The reason behind Heer hiding Chahat...

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Aanandaa

@Aanandaa

Sparkler

Posted: 16 years ago

#21

Woow that's such a matured and well thought out post from my little bacha...🤗

I disagree with you on Heer being completely justified about everything she is doing(yes she is PARTLY justified..)....She told Geet about Prem and how he cheated on her bla bla bla...but did she tell her that he wasn't sober at that time???Because Prem did tell her about his position when Heer met him that morning....And did she tell Geet about what her part of the whole thing was??And why is she going around tarnishing Prem;s image???Is that a right thing to do??

Another thing....If Heer knew even a iota of Prem...if all those years of love had any grain of truth in them...she wouldn't say he will repeat that thing again....that's totally totally ABSURD...

Last but not the least....Whatever you stated is true for normal regular couples....But Prem and Heer are supposed to be one heart two bodies....They are supposed to BE eachother....Whatever Heer is doing doesn't quite fit in this equation...no?

EDIT: Hehe...just now read your post fully and properly *lazy muh*...Oyee I think one thing that you said is 100% right and that is why all this is happening...Heer is totally confused and in denial and basically mentally disoriented....She is still in that shock of seeing a naked Ash in Prem's bed (quite understandable🤢😭).......But like Bee said, that doesn't mean whatever she is doing is 'right'....She is TOTALLY WRONG and needs to be told/adviced by someone near and dear on what is the right thing to do....Now If only she listens to someone other than G3...

Edited by -athena- - 16 years ago

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shabs_89

@shabs_89

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

#22

a very good analysis of Heer...and why she wud want Chahat to be anonymous to Prem....very understandable explanation...good thinking shifali!!!...agree 100%!!!

=) tc

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Seema

@seemagb83

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#23

Shifu you have jotted down exactly what heer is thinking and going through at this point of time. Actually if we put ourselves in her shoes you are right....BUT whatever she is thinking or doing may not be right and this is what she needs to understand!!.....

Agreed during GS track prem was successful in making heer believe that he is gaurav until heer found out that he is her prem....that hurt her a lot!!......but do you remember ...heer begged infront of prem not to lie and tell the truth......he couldnt see his heer getting hurt so he told her the truth!!

but during sameer track heer was intentionally lying to prem inspite of prem telling her over and over again not to lie....she saw the effect of her lies on prem but she took him for granted whatever the reasons be.....she even confided in rajvir but never trusted prem for it.........veera's death, payal out of rajveer's pocket, hotel video, registering as Mr and Mrs Prem juneja......any sane man would have done exactly what prem did........rajvir was just an excuse....the real cause for him to act like that was "heer's lies" period and not jealousy not rajvir!!!!!!

Now when she goes around saying prem cheated his wife, slept with her cousin,him repenting for 6yrs was a drama, that he would break geet's heart too cause he will cheat again....this is NOT ACCEPTABLE!!!!.......he is not a rapist nor a lusty person afterall!!!!!!!.......if he was that kind of a person heer he would not have waited for 6yrs for you then finally when he saw you again, he started hunting for your best friend and make her fall in love with him just to get near you!!......He would have started a new life longgggggggg back and not waited or run behind you begging for apology inspite of you spitting on him with your hatredness everytime he approached you with Love!!!!!...Why tell your friend this story now??why did you wait until G3 took promise from you? Why are you telling the story in bits and pieces??..Again there are things to hide!!

All these are definitely no reasons to hide the truth from her daughter!!...Tomorrow when her daughter will come to know the entire story....including the effort put in by Prem to bring heer and chahat into his life, she will neither respect Prem nor YOU!!....because you went ahead and lied your time not only with your love but with your daughter too!!

Communication plays a key role in relationship and trust, loyalty everything is built on this foundation. If foundation is weak then forget the sky scrapers even a small hut will not stand tall and straight!! Thats exactly what happened I feel in premeer's relationship.....Heer failed at it miserably and Prem is no better!

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desichica

@desichica

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

#24

totally agree with u shifali....i mean heer is def in the right as much as we all love and cant stand prem in any pain...but if any girl in her place the rxn wud def be the same...i just wish i can jump in the screen and tell heer he didn't "sleep" with that horrible monster ash!!!! poor premeer...evil ash!!!!

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Soaps1

@Soaps1

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 16 years ago

#25

What Heer feels for Prem does not give her a right to keep a daughter away from Prem ... if she can not trust Prem and has resolved never to go back to Prem then what is the problem in letting chahat meet Prem? Heer can stay away ... there are parents who don'tlive together but their kids meet both ... i am sorry but for me this action of heer's is not justified at all!

As for GS tracks Prem thought he was dieing, his family already considered him dead including heer, so what was the point in coming back?

As for Prem doubting Heer Yes it was a big mistake but didn't Heer have a part to play in all that? Yesterday Heer was thinking that it is due to my extreme love that i hate him today wasn't she? So it was Prem's extreme love for Heer that made him act the way he did that day after watching that video.

Now don't get me wrong i am ok with heer not been able to forgive Prem for that one night but how come she thinks that only Prem is the one who faultered and none of it was her fault? And no matter what it still does not justify her keeping Chahat away not for me anyways ... as for trust in my book Heer has never trusted Prem ... she has always trusted strangers and others over Prem, she never confided in him but others so if she doesn't trust him it does not surprise me.

When relationships break both are at fault and i am not comfortable with Heer acting all holier than thou as if none was her fault ... she does not want to go back is her choice and yes it may be difficult for her to forgive him but she should atleast have thought abt what led to all that!! Remember the day Prem accused her? When she was sitting with Rajveer at restaurant and he asked her to imrove things between her and Prem? And the way she reacted? No let them be!!!

I am not saying Prem was not wrong all i am saying is they both were wrong so punishing only Prem by keeping Chahat away is not at all justified on Heer's part and not just that now tou she has gone to the extent of calling Prem a black mailer

Just my humble opinion

Edited by Soaps1 - 16 years ago

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Seema

@seemagb83

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Soaps1
What Heer feels for Prem does not give her a right to keep a daughter away from Prem ... if she can not trust Prem and has resolved never to go back to Prem then what is the problem in letting chahat meet Prem? Heer can stay away ... there are parents who don'tlive together but their kids meet both ... i am sorry but for me this action of heer's is not justified at all!

As for GS tracks Prem thought he was dieing, his family already considered him dead including heer, so what was the point in coming back?

As for Prem doubting Heer Yes it was a big mistake but didn't Heer have a part to play in all that? Yesterday Heer was thinking that it is due to my extreme love that i hate him today wasn't she? So it was Prem's extreme love for Heer that made him act the way he did that day after watching that video.

Now don't get me wrong i am ok with heer not been able to forgive Prem for that one night but how come she thinks that only Prem is the one who faultered and none of it was her fault? And no matter what it still does not justify her keeping Chahat away not for me anyways ... as for trust in my book Heer has never trusted Prem ... she has always trusted strangers and others over Prem, she never confided in him but others so if she doesn't trust him it does not surprise me.

When relationships break both are at fault and i am not comfortable with Heer acting all holier than thou as if none was her fault ... she does not want to go back is her choice and yes it may be difficult for her to forgive him but she should atleast have thought abt what led to all that!! Remember the day Prem accused her? When she was sitting with Rajveer at restaurant and he asked her to imrove things between her and Prem? And the way she reacted? No let them be!!!

I am not saying Prem was not wrong all i am saying is they both were wrong so punishing only Prem by keeping Chahat away is not at all justified on Heer's part and not just that now tou she has gone to the extent of calling Prem a black mailer

Just my humble opinion

And moreover.....if Prem was a such a degraded person in life...when he saw chahat he could have blamed her that she is not his daughter........!! Instead he knew that chahat was his and only his daughter!!!!!

Edited by seemagb83 - 16 years ago

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Jwalamukhi

@-Jwalamukhi-

Stunner

+ 9

Posted: 16 years ago

#27

^That was cus he knew Heer loves HIM! And that Heer was NEVER wrong.

Prem is not bad, agreed, he never was but Heer hiding Chahat from Prem, she just felt that if Prem saw Chahat, he would want her to come back to him, and Heer doesn't want to go back to Prem, despite the fact that she still loves him.

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Soaps1

@Soaps1

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 16 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: *Shifali*
^That was cus he knew Heer loves HIM! And that Heer was NEVER wrong.

Prem is not bad, agreed, he never was but Heer hiding Chahat from Prem, she just felt that if Prem saw Chahat, he would want her to come back to him, and Heer doesn't want to go back to Prem, despite the fact that she still loves him.

Do you really think Prem would want heer back only if he saw chahat? I mean he wanted her back even before he knew chahat and heer knows that very well! So Chahat or no Chahat has nothing to do with it and Heer knows that too

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Fari

@MimiLulu

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 16 years ago

#29

I don't think we can say anything unless we are in that situation.

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Fari

@MimiLulu

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 16 years ago

#30

But Soaps, didn't Prem leave after Heer told him to leave? He only came back after finding out his daughter's name is "CHAHAT".....what if her name was "Payal" or "Diya" or something random? He wouldn't have come back?

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