Zindagi Ke Safar Mein...7/21/08

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Posted: 17 years ago
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...Guzar jaate hai jo makaam,
Voh, phir nahi aate...Voh, phir nahi aate.

Phool khilte hai, Log milte hai
Phool khilte hai, Log milte hai magar,
Patjhad mein jo phool murjha jaate hai,
Voh bahaaron ke aane se khilte nahin.
Kuch log ek roz jo bhichad jaate hai,
Voh hazaaron ke aane se milte nahin.
Umra bhar chahe koi pukara kare unka naam,
Voh, phir nahi aate...Voh, phir nahi aate.

Subha aati hai, Shyam jaati hai
Subha aati hai, Shyam jaati hai
Waqt chalta hi rehta hai rukta nahi
Ek pal mein yeh aage nikal jaata hai
Aadmi theek se dekh paata nahin
Aur parde pe manzar badal jaata hai.
Ek baar chale jaate hai jo din raat, Subah-o-Shyam
Voh, phir nahi aate...Voh, phir nahi aate....

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I couldn't decide if I wanted to write tonight...aaj forum pe mood hi kuch aisa hai.

Was up late last night in speculation about this whole thing with Aditi...I know my thoughts on the
matter are no different from you guys'. Everything that can possibly be said about the topic has been
said. We've all stated our concerns, vented our frustrations, and cried/complained our hearts out.

I know for a fact that I won't be watching the show much longer. Its sad, but no matter how much I
would like to continue to watch it for Harshad's sake, I just don't think I'm going to be able to.
Without Heer, the essence of Prem will die and therefore, Prem will die. I for one, do not have the
strength to sit and watch Prem break down once he learns of Heer's demise. I don't have it in me to
see Prem in such pain, so shattered....mujhse uska dard nahi dekha jaayega.

I think after seeing today's epi, what shocked me the most is how fast it was over. I mean, Heer
literally blew away in the wind. I was right in thinking last week that the "pyaar karne wale" scene
between Premeer last week was the last one. Whats sad is that these two never had a moment with
one another where they were truly happy...they never had that one pal in which they were content,
without something else weighing on their mind. Never did we see these two openly smiling or laughing
in one another's presence. Its so very tragic.

I have never watched a Kekta show before...I would never allow myself to because I know that she finds
some way or another to ruin each and every one of her shows...its just a matter of time before she kills
the magic, the beauty of it all. I began watching Desh by request of good friends. Against my
apprehensions, I trusted that they knew me well and would not ask me to give it a chance if they didn't
think I would fall in love with it. They were right...I fell in love with it instantaneously. But now, I'm
kicking myself for having thought that maybe just this once, things were going to be different...maybe
just this once, Kekta would change her formula, and really deliver something substantial without messing
it up. How I stand corrected.

But for some reason, I just can't seem to make myself accept that Heer is at fault here. I just can't believe
that she would do anything to ruin her standing with BT because I've only ever seen her and Harshad sing
BT praises and go around saying how very lucky and thankful they are to have bagged the lead roles.
Anyone that feels as such towards their work will never do anything to jeopardize it, right? Why do I have
a feeling that BT is using this "temper tantrum" bit (which, we've heard time and again) as an excuse...I mean,
I just can't seem to shake the idea that they're only saying it was temper tantrums to save themselves.
If that's the case, it is utterly distasteful (ok, down right disgusting) for them to do it at the cost of someone
else.

Not only does Aditi not deserve this, but Harshad doesn't deserve this. He will lose viewers now, only because
Aditi is no longer his Heer. He will suffer for something that he hasn't done. I really would like to know what he
has to say about all of this.

Not just Harshad though, the entire team, the show as a whole will suffer. TRPs will plummet. Even if
Heer is alive and they bring in a new actor to assay the role, Premeer will never be the same again. The show,
the essence will never be the same again.

Whatever happened to predestined, eternal love? Whatever happened to mannat's at the dargah being granted?

I think I'm still in shock over the fact that Heer is gone. It hasn't sunk in yet. I don't think it will really hit
me until I see Prem learn that his Heer is gone. Bechara Prem...he's lying unconcious and doesn't even
know that when he regains his senses, his world will never be the same agian.

I couldn't decide if I wanted to attempt to churn out an analysis today...quite frankly I'm exhausted by it all today.
I've been turning it over in my head since late Sunday night, I've hardly slept since we first got the news, when it
wasn't even confirmed yet. I keep trying to figure it out...get to the bottom of it...try to decide what really could
have gone wrong. All I can come up with is that at the end of the day, its Ekta...she just can't be trusted.

Finally, a while ago, I decided to write my thoughts on the episode. If for no other reason than to simply give
myself the opportunity to say goodbye to Aditi, Heer, as I knew her.

So, this one is for Aditi....Our Prem's Beloved Heer.

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Ever since I saw the episode this afternoon, this song has been stuck in my head. I think its quite apt not only
for today's episode, but for Aditi's unfortunate boot from the show as well.

I was so very happy to see that Premeer did have one more chance to come face to face again today. They
had one more chance at being hand in hand before the life-long seperation.

The sad part was that Prem was too distracted by Lalit to really savor the moment.

From that moment on, from the time that Heer withdrew her hand from Prem's, I felt as though I was riding
Top Gun at the amusement park. It was the fastest roller coaster ride of events we have witnessed in the show yet.

Heer turns and walks away from Prem while he's preoccupied with Lalit, the winds get to fierce and encompass
everyone and everything around. Prem loses sight of his family, and then realizes Heer is gone too. Thats it.
That was the end of our Premeer. It was so painful to see Prem frantically call out for his Bauji - you could tell then
that all he wanted was to help his family find shelter...and then, it hit him. Heer was no longer by his side.
Did you realize how quickly he went from calling for Lalit to desperately, frantically calling for Heer over and over again?
He called for Bauji once...but for Heer over and over again until he fell unconscious. It was painful to see that in
his concern for his Bauji and his family's safety, somehow, he momentarily forgot about Heer...or, didn't expect that
she wouldn't be there the next time he turned his attention to her. The thought makes me incredibly sad.

I finally fully understand the Dupatta thing. Thank god that got cleared up. I actually have to give Lalit credit for
willing to risk his life to go back out in the storm to find it.

I don't understand Beeji's hatred towards Nihaal's mom. I was very confused by it...not to mentioned annoyed at her
stubborn idiotic refusals to let the woman help her. If she is in fact Ullu's mom, I see where he gets it from.

Loved seeing Meher slap Ash today for some reason. I mean, even if she was just trying to bring Ash back to her
senses, that slap was a long time coming.

Is it sheer coincidence that Heer bumps into Lalit and tries to save him? I do think Beeji must be his mother because
they were both equally stubborn in their attempt to turn away help.

Loved our Heer today. Just loved her. Despite everything, she refuses to let anything happen to Lalit. Not only because
he is Prem's father, but because he is her father's best friend. She still believes Lalit hates her father, but because her
father loved him so much, she wouldn't let anything happen to him. Loved her fearless spirit today.

I also loved seeing Lalit give in and, despite his hatred for her, try to save her as well. Atleast thodi si toh insaanyat
bachi hai usme.

Loved the way Lalit slightly noded negatively when Heer disclosed her awareness of his hatred for Balraj. It was a
frantic "no, thats not true at all" nod.

I don't understand Heer's screaming Bauji and pushing him to safety just before literally being blown away by the
wind. Did she SEE a gush of heavy winds coming their way? I mean, it wasn't as if she saw a huge peice of debris
that could hurt them, unless I missed that. I just didn't get it.

It was shocking how quickly it was over. I mean, just like that, she was literally 'gone with the wind'.

Kudos to the cameraman and whoever else was in charge of the scene where she's blown away...it looked very
believable. Actually, the whole storm was done well what with the debris and all. (But where were the heavy rains?)

I'm glad he finally learned the truth of Heer's identity...It was good to see him pachtavafy. It was good to see him break
down and cry at his ill fortune.

His flashbacks were great...why? Because he realized that DJ and Balwant have something to do with the
misunderstanding about Heer's identity.

The only thing I dread is seeing Prem shattered. I also worry for Meher. I hope Prem comes out of his injury safely.
I hope that Prem and Meher will be able to be each other's strength and comfort in face of this tragedy.

Here's to Aditi Gupta, Prem's Heer. Even if Heer lives and Aditi is replaced, Premeer will never be the same.

Sorry for the horrible post today....its all I could muster up.
Love,
~Payal

BTW....I would like to thank Estee, Vibha, Sid, Raks, and everyone else for helping me through this, letting
me vent out my frustrations. You guys are the best...šŸ¤—

...This sideways scroll thing is really irritating me...šŸ˜•
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Okay Payal

I dont fink I can find myself to reply to this post for I am sobbin ..liek a maniac here...i dont know wht to say...am not in dat state..i wish i had never known who premeer were
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: sidrah fariq

Okay Payal

I dont fink I can find myself to reply to this post for I am sobbin ..liek a maniac here...i dont know wht to say...am not in dat state..i wish i had never known who premeer were



I don't expect you to be able to reply, Sid.

I didn't want to even post today, I really didn't...It took a lot of energy to muster up the strenth to do it. In the end, I only did it as an Alvida to Aditi...and Alvida to Prem's Heer...

The post is so bekhanda today...I just wasn't in the mood.

I too wish now that I had never gotten so emotionally attached, so involved with this show.

Mujhse Prem ka dard nahi dekha jaayega, Sid...I won't be able to bare it.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: IndianPari



I don't expect you to be able to reply, Sid.

I didn't want to even post today, I really didn't...It took a lot of energy to muster up the strenth to do it. In the end, I only did it as an Alvida to Aditi...and Alvida to Prem's Heer...

The post is so bekhanda today...I just wasn't in the mood.

I too wish now that I had never gotten so emotionally attached, so involved with this show.

Mujhse Prem ka dard nahi dekha jaayega, Sid...I won't be able to bare it.




No P,

Your post is not bekhande....just the final blow for me..i had been controlli myself and my tears all along bt after reading this..no..i cant bear it...please some one tell me dere is a light at the end of dis tunnel...i hate my self...i reali do for lettn a show affect me so muh....

is dere realli no hope?
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: sidrah fariq




No P,

Your post is not bekhande....just the final blow for me..i had been controlli myself and my tears all along bt after reading this..no..i cant bear it...please some one tell me dere is a light at the end of dis tunnel...i hate my self...i reali do for lettn a show affect me so muh....

is dere realli no hope?



Sid, now I'm crying too...I hate to say it dear, but I think this is the end of the road....
I wish I could cheer you up somehow...I just don't have it in me to even try to pretend things will be okay.
I'm sorry for making you cry....it was not my intention. šŸ¤—
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Posted: 17 years ago
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😭😭😭, I just cannot bring myself to read yr entire post. I speculated in estee's post on 17th whether this was the last time we see premeer in one frame; little did I know that it would be close to being their last time.😭.
For me premeer are just one. I never liked one more than the other. They just were - one.
It is ironic in a way; I was dreading the thought of having to see heer alone if prem died. So ,now if Prem dies, I will not feel so emotional. A part of me will be at peace.
Maybe the the real story is that the creatives knew that we cannot see premeer with anyone else except with each other and so they had to do something - say something because I just refuse to believe their story.
Yeah Prem at first called bauji but the way he called heer is still ringing in my ears......
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Posted: 17 years ago
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šŸ¤—no Payal

It's not ur fault ..please dont blame urself...just the fact tht we got so attached to the show and its people tht we didnt expect dis to happen ...bt atleast one good fing happend...i found some nice mates in here...i hope we continue visitin dis plx just fr the sake of each odr..
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Posted: 17 years ago
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payal ur post really made me cry,just stopped half way😭

its all over now today in bombay times also the article says" additi gupta dumped"-how i hate these ppl they use such words😔

abb prem aur heer kii jodi mere liye toh toot gayee,just going 2 treasure all PH moments of past😭

priyašŸ˜”



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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: maya123

😭😭😭, I just cannot bring myself to read yr entire post. I speculated in estee's post on 17th whether this was the last time we see premeer in one frame; little did I know that it would be close to being their last time.😭.

sorry for the solemn post, maya. It really was the best I could do today. In my post on the 17th, I just knew that when Prem went to go find Ullu's picture, it would be the last time they'd be together. I saw this coming.

For me premeer are just one. I never liked one more than the other. They just were - one.

We all share this sentiment with you. Heer is not, without Prem, and Prem is not, without Heer. They are one in the same, two halves of a whole, never complete without the other.
It is ironic in a way; I was dreading the thought of having to see heer alone if prem died. So ,now if Prem dies, I will not feel so emotional. A part of me will be at peace.

I never believed Prem would die. I never believed Heer would die either...I think I'm still in shock. But yes, I agree...the essence of Prem died with Heer...so, Prem himself might as well die too...it would be better than seeing him broken, shattered, miserable over the loss of his Heer. I too would be at peace if Prem died too.
Maybe the the real story is that the creatives knew that we cannot see premeer with anyone else except with each other and so they had to do something - say something because I just refuse to believe their story.

I don't believe it was Aditi's "temper tantrums" that was the problem...something is amiss...very wrong with that picture. There's something more to it...we may never know.
Yeah Prem at first called bauji but the way he called heer is still ringing in my ears......

That particular scene is still ringing in my ears too...it was so frantic, desperate, and...yes...there was fear...immense fear in his voice....



Thanks for reading none-the-less, Maya. I'm sorry to have upset you.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Payal,

Yaar i get better one minute and then i read your posts and its literally crying a river for me....i am typing this with a tissue in my hand....what a brilliant postšŸ‘see i dont even know what emoctions to put i am that distressed....

I agree the essence of prem and heer is gone for me as well....i loved prem because of heer and i have always supported aditi aka heer no matter what which you guys know from the previous posts....now i am empty...i never knew the feeling when once heart is broken.....i heard people talk about it and i used to wonder waht is this feeling??? but NOW I DO.......now i know what heartbreak is and now i know how it feels.........i m literally hearbroken....i dont like this feeling and icecream is not helping either...i cant even call my friends coz they are cauasian and dont get indian soaps nd my indian friends thinks i am obsessed with this show and so the only way i can get some reprive is on this forum....
I loved how you explained everything...now lallu is in his careless whispers mode and we all wonder now what????but hun as i have said to tuls the minute new heer comes i am out...i really dont feel like watching this show anymore...i really dont so lets see if i watch tomorrow's show or not???

And you are most welcome hun and you have supported me as well when i went wacko....i am only here on this forum for you friends

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