Prem is Wrong and Annoying

You know everytime since the begining of this show, I have been unsure of the track, unsure of the title and unsure of my own commitment of watching this show till it ends or even for 6months...I can honestly say one thing and that is "Gone down the drain" 😡 last week took my patience, peace of mind,hope for this show....

I watched this show because of prem-heer love and their mind blowinf chemistry and the intensity and last week I got to see lupre(lallu-prem nickname)love story and the pain...I now know that prem is not someone i thought he was...why??

1. Prem decides to marry a girl(HEER) whom daddy chooses, very very admirable considering he was brought up in canada...then that girl supposedly dies and he agrees to marry another girl daddy picked...again very admirable 👏 👏 then he falls in love with heer, which again is okay..you cant hold your heart...then he decides to act upon that love...now this is where i have an issue...Prem, dear, you are a grown man who is sane and have no disabilities even though mental illness runs in the family 😡

2. You(prem) harrassed that poor heer to her breaking point..you knew dad wont be happy, you knew dad wont approve it, you knew once your love is out heer would be an outcast, you knew that and you knew how it will go.....after all that you choose love!!!!!!!! or i should say were forced to coz you got kicked out of home???anyway all admirable traits but buddy stick to your convictions...be a man and take it..heer has an excuse of being a girl whats your problem????

3. This love between father-son is creepy and really disturbing to watch....the way prem cried over lallu's picture really really was creepy(thats the only word that comes to mind) and if prem is unsure of his deicsion to be with heer..fair enough thats okay...dont let heer in the dark!!!!!!!! that girl has been through a lot an dont add more to her misery...

4. Prem wants to have the cake and eat it too...doesnt work that way...you can either have daddy and can go back to your crib or take heer and be a man!!!!!!!

I say heer marry RR leave prem the crybaby and make a life for yourself.....Ekta, Creatives and BT have lost the plot...its official and we might as well throw the towel and pick another show.........I have started watching the show"Bidaai" and i love the way the story goes so smoothly..you know even they had a raaz but it moved at a decent pace and it connected...it is good to watch this kind of show whereas here in KDMHMD its dragfest, cryfest and connivefest....

Prem is the new crybaby who has cried more than all of the other cries on this show....he cries for daddy, mommy, preet,veera,kulraaj,heer and even meher.....He is NOT IDEAL SON 😡 😡 he is a brat!!!!! I want heer so I had her and now i want dad too but i cant have him coz he hates heer..............Who cares!!!!!!!! I really loved prem and his character now it irritates me and puts me to sleep...

Heer had her reasons for crying which were understandable....prem cries for dad and his lavish life...in K3G SRK left with kajol and i didnt see him crying himself a river????maybe because it was a movie but pleasueeeeeeeee give us a break....we dont like seeing women cry what makes the creatives think we like seeing men cry?????????????????????????

This is my opinion what do you guys think???

the show is starting to drag on

haha great points!! i agree with ya! The storyline and concept of this drama is not stable anymore..there stretching in out too much! and ur right prem crying is really played out and stretched to the extreme! Itz just crazy!!
And prem should have gone and gotten married to heer already! whats the hold up with that? LoL..i think heer will probably end up marrying RR! and prem will be left crying..

no yaar....prem is not being annoying and wrong but heartbroken torn between the people he loves....

even if i was his state i would have the same attitute...prem is a very reserved guy he hides all his pain in his heart and puts a small smile on his face so that noone knows that he is in pain....

if you saying that prem is cry baby how about kavya from kavyanjali he was worst...kavya was a mommy's boy and a cry baby too....

prem is way better as he knows how to fight all odds.....

i don't find prem is wrong or annoying...i feel sad and tears are rolling down my eyes when i see him heartbroken

Originally posted by: sadizzle

haha great points!! i agree with ya! The storyline and concept of this drama is not stable anymore..there stretching in out too much! and ur right prem crying is really played out and stretched to the extreme! Itz just crazy!!
And prem should have gone and gotten married to heer already! whats the hold up with that? LoL..i think heer will probably end up marrying RR! and prem will be left crying..

Sadie,

Thank you hun for agreeing with me 😉 even I am losing my patience with this bull crap that is been fed to us 4days a week..honestly every thursdy i look forward to monday's show, this time i am not at all bothered........i am not going to watch this anymore...you know my cousin was watching this show with me and she goes, shouldnt prem be keeping heer's pics in the wallet instead of that????? and that photo was so hilarious..how can you cry on that??????? its just not real....

I am telling you heer will be with RR and i dont mind...atleast that man is practical and realistic...even that prem speech at the function!!!!!! what a crapper!!!! bauji bauji and bauji!!!!! leave bauji's pallu prem and grow up.....poor heer she is better off with RR...he sees real world and its situation and doesnt carry on like prem the crybaby

haha great points!! i agree with ya! The storyline and concept of this drama is not stable anymore..there stretching in out too much! and ur right prem crying is really played out and stretched to the extreme! Itz just crazy!!
And prem should have gone and gotten married to heer already! whats the hold up with that? LoL..i think heer will probably end up marrying RR! and prem will be left crying.. [/QUO

lol i think that u are so right ot always happens in all of the show so why not this one unless PH get married soon which i bet will not happen any time soon mayby after Prem is married 3 times and Heer 4 times than mayby we will see them get married

Hey vibha i respect your thoughts.... and i agree u in all aspects expect that u said abt prem is not a ideal son....

You know i started watching the show bcoz of this forum.... when i started watching it regularly was the time when heer is arrested and then prem saved her from jail... after that i was reading all the updates and waching all the episodes in you tube and i started watching it regularly....i felt like wow i missed it... and i was completely engrossed by it...but i have to say last week took my patience out .....

The story has lost its charam and it has started dragging.... As far as prem is concerned he is a good boy... good son and good lover.... he falls into a category where he doesn't want to hurt anyone by his acts but unfortunately all the events turned in such a condition he could not handle the over reacting lallu....

He loves heer so he wants to save her.... he left everything for her.... but bcoz of lallu he is feeling so bad.... now he can't leave heer bcoz now he is more like that she is mine... can't got to dad bcoz he has gone mad....can't lallu react decently... if he said that his son is dead why can't he ignore prem...instead of doing so he always reacts in such a way to hurt prem. here one point we should note is all these years prem has been so close to his father and when suddenly some one reacts so it'll obviously hurt right.... so only he is sad for his father...

So i still love prem and i like him a lot.... then coming to our mahaan heer i think now only the promo says how heer will do so? .........hmmmmmmmmm so we have chances for this girl to open up.... but no vibha never ever say that heer should marry RR..... at any cost i want prem to be with heer....

I truly accept one thing to 1000%.... in bidaai the story is simple and they are doing good... even in kumkum they both stayed together forever.... why can't ekta make such a story by having prem and heer together.....

Originally posted by: Mages

no yaar....prem is not being annoying and wrong but heartbroken torn between the people he loves....

even if i was his state i would have the same attitute...prem is a very reserved guy he hides all his pain in his heart and puts a small smile on his face so that noone knows that he is in pain....

if you saying that prem is cry baby how about kavya from kavyanjali he was worst...kavya was a mommy's boy and a cry baby too....

prem is way better as he knows how to fight all odds.....

i don't find prem is wrong or annoying...i feel sad and tears are rolling down my eyes when i see him heartbroken

Hi Mages,

Darl love your view but dont agree with it 😉 why?

1. Prem is not torn...he is a grown man and he knew the risks if he chose to be with heer...he could have marry ashlesha and then next day stopped heer's wedding...heer never asked for anything, prem chose to give it to her...he loves dad, no doubt...too much in my opinion and he KNEW that bauji will be mega p****d...he was kicked out of home...he is ok when heer is around and when she isnt he is back in the devdas crying for papa mode...is that fair on heer???

2. God forbid and you never ever have to be in this situation, but think about it..is this fair on the other person??? yes he is reserved...many people are reserved but that doesnt give you the right to hurt other person..heer is already feeling guilty which is explainable and now prem is always in this mopy look!!!! instead of finding job he goes to become sherlock holmes....this is not fair on heer or on any person....you are a sane person so weigh your options thats waht we all do...i know it will never happen with me coz my dad is not weird creepboy like lallu but if i made the bed and i have to lie in it...and if that makes me sad then i have bear it like a real woman and move on...thats life...you say no one knows his pain...by now everyone and their dog knows prem is sad...

3.I never watched that show so cant comment 😆 but what happened to that show???down the drain, am i right????

4.fight all odds????the only thing he is fighting is with my patience.....what fight mages????ever since he left home he has cried buckets, heer saw that, meher saw that, preet saw that even that nihal saw that...when did he actually sat down and weighed his pros and cons?????he was a bad detective and got beaten up, then he proved to be a bad lover by now crying all the time in front of heer...she doesnt deserve that..she is making sacrifices for him, except living home waht has he done????

5. Well hun you a\can have your view but i want to hit him with a wrench when i see him cry...may be i am old fashioned but grown up men crying like babies????that is not done where i come from...it is demeaning and un dignified....

I hope for your sake that this show improves, but i am over it

Originally posted by: tulip21

Hey vibha i respect your thoughts.... and i agree u in all aspects expect that u said abt prem is not a ideal son....

You know i started watching the show bcoz of this forum.... when i started watching it regularly was the time when heer is arrested and then prem saved her from jail... after that i was reading all the updates and waching all the episodes in you tube and i started watching it regularly....i felt like wow i missed it... and i was completely engrossed by it...but i have to say last week took my patience out .....

The story has lost its charam and it has started dragging.... As far as prem is concerned he is a good boy... good son and good lover.... he falls into a category where he doesn't want to hurt anyone by his acts but unfortunately all the events turned in such a condition he could not handle the over reacting lallu....

He loves heer so he wants to save her.... he left everything for her.... but bcoz of lallu he is feeling so bad.... now he can't leave heer bcoz now he is more like that she is mine... can't got to dad bcoz he has gone mad....can't lallu react decently... if he said that his son is dead why can't he ignore prem...instead of doing so he always reacts in such a way to hurt prem. here one point we should note is all these years prem has been so close to his father and when suddenly some one reacts so it'll obviously hurt right.... so only he is sad for his father...

So i still love prem and i like him a lot.... then coming to our mahaan heer i think now only the promo says how heer will do so? .........hmmmmmmmmm so we have chances for this girl to open up.... but no vibha never ever say that heer should marry RR..... at any cost i want prem to be with heer....

I truly accept one thing to 1000%.... in bidaai the story is simple and they are doing good... even in kumkum they both stayed together forever.... why can't ekta make such a story by having prem and heer together.....

Hi Tuls,

Thanks for respecting my wishes, i would like to return the favour 😉 but I guess we have to agree to disagree 😉

Prem had lots of time to know how things will go once he picks heer..infact he knew it!!!! he said till the end that he will be with ashlesha to keep that baldy happy...fair enough...heer has never asked prem to give her anything, ever...he CHOSE to give it to her..he loves her no doubt but what love is worth it that comes with so much of sadness, guilt and the burden of separation???? prem knew all this and even then he CHOSE to help heer...i am not denying that....what I am saying is then stick to your convictions....

Why go to dad all the time and hurt dad as well??? he needs time and space why not give him that???we all know when someone is hurt because of us we apologise and give them time to think..we dont hound him with our presence....here heer knows that prem is not happy!!!! any girl worth her salt would let the guy go...any girl!!!! if heer does that would i be angry??no!!!!! coz thats the right decision...prem has to be strong..he cries in front of heer regarding dad...who would want to be with a guy like that???would you???i know you wont.....

Ekta has completely ruined this show...it would have been so nice to see prem-heer love develop and reach a new height, instead we see token romantic scenes...that doesnt even consider as cute scenes...she had a great plot after prem left home but what did she do???she ruined it and made it just like every other shows of hers...look at bidaai...how smoothly its going???there are tears there too but it makes sense...here someone sneezes and all cry....

I dont care if heer is with prem or not tuls..she can be with whomever she wants...but if she has brains she ll pick RR

Originally posted by: sylvie_2181

Ekta has completely ruined this show...it would have been so nice to see prem-heer love develop and reach a new height, instead we see token romantic scenes...that doesnt even consider as cute scenes...she had a great plot after prem left home but what did she do???she ruined it and made it just like every other shows of hers...look at bidaai...how smoothly its going???there are tears there too but it makes sense...here someone sneezes and all cry....

i completely agree with u in this.... she has ruined the show... prem heer is behaving like couples and heer has started reacting now only...but i expected that their love will reach heights but it never happened....

I truly lost all my connection with the serial... now i may watch it without any expectation..... all prem thing are still in my mind and in my corner of heart i wish for something good...

I like heer too as i like prem so i wish her not be with RR( i hate him) i hope ekta will turn this too into her craps..... but some how i feel that they will get married for sure and only to them... let us see without any hopes.