Prem is Wrong and Annoying - Page 5

👏 .....quite reasonable issues vibha ji 👍🏼 .....u see if u watch other serials apart from BT, u will notice that they concentrate on only "ONE" or "mostly two" track(s) and they smoothly get done with those tracks one by one in a respective period of time......but this BT thinks they are way enough smart to handle more than 5 issues at a time and by the time they realise that they get messed up within themselves, ooopppsss TOO LATE 🤢 .....they really should learn how to deal with one track at a time 😕 ........abt prem, i really don't understand abt this whole BT theory on "lead men association" .....all they do is just CRY like bunch of losers 🤢 ......considering both lead man & woman, they get happiness for atmost 2 episodes (the very first and very last epis) out of the whole series and the rest of the epis are dedicated to the victories of vamps 🤢.......i still wonder how can EKTA be the queen of soaps 🤔 ...n wonder which "brainless product" gave her this TITLE??? 👎🏼

well...i agree that prem shouldnt be srying so much (mostly for that buddho lallu, b/c he already knew it was coming!!) after all it was his decision to pick love over family so live with it and

great thread! haha..itz grown sooo much over night!..
But i have to say itz quite obvious that prem is crying waaaaaaaaay too much! 😆 he needs to man up! He chose Heer over his family...and now he is looking for his family to forgive him? in reality if they showed the parents side (prem's dad side...) then what prem did was wrong..personally i can't think of a way prem's dad could forgive him.
in reality kids and parents don't talk for years if this situation was to happen...so lets see how ekta does it! 😳

everyone is entitled to their opinion... so i share my opinion here...

Originally posted by: sylvie_2181

You know everytime since the begining of this show, I have been unsure of the track, unsure of the title and unsure of my own commitment of watching this show till it ends or even for 6months...I can honestly say one thing and that is "Gone down the drain" 😡 last week took my patience, peace of mind,hope for this show....

Hmn....dont think the story has gone diwn the drain... Its just that there are other tracks to be shown. Atleast the show is bearable to watch and hold our attention for 20 min. Atleast its not like the gissa pitta saas bahu crap we get to see

I watched this show because of prem-heer love and their mind blowinf chemistry and the intensity and last week I got to see lupre(lallu-prem nickname)love story and the pain...I now know that prem is not someone i thought he was...why??

Well all of us watch the serial from prem and heer but dont you think we are being a little bit unreasonable by expecting them to share thew limelight all the time?

The good thing bout this show so far is at least all the other characters are not sidelined and subjected to being mere bystander ...how i would hate that, if that happens

1. Prem decides to marry a girl(HEER) whom daddy chooses, very very admirable considering he was brought up in canada...then that girl supposedly dies and he agrees to marry another girl daddy picked...again very admirable 👏 👏 then he falls in love with heer, which again is okay..you cant hold your heart...then he decides to act upon that love...now this is where i have an issue...Prem, dear, you are a grown man who is sane and have no disabilities even though mental illness runs in the family 😡

So, if the father throws the son out of the house just because the father himself is not aware of the truth and has a patti in front of his eyes (that way daljeet was so right when she referred to him as drishtras) does not mean that "mental illness" runs in the family. BTW thats a very strong word that you used.

You yourself said that prem is a grown up man - So do you really expect him to forget 20 years of a relationship for someone whom he has known just for 20 days, do you really expect him to forget the memories, the bond that has stayed with him since birth?

2. You(prem) harrassed that poor heer to her breaking point..you knew dad wont be happy, you knew dad wont approve it, you knew once your love is out heer would be an outcast, you knew that and you knew how it will go.....after all that you choose love!!!!!!!! or i should say were forced to coz you got kicked out of home???anyway all admirable traits but buddy stick to your convictions...be a man and take it..heer has an excuse of being a girl whats your problem????

Oh, Prem is a man no doubt. It takes guts to do what he has done. He has a spine, atleast he took a decision and has abided by it by now. He has alwayts been the one to stand by Heer at the time when she needed him the most. He was the one to save her, when she was the supposed bride, He was the one to take care of her when she was drugged, He was the one to save her from Jail.

He has always stuck to whatever he had believed in what he thought was right. He never broke Heer. In fact what heer is doing is completely wrong. If Prem is wrong, Heer isnt a saint either. Heer is the one completely wrong here. Why caht heer speak and say she is the daughter of balraj maan. She too has a patti in front of eyes right? So when Heer is not wrong, How can Prem be wrong?

3. This love between father-son is creepy and really disturbing to watch....the way prem cried over lallu's picture really really was creepy(thats the only word that comes to mind) and if prem is unsure of his deicsion to be with heer..fair enough thats okay...dont let heer in the dark!!!!!!!! that girl has been through a lot an dont add more to her misery...

Is there anything wrong about cryng over a picture of your father.... Even though you have left the house, there is no harm in not remebering your own father.... unhone usse janam diya hai...

Errr ....excuse me, Prem isnt keeping Heer in the dark but rather Heer is keeping Prem in the dark.... Has she told him that she has got a job? No. Has she told him that she loves him? No. Has she told him that she is the daughter of balraj mann. No. Has she told him that she was infact in the same place seving there when she bumped into him at the awards party? No.

4. Prem wants to have the cake and eat it too...doesnt work that way...you can either have daddy and can go back to your crib or take heer and be a man!!!!!!!

Wouldnt you have called prem a weakling had he gone ahead with the wedding and not taken heers side. There is nothing wrong is crying. Prem is hurt. He is torn. He is some one who keeps his feelings to himself. He is broken. He has been insulted infront of the world. He knows what his fathers promise meant to him. But he also knows what heer meant to him and if he wasnt there for heer, then no one would have been there.

Tell me sylvie, keepimg all factors in mind, what would you have done had you been prem? Think bout it and let me know. Put yourself in prems shoes. Its the most idiotic thing in the world, if you think that prem would be happy with heer and not think about his family. It would be the most stupidest thing in the world if one thinks that a son will be happy with the one he loves, and not have ht you are today is parents by his side. Parents - they are the ones who make you darling. What you are today is because of them. What you become is because of your love.

In the quest between family and love, only one is breaking, one man is broken and only one man has lost and that man is Prem Juneja.

I say heer marry RR leave prem the crybaby and make a life for yourself.....Ekta, Creatives and BT have lost the plot...its official and we might as well throw the towel and pick another show.........I have started watching the show"Bidaai" and i love the way the story goes so smoothly..you know even they had a raaz but it moved at a decent pace and it connected...it is good to watch this kind of show whereas here in KDMHMD its dragfest, cryfest and connivefest....

Just because we dont get to see what we want all the time doesnt mean KDMH has become a dragfest.... we cant always get what we want right?

Prem is the new crybaby who has cried more than all of the other cries on this show....he cries for daddy, mommy, preet,veera,kulraaj,heer and even meher.....He is NOT IDEAL SON 😡 😡 he is a brat!!!!! I want heer so I had her and now i want dad too but i cant have him coz he hates heer..............Who cares!!!!!!!! I really loved prem and his character now it irritates me and puts me to sleep...

Prem is not a cry baby.... Is he showing his tears to heer? Is he crying in front of hios world? Men are more emotional than women and men too need to show their feelings,... Some break down, some become hard with time... Prem breaks down and SRK On K3G became hard in time.

Heer had her reasons for crying which were understandable....

Nopes I dont think so.... I think Heer is equally wrong

prem cries for dad and his lavish life..

ha thats the bigggest joke of the centiury..prem doesnt need to work yet hge calls rr sir and goes fotr an interview....

.in K3G SRK left with kajol and i didnt see him crying himself a river????maybe because it was a movie but pleasueeeeeeeee give us a break....we dont like seeing women cry what makes the creatives think we like seeing men cry?????????????????????????

coz k3g was a movie and different men have diff ways of reacting...sonme react by becomig hard and numb, some react by exploding, some react by crying

This is my opinion what do you guys think???

Originally posted by: *payal_15*

well...i agree that prem shouldnt be srying so much (mostly for that buddho lallu, b/c he already knew it was coming!!) after all it was his decision to pick love over family so live with it and

Payal, its not easy to live with the fact that you are alive and your fathers disowns you by doing your shradh in front of the world...

Originally posted by: sylvie_2181

Hi Jedi,

Welcome back to the forum and i am glad you chose my post as your comeback 😉 now I respect what you wrote however as with other members i beg to differ 😊 why?

1. Prem remained quiet on his love. He had previously chosen to sacrifice himself because of his Dad. He found out the truth about Prashant but he didn't shout it from the roofs. He did what he did quietly, without wishing anything in return. But when his love did come out( which had to given the circumstances in which the video thingy was shown)and was being humiliated and tortured by Dj, how could he have stayed quiet?? Nobody in his place would have watched that scene and not do anything. At this point, he knew that protecting her was the most important thing of all. Not the wrath of his father!


Prem remained quiet on his love???????????when???he confessed his love to heer, then he ordered her not to marry madmeet, and he only confessed after the cd fiasco...so that is not being quiet...I loved the fact that he didnt worry about dad's wrath but then there was no other way....he was still ready to marry ashlesha it was her who said no...no technically if she would have said yes, we wont be talking about prem and heer....again after ash said no he went on about love which i loved....so by this time he knew dad is angry and then he takes heer with him..wchih again is great but why sad ALL the time???????

2.Gosh I don't understand what even means. ' Be a man' ?? Sorry to put this a bit in such a frank manner: we're not in the stone age here. Prem is a human being with feelings. I saw your reply to the other members who put forward the fact that he's a human being with emotions. To reply to that I would ask you one question. How would you react after your father publicly humiliated you and constantly said that he doesn't consider you as his son anymore? That hurts a lot specially when the two of them were so close. So how can he not cry??

What i mean is why cry ALL the time????lets see except those 2-3premeer scenes he is shown crying and sad all the time....my dad would never humiliate me publicily coz he is not weird but even if he is angry i would give him space....let him think....prem knew how lallu felt at the awards when he spoke to the reporters and then not wanting to sit at the table....yes very very very sad and hurtfull...then he put oil to fire by bringing heer to the table and then he EXPECTS his dad to give him blessings?????????? yes no doubt he is human with feelings but this is human who is also impulsive...prem knows his dad is very angry at him...so why is he giving him more reasons to be angry...why not think for a change and then take actions???why so quick and rash????yes we are not in stone age but neither are we in 16th century where dad was a person's whole world....and again i think this is a real creepy love between father and son...

3.A brat?? Seriously, Prem is an independent guy who takes care of everybody! When did you see him cry for no reason? After having been pushed away by his father and that too so ruthlessly how could he be not affected? He cries, so what? He does it because he's torn between his father and his love. You can't expect him to throw away the relationship he has had with his dad or ignore Heer. Both are integral parts of him. In life, there's no absolute. Both sides must be conciled for Prem to be happy.

I think i am repeating myself here but my point is why is he crying SO much?????no one is denying his love for dad and how it affected him but that shouldnt consume your night and day...only when he is with heer he is okay otherwise he walks around town with that sad mopy look....if he is torn between his father and love...he KNEW this would happen....heer was caught off guard prem knew this is the way dad would react...well the shradh bit was OTT but otherwise the indication were all towards lallu going psycho...we all have reasons to cry some times but we dont walk around town with that sadness...i am not as strong as prem i admit but even I dont carry on like him on the streets...

4.I don't watch too many shows but I have seen enough to say that Prem is a good son and human being. Throughout the show, everything that he has done, he's done it for the happiness of others. He works for the family, he chose to marry someone else to please his father, he protects his siblings, he protects people he doesn't even know, he cares about the pain and joy of everybody, he's courageous and independent. Sure, Prem is not perfect, nobody is. But there is no one I see who comes closer to being an ideal son, brother and beloved

But thats the point, why does he have to be even close to perfect???why cant he be a normal mature human being with feelings and emotions????why does he have to please everyone ALL the time..he tries to do that and ends up hurting almost everyone...why not be honest and just tell dad the truth????your opinion is very valued and i take it all in good fun but i dont agree with it..........no one has to be perfect...he can or could have told dad that he has reasons to be there instead of letting dad drag him around like a rag doll...is that your defination of perfection????? he could have sat down and explained to lallu his actions instead he creates public scenes....is that your defination of ideal???? i guess in that case.....prem is perfect...

Sorry if i hurt your feelings but i stated mine

prem isnt perfect - he is normal and he is capable of erring too...Mistakes happen. For lalit, what prem did was a mistake. When the heer truth is out, and it would be lalit breaking down, then all of us would be feeling for lalit and saying oh bechara... poor thing didnt know of the truth.... ghosh whats become of us....

You know what sylvie, i think its time prem does something for his happiness rather than the happiness of others and then please dont call him selfish as he would be thinking about himsekf, then he would be coming first for himself, then others including heer....

OMG your sooo right i mean what kind of idiot loves there parents to such extend that they cry while looking at his/her photo and misses them everyday. You have to be a wimp to love your parents right? NO,your a girl if you cry and love your elders. and yeah your right lovong your elders is creepy.

YOUR SOOO RIGHT PREM IS WRONG.

Originally posted by: ash_star

OMG your sooo right i mean what kind of idiot loves there parents to such extend that they cry while looking at his/her photo and misses them everyday. You have to be a wimp to love your parents right? NO,your a girl if you cry and love your elders. and yeah your right lovong your elders is creepy.

YOUR SOOO RIGHT PREM IS WRONG.

🤣 Now that was bang on

I totally agree with mistyeyed-25. 😊 In fact I want to give her 🤗

Originally posted by: miggi2

I totally agree with mistyeyed-25. 😊 In fact I want to give her 🤗

awww .... yeh lo ji...ek jadoo ki jhappi aa p ke liye 🤗

and this one 🤗 is for prem and this 🤗 for heer.. they both need a jadoo ki jhappi dont you think so...

and thinking of jadooo ki jhappis's .. dont you think we should make prem smile...

chalo bachon ... mujhe batayo, if you were heer , how would you make prem smile?