Originally posted by: lghosh
u know lots of people say that what heer is going through is kind understandable bcoz preemer r one & they keep family above ,but my point is exactly what u said ighosh that see it from heer's pov ,waiting for ur whole life from prem & then just after marriage consumation thrown out by prem cant justify with "family is above " situation right now ,i mean she is human at the end of the day & she wants her husband with her physically right now when her sasuual is against her ,a girl who almost sacrificed her life for gayu is being objected to her hatred & she now needs his husband with her now & i cant talk about prem's pov ,i know he is suffering the same but he chose to do that himself & that's the tampering creatives already did before we could say anything ,but its high time prem shouldn't do these things far more bcoz he should realize that gayu has whole family with her but heer has just him & he need to be husband when his wife needs him the most .
Harshitifonder before u jump the gun, pls if u have time go & read the entire discussion we had & read my posts very well & u will find no where have I said Prem is justified in what he did! That is what we were talking about that he needs to be atoned, not only redeemed but resurrected as well to be that old righteous & virtuous Prem. I didn't for once said Heer's situation is kinda understandable & what u wrote about her needing Prem physically next to her for assurance that she needs now, this I wrote y'day itself right here after watching all the scenes she was reminicing in the car. I even said its only Heer who can live with a person like Prem, any normal girl would have shown him the door.
It is just a discussion with pros & cons of the current situation & we r not justifying or siding with either one of them, its more of an analysis of the situation that these creatives r dishing out to us.
So before jumping to hasty conclusions pls read thoroughly to what I wrote & then react.
We sure can have healthy debates & still beg to differ respectfully, right? We simply had a gala time sharing our views.
no no ighosh ,i m not talking about u ,dont take me wrong & i read the whole session & not debating for prem or heer's side ,i agree with ur pov ,lots of things i understand from ur posts; i was saying that many says that preemer r one & keep family above themselves which is also true ,i was just saying from heer's pov what u said is exactly what i meant ,but what my point is "family is above " track right now does not justify either heer or prem's pain ,they both r suffering ,i know prem has to pay gayu back that he is debt but creatives forget one thing that is he is idol for us & he should be shown to us also as a perfect husband & i agree he needs to be atoned .
Edited by harshitifonder - 16 years ago
Arjun
