The reason behind Heer hiding Chahat...

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I was going through some forum topics and many are like 'There must be some GOOD reason behind Heer hiding Chahat from Prem' and everything. Even I believed that there was some major reason and now, that I was thinking it over, the reason that Heer hid Chahat from Prem is PREM!
The way Heer understands Prem, she is afraid of Prem. She knows that whatever Prem does/thinks of doing, he does it, no matter what happens and he does it to the extreme.
And her examples are:
  • Premeer's love. The way he fought with everyone just for Prem and Heer, wasn't it extreme?
  • Prem's care towards his family, especially his mom, dad, Preet, wasn't it extreme, that no matter what came, despite fighting for Heer, he still loved them?
  • Prem's hatered/misunderstanding for Heer. Wasn't it so extreme that he went till accusing her of cheating on him?
  • Prem's reason for going away from Heer and pretending to be Gaurav Sharma, he wanted to protect Heer, from what may have happened if he DID have a heart disease.

And now she left Prem 6 years back, cus she 'thought' he had slept with Ash, and we know what the truth is. And now, you expect her to trust Prem, just when he didn't trust her?

And now you guys are saying why Heer didn't tell Prem about that guy, well, don't you know that she wanted to see Prem happy, just the way he wanted to see her happy and that is why he put the false act of 'Gaurav Sharma'. Get it? It is all about staying happy and since Heer cares for Prem, and cus Gayatri told her not to tell Prem, she didn't, just like Prem didn't tell Heer that he was Prem, and pretended to be Gaurav Sharma cus he thought he had little time left.
So, does this justify it?
And then, the accusations of why, Heer doesn't trust HER Prem. Well, then where was Prem's trust for Heer 6 years back, when he accused Heer of having an affair with Rajveer and cheating on him? A misunderstanding right? And that was sorted out with Heer-Rajveer telling him the truth. And now, I don't blame Prem, cus here no one is wrong. Neither Heer nor Prem but still.
And now, you see her saying all those stuff, about Prem cheating on his wife etc, and having an affair...which is wrong. But now, don't you think that even though she might be in denial that she doesn't want to go back to Prem, but she can't see anyone else with him either, so her lines of him having an affair and what so ever, isn't it like, she telling someone else that Prem is not the right guy for them, so she has him all to herself?
Now goes, Heer's reason for hiding Prem from Chahat. She doesn't want to go back to Prem, cus she thinks that he is not her Prem anymore. I mean who wouldn't? You did so much for his family and then he ends up sleeping with your cousin? (Heer's POV). Ofcourse you are angry and on top of that, his personality. She knows that if Prem knows about Chahat, he would want to have Chahat and can go to any extent to get her. And that is why Heer didn't tell him about Chahat.
She knows that Prem wants Heer AND Chahat back, but she doesn't want to go back to him, cus she loves him, yes but she can't go back, seeing what he did by 'sleeping' with Ash. So basically it is justified/ her lines/ expressions etc.
So basically, Heer knows that Prem can go to any extent to get her and Chahat, but she doesn't want to go back to him right now, cus of what he did 6 years back, and she worries that what he did before, he can do it again, and this time, if he does do it again, then Chahat will be hurt with her and then, maybe, she won't get Chahat back, IF the Juneja family starts to get attracted towards Chahat, not as if they aren't already. So she fears, that they will take Chahat away from her and she doesn't want that. And she loves Prem, and can't see him with anyone else, and that is why, she keeps saying he had an affair and everything so the other girl would hate him, and then they would break the marriage and whatever she says, even Heer is confused of her feelings. She loves Prem, but she fears that what Prem did to her 6 years back, he might do it again!

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sweta2005 thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i agree with u i thik she is not in her proper senses after that incident she is still living at that time she is just living for chahat.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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totally agree with u Shifali.if heer is wrong then prem was also wrong so that no one is wrong ever 4 me.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Shifs! 🤗 Will edit this tomo..pakka..and kaccha too 🤣
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Posted: 16 years ago
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But in the midst of all this, why is she going around painting a bad picture of Prem to everyone? You say it's cause Heer doesn't want anyone else to be with Prem. And okay, agreed. But, this makes the people think disgusting things about Prem. Make them think the opposite of what Prem is. And whyis she blaming every mistake on him? Just like Prem said y'day. She blamed every little mistake HERS on him. Granted, he did commit a 'mistake'. Sin, in fact. But, why is she protraying Prem to be a womanizer? Who sleeps with a different girl everytime?

Heer is punishing him this much, just cause of his one mistake? What about his lifetime of good deeds??! It's Heer's fault for thinking Prem is God. No he is not God Heer. He's a HUMAN BEING. And we all make mistakes. Lekin galti hoti hai. Heer should know that Prem will NEVER betray her again.

It was also Heer's fault when Prem started to doubt her. In fact, Prem would have never doubted her if it wasn't for Veera's death and the video. Because until that point, he has always trusted her, na? He knew that Heer will come back and tell him the truth. Yes, whatever Heer was doing was for Prem and his well being, but why would she register her name as Mr. and Ms. Juneja? Why couldn't she just say that she's with Rajveer instead of a friend?

And I'm sorry, but there is absolutely no reason for Heer to hide Chahat from Prem. She not only hurt Prem, but deprived Chahat from fatherhood which she has been yearning for so long! And why? Because of Heer's selfishness. Because SHE does not want to get hurt again. Arre, if you don't want to forgive Prem then fine. But why hurt your lover and daughter both? That I will never understand.

Heer has been justified in her actions uptil the point where she cannot forgive Prem. Beyond that, she is wrong from all angles.

Anyways, I really liked reading your POV Shifs. 😃 I will just forget that Heer had ever said or done anything after Premeer reunite..... 😳
Edited by mysticgoryfilms - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Anyways, I do agree with you on Prem was also wrong. He was. He did some things that I still haven't been able to figure out till this day . Like when he threw Heer out of the house, slept on the terrace and even not trusting her at times, but he did admit he made mistakes (er...right? ) but Heer takes the cake. Because not only she made mistakes, she doesn't admit she did and blames the whole thing on Prem. *sigh* I will just forget that Heer has ever done this and enjoy the show. 😉 I just love my Heer and want her to come back... 😳
Edited by mysticgoryfilms - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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shifu i totally agree with you
thank you
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Totally re..I agree..if Prem was wrong..Apart of Heer was also wrong
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I do agree that Heer is justified in all her actions. I don't think there is a big 'other' reason to this, other than the fact that Prem 'slept' with Ash, because that one night broke years of trust for her. So, I think she's justified in not forgiving Prem, she's also justified in trying to keep Chahat away from him, because she IS scared.
But, at the end of the day, however much she is justified, she IS wrong. Agreed that Prem also made mistakes before the leap, but so did Heer, and she refuses to acknowledge that she had any part at all in breaking up the relationship. Both Prem and Heer have placed the whole blame of the relationship breaking on Prem. Whatever it is, Prem and Heer are both humans, and make mistakes, and I'm getting tired of everyone on this forum taking sides, and bashing either one or the other. *sigh* If Premeer-are-one, then why in the world are we bothering to even hate one of them sepearately?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Bee-

I do agree that Heer is justified in all her actions. I don't think there is a big 'other' reason to this, other than the fact that Prem 'slept' with Ash, because that one night broke years of trust for her. So, I think she's justified in not forgiving Prem, she's also justified in trying to keep Chahat away from him, because she IS scared.

But, at the end of the day, however much she is justified, sheIS wrong. Agreed that Prem also made mistakes before the leap, but so did Heer, and she refuses to acknowledge that she had any part at all in breaking up the relationship. Both Prem and Heer have placed the whole blame of the relationship breaking on Prem. Whatever it is, Prem and Heer are both humans, and make mistakes, and I'm getting tired of everyone on this forum taking sides, and bashing either one or the other. *sigh* If Premeer-are-one, then why in the world are we bothering to even hate oneof them sepearately?



But don't you think she has become a leetle selfish? Like you said, she wants Chahat to stay away from Prem cause she's scared. But how can she bear to see the tears in Chahat's eyes when she longs for a mama and papa both?

Like you said Heer is justified in not forgiving Prem, in fact I don't think I will either (if he actually did it) but at least she can bring some happiness in Chahat's life, right?

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