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Anu-Reddy thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
@An : Yup I agree An about the life cycle thing. Thats why though I found the proposal redundant I loved it. But the pheres .....noo.....me not talking abt it anymore 🤣 man My head hurts at the very "Phere" word...🤣🤣🤣 I want PB to just scroll on screen and say , they got married🤣🤣🤣 me will believe they got married and watch it as a diff show 🤣🤣🤣

Anu
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Posted: 16 years ago
@Aditi: When I started reading the posts in the morning, I was actually shocked. Never ever thought pheras will be the hot topic 😆 I could only think about dham dham and more dham dham and shoddy camera work. 😆
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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: tibs09

aur kucch ho na ho ....adda wasiyon mein jung zaroor ched di hai phero ne ...kahin yeh PB and company ki conspiracy to nahin...yeh ladkiyaan humaari tni tanng khinchti hai ...inke beech mein shagufa chodd do ...aapas mein hi lagi rahengi ...we will be safe 😛

🤣🤣🤣 ghor shadyantra hai un logon ka.🤣 btw i m not intelligent and experianced enough for disscussing this topic, 😳so i m safe reading all views.😃i m wondering why i m so buddhulavi is far intelligent than mebut i love reading this.and aditi ur posts were superb👏🤗
ok, me in gtg mode now.😊 bye.....
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Posted: 16 years ago
@ Anu ...Love means that their is a connection between two souls .."I love you means " yes I care for you ...you are very very important to me ...I feel there is a connection between you and me ...there exists a bond between us ...
Pheras or rather the vows signify that I want you to be a part of my life and soul ...look love is possible ...even without a commitment to spend life together ...there are many people who are married to someone and yet feel that connection to someone else ...
The pheras take that bond to that next level ..that there can never be anyone in between us ... ofcourse they have always felt all this , they loved each other that deeply ...and yesterday they actually voiced it ...what is wrong in that ...if you love someone don't you say so ....
so what is wrong in actually spelling out the extent of your feelings ...what you really feel at the bottom of your heart...it was not as if they were going to cock a snook at their parents and societal customs ...if they wanted a private ritual between just the two of them ...so that it gives them more strength to face the various hurdles ...and reassurance of the others''forever support what is wrong in it ...
It was impulsive action ...like Arohi after impulsively kissed Arjun asked him why he did not tell her the truth ..Arjun too after resisting initially broke down and confessed ....
Arohi does not intend to run away from home ...does not just drop it on her family that she is married ...she wnated it just for private succor ...
Don't be so gussa now ...ab smile kar do 😃
Aditi
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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: tibs09

@ Anu ...Love means that their is a connection between two souls .."I love you means " yes I care for you ...you are very very important to me ...I feel there is a connection between you and me ...there exists a bond between us ...

Pheras or rather the vows signify that I want you to be a part of my life and soul ...look love is possible ...even without a commitment to spend life together ...there are many people who are married to someone and yet feel that connection to someone else ...
The pheras take that bond to that next level ..that there can never be anyone in between us ... ofcourse they have always felt all this , they loved each other that deeply ...and yesterday they actually voiced it ...what is wrong in that ...if you love someone don't you say so ....
so what is wrong in actually spelling out the extent of your feelings ...what you really feel at the bottom of your heart...it was not as if they were going to cock a snook at their parents and societal customs ...if they wanted a private ritual between just the two of them ...so that it gives them more strength to face the various hurdles ...and reassurance of the others''forever support what is wrong in it ...
It was impulsive action ...like Arohi after impulsively kissed Arjun asked him why he did not tell her the truth ..Arjun too after resisting initially broke down and confessed ....
Arohi does not intend to run away from home ...does not just drop it on her family that she is married ...she wnated it just for private succor ...
Don't be so gussa now ...ab smile kar do 😃
Aditi



Be there at Bold 🤣 I dread she will say "Iam married " today 🤣and thats what is killing me 🤣 Anyways its not in my hands , I will smilingly accept my Pagal dost and his even more pagal GF got married and will party tonight if thats the case 🤣

My frustration is over after my last post , now Iam laughing madly 🤣🤣🤣, smiling at my own self for thinking abt two reel life characters so seriously 🤣 No man its not me who was doing all the talking from yesterday 🤣🤣🤣 It can never be me 🤣🤣🤣 I cant believe its me who was so involved in two stupid characters that I started judging if they are right or wrong 🤣🤣🤣 as if I say something and that changes there behaviour 🤣🤣🤣

Anu
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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Anu-Reddy

@Adda : Just one question. Iam reading, re-reading all of ur POVs, have to say Iam confused 🤣🤣🤣 I have never been so confused abt anything in my life as Iam abt my stupid dost and uski shaadi 🤣🤣🤣. Many of u say, its a commitment that they made thru those pheres , right?. Then my questions....

1)What does LOVE mean?
2)Where does ILU fall in place in a love story?
3)When do souls get bond to each other? at ILU or at Phere?
4)When do ppl get commited to each other ? at ILU or at Phere?


For me I thought, always thought in any story context, the moment one soul realizes that its in love with another , it gets bonded to that other soul. This may be one sided but its at Soul-level. Now it gets a real meaning when ppl say ILU or express love to each other. That one line has a lot more deeper meaning to me. It means for me like a webling between two souls. AA after the fire fiasco, said ILUs , I was so overwhlemed seeing that. I cried , i felt like hugging them. There tears ,the fire in the background and the purity of love was so obvious in that scene. For me they have been caught in that webling of soul-bonding right at that moment. I dont think anyone of u will disagree with me over it, if u do pls explain so that I can correct my stance. Anyway moving forward, the proposal came in. Since I thought they are bonded already, just like a web , which can never be properly torn apart , so for me that proposal was of no use. It didnt do much to their relationship according to me. They are already at a point where they will die for each other , so the proposal was redundant. It was beautiful, but cant beautiful things be redundant?. Its again my opinion of seeing things. I can still feel the same love between them even without the proposal scene. Now the pheres again I feel even without the pheres, they were bounded. They are already bonded by love, which is far more deeper and stronger than Marriage. A love can sustain without marriage, but marriage cannot sustain without love, so that makes Love stronger than marriage. Now think abt it, they are in love and they are parted , she gives up her whole life and duniya for the guy JUST BECAUSE OF LOVE and NO COMMITMENT OF MARRIAGE. I will love that love more , its based on just love nothing else. Now what happened yesterday, they made some pheres, they started taking vows blah blah , which for me were very redundant. All that he did for her is enuf proof. He already showed he can leave duniya zindagi for her. Now why does the girl need this commitment to show her side of love?. She didnt ask for it, but isnt it going that way?. She got a commitment now she based on this commitment will leave her duniya et all. but why not do it just for love?. I dont know iam making any sense or not, but for me this love story lost its gleen the moment they started this pheres thing. It was not needed , no need of doing it to show how much they love each other.

Anu

@Anu: Though I agree with you but at the same time I also disagree with you.....

1) Proposal- Any girl would want her boy-friend to go on his knees to propose her.......There are many women/girls in this world who think that a guy going on his knees & proposing then is the most romantic thing their boy-friend can ever do......It might happen that though Arohi is totally in love with Arjun, yet let us not forget that she is any another girl who might have seen the dream that her boy-friend will propose her by going on his knees & this is what Arjun did......They are like any normal couple but the difference in their relation is that they have already proved their love without even asking for the proof.....I have personally seen many couples where they commit 101 things to each-other but at the main moment they back out from standing on their saying......

2) Marriage- Again any girl wants her boyfriend to commit to her & may be only then can she take the next step(go to the next level of love).....Many girls, infact most of the girls are skeptical about their boyfriends & hence they want a firm commitment from them.......Here though neither Arjun nor Arohi though of doing such a thing(I mean taking pheras) yet they wanted to be binded by that relation were there is no one other than themselves & God yet they can experience the feel which any other couple will go through.....Though AA have promised much more than the pheras to each-other but Marriage is still considered the entry ticket to any construcive relation........

You may not agree to what I said, but I just felt like saying my thought......Like you, I too am equally confused reading everyone's POV on yesterday's AA's marriage but I have put forth my POV......

I am not that a good writer as you are but I have tried to justify what you have written.....Though you made complete sense but now I doubt if I made sense in what I wrote😆😆

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Posted: 16 years ago
"Love is the emblem of eternity; it confounds all notion of time; effaces all memory of a beginning, all fear of an end." - Madame De Stael"
HUM DIL DE CHUKE SANAM

Nandini's parents have arranged to get her married to Vanraj - who had fallen in love with Nandini during her cousin's wedding.

In KMH KS fall in love with Arohi during Arohi's sister engagement.

In HDDCS Nandini is forced to marry Vanraj even her parents know Sameer-Nandini love story

In KMH HP now knew the truth about Arjuhi's relationship but will he do?

KS n Arohi will get married even she doesn't want? Will she tell the truth to KS?

What will do KS when he will know the truth?

RANDOM THOUGHT

If Arjun n Arohi get married now……why Arjun is in jail? Where is Arohi?

Kismat se apni sabko shikayat kyo hai
Jo nahi mil sakta usi se Mohabbat kyo hai
Kitne kaayein hai dokhae in rahon mein
Phir bhi dil ko usi ka intezar kyo hai

If Arjun n Arohi doesn't get married now……will KS marry Arohi? What will Arjun do if KS marry Arohi?

Wo Mere Liye Kuchh Khaas Hai Yaro....
Jin Ke Laut Ke Na Aane Ki Aas Hai Yaro....
Wo Nazro Se Dur Hai To Kya Hua ??....
Ban Ke Dil Ki Dhadkan Mere Paas To Hai Yaaro...

True, we love life, not because we are used to living, but because we are used to loving. There is always some madness in love, but there is also always some reason in madness.- Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche
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Posted: 16 years ago
@ Arshiyaa
I know you read my posts!!! was just teasing you!!hehehehe!!..waisey kaalaa kauwa just flew past my window!! lagtaa hai he is looking for KS!!🤣
I'm waiting in anticipation to see today's epi...me thinks he is gonna flip at Arohi!
Love the fevicol idea!!! heheheh! CLASSIC!!!
Miss clever cloggs!!! 😛 mere liye toh KK and Arjun ek hi hai!! Karan Kundra makes Arjun what he is today! Arjun wud not have been the Arjun we see if it wasnt for KK!! 😛😛
Your advice - kaise kahein humein kitani mohabbat hai, KMH se!!..Kitani mohabbat hai!!! hehehehe!!😛😛
Kat.xxx
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Posted: 16 years ago
ok one last thing and we drop this discussion ....I don't think Arohi intended to say i am married ..but then HP was not supposed to be there ....he was not supposed to know ....ab pata nahin .... kya hoga .....
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Posted: 16 years ago
1)What does LOVE mean? Love means that whatever you want it to be, no one can define love so i dont think i can answer that
2)Where does ILU fall in place in a love story? When you know THAT is the person I wanna be with forever
3)When do souls get bond to each other? at ILU or at Phere? Phere of course...cuz evev if you are not in love and get married...you have that phere as an excuse to love your life partner
4)When do ppl get commited to each other ? at ILU or at Phere? This is another question that i dont know how to answer!!!

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