Heer's Point of View... - Page 2

Originally posted by: Sonalicious

I can see both of Heer's view and Prem's and they are both right in their own way.

Heer loved Prem unconditionally. She literally gave him her soul if that makes sense. The way she sees it, because of a misunderstanding, he slept with someone else to get revenage and that for her is beyond hurtful. I guess she's upset that he never cleared it up with her before commiting that sin. After she left Prem, she had no contact with Prem and had no idea what he was doing and how he was doing. Maybe she imagined him living with Ashlesha or someone else. Whatever it was, she was angry and for 6 years that anger built up and now she finally see Prem and I guess she is taking that anger out of on him that she was building up for 6 years. And like the orignal poster said, Chahat is all she got and she knows Prem is a wonderful person (how she defended him when Chahat called him khadoos) and she knows he would be a great dad to Chahat and he can give Chahat a lot more than she can (fiinancially) and she's scared that than she'll lose Chahat as well. AT this point, she can't see forgiving Prem though obv. later on she will.

I also see Prem's point of view. Heer thinks she has commited the "sin" intentionally but of course Prem know he hasn't. He knows how much he loves Heer. He knows how much he loves Chahat. He knows how much he wants to be part of both their lives. I don't support adultry and I think its an unforgivable mistake but in Prem's case, he didn't even do anything. But what he did or didn't do to Heer, doesn't make him any less of a father to Chahat. He deserves to have Chahat in his life. Chahat deseves to have him in his life.

I think the truth needs to come out, not for Prem or Heer's sake but also for Chahat. I think by promising Heer that she'll never talk to Prem again, she won't be happy either since he has been the only father figure in her life and she lost him too.

Heer can certainly chose whether she wants prem back in her life or not and can refuse to have anything to do with him. But she cannot decide this for Chahat and Prem. They deserve to and have a right to make this choice for themselves and she is denying them that choice and that right. She may not encourage it, but to put such emotional pressure on such a young child is totally not done. heer, i expected better of you! just like you feel this is not your Prem, seeing what you did to Chahat, i also feel that this is not prem's heer. She would not do this to anybody, let alone to her own daughter and to prem. if you feel that this is not that prem, then this is not that heer too!!!!!

Originally posted by: premeer928

I agree with you. It is very hard to forgive some one once they have let u down...but I hope soon heer learns the truth and premeer get together and geet is out of the picture...😊

i agree, it is very hard to trust someone who has broken ur trust..especially if u love that person to death..

Originally posted by: kaymail

I agree that Heer lied to Prem.. but it was with good intentions.. I don't agree with the strategy that she used to protect Prem.. by lying ... but that does not mean Prem can have a one night stand with another women... I don't think anything justifies cheating..

Prem went and had a one night stand because Heer lied to him?/😕...that's news to me...Or if Heer was thinking this, then she didn't even understand him properly...Actually whatever she speaks of Prem now a days shows she really never understood Prem...😕....And bring me one person who says cheating is justified....But what Prem supposedly did wasn't called cheating...cheating is something that you do with an intent....Prem was in a drunken stupor and if Heer cared for Prem, she would've actually told him the truth right there in that restaurant and took him into her arms and consoled him and herself.....That is the Heer that we knew....(She even forgave that Daljeet chachi even after the umpteen humiliations she put her through..remember?)But the creatives were hell bent upon destroying the characters and taking the show on a leap....And hence Heer left him there to his own fate....She didn't even consider her part of the mistake for a second...It took a third party to make her go back to Prem and confess about whatever she did...

On the topic of Chahat and Prem... I can understand Heer's initial skepticism....Chahat is her whole world...and is afraid to lose her and so is holding onto her more tightly...But I think Heer needs to understand that Prem made a mistake....(I will never agree that what he did is okay..it is a mistake..I know nothing happened...but Heer doesn't know that..so we need to look at it that way) and she should not withhold Chahat from Prem..because it is Prem and he is basically a decent guy and is repentant.

Again...no one agrees what he did was ok...that would be so insensitive and I doubt if there is anyone who is that insensitive...and whether the mistake happened or didn't happen doesn't matter really....Even if we didn't know that the mistake actually happened...after his repentence and knowing the kind of guy that he is...and with the knowledge of there was no intent attached...I think the whole issue has to be dealt in a different manner than Heer is dealing presently...And here I am talking about the regular people....Heer toh is supposedly Prem's soulmate....Wasn't she supposed to know a bit more about Prem than what she seems to have right now??and in fact the Heer we knew, even if Prem comes and tells her he did it and she sees it with her own eyes, shouldn't be believing in it and doing more research on it....But this Heer toh just accepted it right away and took a drastic decision and left....And about Chahat...no matter what excuses she tries to give...she IS committing a sin by emotionally blackmailing a poor little soul into not calling her own father 'papa' and keeping a father away from his parental rights and pleasures...I am not asking her to go stay with him or forgive him....but why is she torturing/punishing Chahat for their mistakes??

Only and only because it is Prem and he had a one night stand(not an affair) and that too not intentionally and was truthful about it and also Prem is basically a very nice guy and is very very repentant for what he did.......and is still in love with his wife for the past 6 yrs....I think Heer should forgive him....Any other case a wife should not accept a cheating husband..

Exactly...