Great post. It was nice to see Bijoy giving Ishwari a big dose of reality. Also love how he said that even if she comes begging back for Sona, he will not give his daughter to her. (Foreshadowing, huh?)
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Great post. It was nice to see Bijoy giving Ishwari a big dose of reality. Also love how he said that even if she comes begging back for Sona, he will not give his daughter to her. (Foreshadowing, huh?)
Originally posted by: Malvika07
What a lovely post, aditi!! Loved the different perspective on bandhe hue paav.
You're very correct. Balance has always been Dev's problem. When he was in love initially, he forgot about everything else. Then when trauma hit him, he quickly forgot about love. Now again, when heartbreak is knocking on his door, he's forgetting that he broke up with Sonakshi, and she has every right to move on.I don't really mind him behaving like a jealous possessive boyfriend. But all the nonsense that he's doing in the name of love (messing with R's loan- he has himself struggled very hard to reach where he is, how can he of all ppl mess with someone else's dreams and aspirations? He crossed a line with this one I feel, Taking advantage of Sonakshi's dedication towards her work and calling her to the restaurant and torturing her with old memories) I think maybe they should tone this down a bit.It's getting more disturbing because of the contrast shown in R's character. He is just about the most sorted guy you can come across.But I guess what they want to convey is, the heart wants what it wants!
Malvika - Thanks so much😳
I agree that he is somewhere crossing the line in his attempt to still keep walking two steps behind her! But his character was always portrayed as someone who will take action and then think about consequences - he has never known any other way-If he did stop R's loan, he is being unreasonable BUT then who's going to tell him that-on his own he is a lose canon who doesn't know how to strike a balance between good and evil - in Dumbledore's words ...we all have good and bad within us, it's part we choose to act upon makes us who we are- he is nothing but a lost child who will slowly but surely realise that life sometimes doesn't offer a second chance, one needs to learn and rectify mistakes to create that second chance -I am sure he will!!😊
Originally posted by: spacenoxx
He learnt nothing. He is being his normal self. Stalking and bullying.Rest of the post is excellent👏
Originally posted by: enchanted23
Malvika - Thanks so much😳
I agree that he is somewhere crossing the line in his attempt to still keep walking two steps behind her! But his character was always portrayed as someone who will take action and then think about consequences - he has never known any other way-If he did stop R's loan, he is being unreasonable BUT then who's going to tell him that-on his own he is a lose canon who doesn't know how to strike a balance between good and evil - in Dumbledore's words ...we all have good and bad within us, it's part we choose to act upon makes us who we are- he is nothing but a lost child who will slowly but surely realise that life sometimes doesn't offer a second chance, one needs to learn and rectify mistakes to create that second chance -I am sure he will!!😊
Originally posted by: LiveLife321
Wonderful post 👏
He is a man of extremes always. There no in between for this guy. Whether its right or wrong, he is a man of actions always. Whether we consider his straight forward talk with natasha on their engagement break-up even with out knowing what Sona feels for him or his impulsive break-up decision with Sona with out even thinking about the pain he is going to choose for both of them.He said to Sona in the start of the show that he will loose the sense of right or wrong when it comes to his mother and now he is the same Mr.Dev dixit who is loosing the sense of right or wrong to desperately hang on to his life line called Sona(even though he is delusional about Sona's thoughts). Nothing got changed wrt this characteristic of Mr. Dev dixit. His love failed to bring balance in his life but i hope his pain will surely do the needful in making him understand this aspect.😊
Originally posted by: Malvika07
OMG OMG a HP reference!!! This made my day. True, and so apt for Dev. Also, this reminded me of another Dumbledore quote - It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to your enemies, but a great deal more to stand up to your friends. In Dev's case, family. I'm waiting for the day he gathers enough courage for this😊
Originally posted by: enchanted23
Hi Latha- I am Aditi and thanks so much for your views😊I think the process of learning and realisation has already started,his desperate attempt to convince himself that she still loves him and nothing has changed is his way of dealing with this innate fear that she is moving away from him-all this unreasonable behaviour is result of his anxious heart and guilty mind reminds me of that song ..."Tum itna jo muskura rahe ho..kya gam hai jisko chupa rahe ho" 😳
Originally posted by: enchanted23
Hahha HP - always manages to ruffle some very fond memories right- I didn't even keep count on how many times I read those,something that will always have it's right place in my heart! Yes let's wait for that moment when Dev manages to do that,it's time he stood up for himself,if not Sonakshi!!
Originally posted by: Malvika07
@Bold : So true! This should've happened. I was actually excited for the jealousy track coz I wanted to see the jealous Dev, I'm kinda shallow that way😛Me included! what's love without angst,passion and ache 😆But I never expected it to take this turn wherein he just completely loses it and becomes a conniving man who plays with someone's future. Some spoilers suggest that he is gonna offer money to R to move away from Sonakshi. How does that make him any different than Gujral?I echo your sentiment. I've lost the connect I had to this story. Before, every episode had that re-watch quality. Nowadays, I just watch it for shaheer and erica.Something about the team has changed. The drama quotient has been steadily rising ever since Ishwari's chulha nonsense.I don't know what's left to salvage of this situation now.
Originally posted by: enchanted23
Just loved the discussion here,couldn't help but jump in with my points!!Come on Aditi...Its your post & feel free to jump in any time because its always glad to know different perspectives for our better understanding.