reply, saw this and didn't need to😆

Just adding a small point.

It happens a lot of times in reality where either the girl or the guy marries soon after break up even if they have not moved on, but they still manage to make a life for themselves together and fall in love with who they marry and be happy. Here, just because we want Devakshi to end up together,Sona's decision is being questioned and criticized.

Isn't it too early to say Ritvick never disrespected Sonakshi''s wishes and would not to do that in future ...have we seen how Ritvick behaves in a stressful situation and how he would react if he is struck between his love and family ..till now he comes across as a sensible guy as the circumstances around him is normal ..