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Posted: 9 years ago
#51
@ sunflower52 - Dev could have left that decision to Sona.He should have said her give me some time.I will convince my mom.I don't know the the time frame in which I will achieve this.It can take 1 month or a year.Still then if you want to wait for me or not.That will be your call.But I will keep trying to convince my mom.But Dev did not give that decision making power to Sona.He himself decided everything on his own.Not felt the need to consult Sona n hear her POV.He pre-decided everything.Just said his decision to her.We r breaking up.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sona said in relation there will be problem,fights n arguments.If we r together we will fight.But Dev does not wanted to be with her n fight.He choose his mom over her.So we cannot expect Sona to fight solo battle for her love.How long will she battle alone for that man who is not ready to suppourt her.

Moving on is the most hardest thing to do after break-up.But life does not wait for any one.If Dev does not fight for their love at all.At one point Sona need to move on.Lets first see how this track plays.What Sona does.Right now we know marriage alliance talk is going on n Sona said about her past to Ritivk.Ritvik said he will wait for her decision.

Reg IF engagement spoiler.I don't think that is true.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#53
Hmm seriously? Sona loved dev more than he cud think! She went through that one sided love she was ready to give up here love when she heard dev was getting engaged to Natasha a women who truly loves will always give up her own love for that person when she feels that he cud be happy he can bc for her all she wants is his happiness. Okay I'm not trying to say that she also gave up on dev after dev brokeup bc she thought his happiness was his ma so she shud but bc he was a guy who cudn't stand up for himself.. he dint even try to tell his mom that he truly loved her n needs her to be fulfilled in his life he cud have ryt? Dev is going through tough time i feel bad for him ik he is guy who always gave up things for mom but he shud have done something to keep sona when he had promised her that he will? Well they both love each other deeply dev without knowing how it cud effect him if sona is not there with him is what he has to learn he broke up with her easily now let him know what he is going to go through bc of his decision and breaking her heart. Well if dev can break her heart for his mom why can't she for sake of their parents happiness try to move on in lyf!?
No offense to anybody
Ps i love devakshi i don't want them to get separated but for now i feel sona is doing ryt and i feel bad for dev for he himself took such a bad decision for himself and nobody else did!
Edited by Gautamyagya04 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: aaliah3108

All of us think from one perspective and what we think. Love does not die that easy.. .. It stays and keeps the flame alive. I am not in anyone's side. I agree Dev has committed a mistake in not standing up for his love and letting it go so easily but he is not a bad person that we wish he suffer for his entire life. People do make mistakes and repent on them and try to rectify but for that u need to give them a chance. In life its not always a cut to cut answer. U need to find a middle path... there are times in life that make u sit back and think... This is one such instances. This world wont function if people r not forgiven for their mistakes. A genuine effort definitely deserves a second thought. He definitely deserves a chance. Likewise Sona will also need to sit back and realise whom she actually loved. When u love a person u need to accept both the good and bad... U just cannot choose to stay with the Good part. I am not asking her to not try to move on.. . She has all rights but I want an introspection too from both sides. Then only its worth fighting for from Dev and worth waiting for from sona. Both of them love each other... I have no doubts on the love they have for each other... They need to really understand how important it is for them to stay with each other and for that if needed they will need to make tough choice. If Dev has to stand up against his mother so does Sona have to do now coz her family will not b with her this time.. They will not approve of him so easily... So Aren't both in same situation now .. Can both of them do so??? I really really want to see the journey... Moving on is the simplest thing for now.


Ruchi @bold Take a bow👏👏 Dev has made big mistakes but if he realizes that and learns and makes a genuine effort to balance between his mother and Sona, he definitely deserves a chance. He is one unfortunate guy.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaliah3108

All of us think from one perspective and what we think. Love does not die that easy.. .. It stays and keeps the flame alive. I am not in anyone's side. I agree Dev has committed a mistake in not standing up for his love and letting it go so easily but he is not a bad person that we wish he suffer for his entire life. People do make mistakes and repent on them and try to rectify but for that u need to give them a chance. In life its not always a cut to cut answer. U need to find a middle path... there are times in life that make u sit back and think... This is one such instances. This world wont function if people r not forgiven for their mistakes. A genuine effort definitely deserves a second thought. He definitely deserves a chance. Likewise Sona will also need to sit back and realise whom she actually loved. When u love a person u need to accept both the good and bad... U just cannot choose to stay with the Good part. I am not asking her to not try to move on.. . She has all rights but I want an introspection too from both sides. Then only its worth fighting for from Dev and worth waiting for from sona. Both of them love each other... I have no doubts on the love they have for each other... They need to really understand how important it is for them to stay with each other and for that if needed they will need to make tough choice. If Dev has to stand up against his mother so does Sona have to do now coz her family will not b with her this time.. They will not approve of him so easily... So Aren't both in same situation now .. Can both of them do so??? I really really want to see the journey... Moving on is the simplest thing for now.



Ruchi... Ditto ditto ditto!! 🤗 To fall in love it's easy. But you need to stick to your promises. And both made promises. I find fault in both of them. And both gave up too easily...that's the saddest part. Anyways this separation will make them only stronger..
Aaj ka forum posts dekhke mujhe dar lag raha hai.. 😕 it's all extremes! And I'm too skeptical if I need to post my take!! Ha ha..
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Posted: 9 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: aaliah3108

All of us think from one perspective and what we think. Love does not die that easy.. .. It stays and keeps the flame alive. I am not in anyone's side. I agree Dev has committed a mistake in not standing up for his love and letting it go so easily but he is not a bad person that we wish he suffer for his entire life. People do make mistakes and repent on them and try to rectify but for that u need to give them a chance. In life its not always a cut to cut answer. U need to find a middle path... there are times in life that make u sit back and think... This is one such instances. This world wont function if people r not forgiven for their mistakes. A genuine effort definitely deserves a second thought. He definitely deserves a chance. Likewise Sona will also need to sit back and realise whom she actually loved. When u love a person u need to accept both the good and bad... U just cannot choose to stay with the Good part. I am not asking her to not try to move on.. . She has all rights but I want an introspection too from both sides. Then only its worth fighting for from Dev and worth waiting for from sona. Both of them love each other... I have no doubts on the love they have for each other... They need to really understand how important it is for them to stay with each other and for that if needed they will need to make tough choice. If Dev has to stand up against his mother so does Sona have to do now coz her family will not b with her this time.. They will not approve of him so easily... So Aren't both in same situation now .. Can both of them do so??? I really really want to see the journey... Moving on is the simplest thing for now.

Well said🤗
I totally second each and every word of yours😳 Dev is a good soul at heart, He loves Sonakshi truly. . And Everybody makes mistakes. . Whether you realise and rectify it, is more important. He deserves a second chance, if he can fight for his love.
Yes, moving on will be the simplest way out now. . But what will make their love stronger and their journey amazing is how they fight all the odds to get back. And I agree, Bijoy already looks like he won't approve of Dev ever. . When Sonakshi's family was trying to coax Sona about what could be the reason, Bijoy cut the talk straight away.
I am so looking forward to these two, they are truly, madly, deeply in love😳
And I disagree that Sonakshi never truly loved Dev. .all the answers above me well justify why😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: sunflower52

Sona did or still does love Dev but to bad Dev did not love her enough to fight for her or their love.

How Sona fight a one sided battle where the Dev is not ready to even lift a finger. Also why should she put her family through pain where they have always supported her decisions. So Sona is giving them back what her family deserves, her acceptance and support. Which right now neither selfish Dev & his family deserves.

I would love to see the ending as Sona truly moving on in her career and life.If I were the cv's of this show would have not made Sona go back to Dev.

Dev was always selfish when it comes to his mother & family, to bad he could not extended this to his love. To me it's Dev who could not love Sona enough to fight and yes also respect her & her family.

I felt nothing when I saw Dev cry, to me he brought this pain all on himself.

Sona go for it move on and do not look back.

Agree to each and every word. 👏 👏 👏 Bravo !
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: aaliah3108

All of us think from one perspective and what we think. Love does not die that easy.. .. It stays and keeps the flame alive. I am not in anyone's side. I agree Dev has committed a mistake in not standing up for his love and letting it go so easily but he is not a bad person that we wish he suffer for his entire life. People do make mistakes and repent on them and try to rectify but for that u need to give them a chance. In life its not always a cut to cut answer. U need to find a middle path... there are times in life that make u sit back and think... This is one such instances. This world wont function if people r not forgiven for their mistakes. A genuine effort definitely deserves a second thought. He definitely deserves a chance. Likewise Sona will also need to sit back and realise whom she actually loved. When u love a person u need to accept both the good and bad... U just cannot choose to stay with the Good part. I am not asking her to not try to move on.. . She has all rights but I want an introspection too from both sides. Then only its worth fighting for from Dev and worth waiting for from sona. Both of them love each other... I have no doubts on the love they have for each other... They need to really understand how important it is for them to stay with each other and for that if needed they will need to make tough choice. If Dev has to stand up against his mother so does Sona have to do now coz her family will not b with her this time.. They will not approve of him so easily... So Aren't both in same situation now .. Can both of them do so??? I really really want to see the journey... Moving on is the simplest thing for now.


Yes Dev has made a mistake and I also do not want him to suffer for life. He needs to realize that for everyone their family & self respect are important. He broke Sona & her family's trust and let see if he does an effort to rectify the mistakes he has made in his obsession to please his mother. He will not only have to win Sona but her family as well and also make his mother understand where she went wrong in a mature way without hurting anyone self respect.

The thing is he took this decision of breaking up unilaterally without Sona's input and his words hurt Sona & made her think that she is not that important to him. That's what most of are mad at him right now.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Two wrongs never make a right. There is no doubt both loved each other but both choose family happiness yes it was dev who first choose his mother happiness and I am sure if situation reverse sona will also choose her family happiness. Dev didn't loved her enough to fight for his love and sona didn't loved him enough to wait for him. And I am sure this triangle help both dev sona how much they love each other what extent they can go to stay together.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#60
In my opinion, Dev was in a way forced to chose his family over Sona. I think Sona is doing the same. Just as much as Dev is concerned for his family, Sona is too. They have stood my her in trying times, and her mom has been worried about her marriage for a while now. And the reason she was pestering Dev to confide at home was also partially because she was worried that she was hurting her family.

So, given a choice, she may not have wanted to do this. But because her family wants this for her, she is accepting it.

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