Ria Ka Adda: Slap, Slap and Slap!!! - Page 27

@adda- finally i read all pages till 34.😃i read wonderful posts today and i commented on some posts.😊 but it is very difficult for me to comment on every post.😊

@Adda : Just one question. Iam reading, re-reading all of ur POVs, have to say Iam confused 🤣🤣🤣 I have never been so confused abt anything in my life as Iam abt my stupid dost and uski shaadi 🤣🤣🤣. Many of u say, its a commitment that they made thru those pheres , right?. Then my questions....

1)What does LOVE mean?
2)Where does ILU fall in place in a love story?
3)When do souls get bond to each other? at ILU or at Phere?
4)When do ppl get commited to each other ? at ILU or at Phere?


For me I thought, always thought in any story context, the moment one soul realizes that its in love with another , it gets bonded to that other soul. This may be one sided but its at Soul-level. Now it gets a real meaning when ppl say ILU or express love to each other. That one line has a lot more deeper meaning to me. It means for me like a webling between two souls. AA after the fire fiasco, said ILUs , I was so overwhlemed seeing that. I cried , i felt like hugging them. There tears ,the fire in the background and the purity of love was so obvious in that scene. For me they have been caught in that webling of soul-bonding right at that moment. I dont think anyone of u will disagree with me over it, if u do pls explain so that I can correct my stance. Anyway moving forward, the proposal came in. Since I thought they are bonded already, just like a web , which can never be properly torn apart , so for me that proposal was of no use. It didnt do much to their relationship according to me. They are already at a point where they will die for each other , so the proposal was redundant. It was beautiful, but cant beautiful things be redundant?. Its again my opinion of seeing things. I can still feel the same love between them even without the proposal scene. Now the pheres again I feel even without the pheres, they were bounded. They are already bonded by love, which is far more deeper and stronger than Marriage. A love can sustain without marriage, but marriage cannot sustain without love, so that makes Love stronger than marriage. Now think abt it, they are in love and they are parted , she gives up her whole life and duniya for the guy JUST BECAUSE OF LOVE and NO COMMITMENT OF MARRIAGE. I will love that love more , its based on just love nothing else. Now what happened yesterday, they made some pheres, they started taking vows blah blah , which for me were very redundant. All that he did for her is enuf proof. He already showed he can leave duniya zindagi for her. Now why does the girl need this commitment to show her side of love?. She didnt ask for it, but isnt it going that way?. She got a commitment now she based on this commitment will leave her duniya et all. but why not do it just for love?. I dont know iam making any sense or not, but for me this love story lost its gleen the moment they started this pheres thing. It was not needed , no need of doing it to show how much they love each other.

Anu

@ minnie!! - UR JUST 22222 MUCH!! more like 100 much!! 🤣
My ex- is a witch
I need a switch
Let me get hitched..
🤣
yanks her away from Punji like you rip off an old wall paper from the wall.. taaaaaaaarrrrrrrkkk 🤣🤣 me had a good time LAFHING LIKE HELL!! 🤣🤣🤣 MUM GOT WORRIED THAT IM GONE CRAZY!! had to put up smethin so YOUTUBE!! and i escaped!! 🤣 me cnt wait for ur NEXT commentary!! 😉😉 UR TOO FUNNY!!😆😆😉

Originally posted by: sheetal6

@Raga: I think that yesterday's marriage signified that inspite of not being married(Since Arjun told Ganga that she is not married) to one another yet AA were married.....Though there were no baaraatis, no pandit, no one else to give blessings to the couple yet God was with them.....It's always said that if something has to happen then it cannot happen without God's consent & here HP came in late signified that even God(here PB) has given his consent to AA's union.......May be AA's these pheres bring them together in the present.....It's these pheres' sake for which AA are re-united in the present...This is just my POV & you may differ with me

aur kucch ho na ho ....adda wasiyon mein jung zaroor ched di hai phero ne ...kahin yeh PB and company ki conspiracy to nahin...yeh ladkiyaan humaari tni tanng khinchti hai ...inke beech mein shagufa chodd do ...aapas mein hi lagi rahengi ...we will be safe 😛

@Anjana - just saw the pic of arjun Arohi married ... Awesome Loved it!!

@Anu:

I may sound repetitive again... every perspective is right and every perspective is wrong. It's all about an individual's choice. Some people say, " I Love You" is the most over-rated thing.

I am not sure if I am getting the sequence right but in a relationship:

A boy and A girl meet -- get to know each know -- like to spend time together and feel that there is something special about the girl/guy -- fall in love -- Say I Love you -- Propose + Commit -- get married -- and a completely new circle starts.

The proposal for you did not work because you think, their love is special kind of love bordering divinity and enough is said to show they are committed. But, isn't it a special feeling, to see the guy go down on his knees and pop-up the question even though it's the done deal.

Why deprive these two and not let them enjoy the different phases of love. Each phase has its own charm and special value even if it's meeting and love of soul mates.

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Originally posted by: tibs09

aur kucch ho na ho ....adda wasiyon mein jung zaroor ched di hai phero ne ...kahin yeh PB and company ki conspiracy to nahin...yeh ladkiyaan humaari tni tanng khinchti hai ...inke beech mein shagufa chodd do ...aapas mein hi lagi rahengi ...we will be safe 😛

🤣 PB ki yeh planning thi kya??🤣 anyways that didnt get us to fight we all just juggling with thoughts thats all🤣 I hope that Buddu-Ram (read PB) clears the confusion today, atleast mann ko shaanti milegi 🤣🤣🤣 I will atleast blindly believe they are married if they say and so and move on🤣 I have never thought abt it more seriously than this stupid episode 🤣🤣🤣

Anu