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I read every one POV and i must say i thoroughly enjoyed it... Lana and Misty, i totally agree with you....They are slowly getting back on track.....After Wed epi, they have started to realise and are trying to get things better.. I dont think we will ever get an explanation for Wed epi, what has been done is done... Nor there is any way they can justify it, even if they want to... That is a major blunder..... But the positive thing, is after that they have started to show the other side of the story........ And i agree with Lana, that why is he not wiping her tears..... simply bcoz he doesnt have the courage to do so and then walk out again.... I think the creatives gave a very good justification for this in Monday's epi...... He sid"Aakar wapis jaane ki himmat nahi hai"..... I think we should judge his actions from this angle.... He simply doesnt have the cporage.... And he also said yesterday that "bhagwan se apne liye maangne ki himmat nahi hai, jis bhagwan ne mauyt ke baad zindagi di, uski zindagi ko tu sambhal nahi paya, ab kiya maangoun"... So he KNOWS he is wrong but is simply helpless....... The way he was looking at her while she was crying wwere so much of hurt and guilt.... He knows he is wrong and he knows she is hurt bcoz of him.... but again himmat nahi hai....
And i think very soon we will see a breaking point..... These days they are making him say dialogues where a husband has to fulfil his duities towards his wife.... Through Meet, it is their way of making himself realise that what he is doing is wrong, and and he has t fulfis his duties towards his wife no matter what.... U know what, uptil now, i dont think, in this situtaion he has taken his and heer's relationship as one of husband and wife... He has simply done what he has believed uptil now.....Thjat they are one, their souls are one, no matter what , even if they are not physically there iwth each other, their hearts are always one, so it doesnt really matter for him if they are not physically together... It has never mattered to him.....So he can take the risk with heer, who he knows will always understand him.... On the other hand it is Gayatri, whom he has to pay back and prove that he is her son.......which he doesnt have to, with heer......
Now Meet's situtaion is kind of very helpful for him... Bcoz through them, he is szaying those dialogues that a husband should be his wife and then he always takes a pause, esp when he looks at her, and then realise that the situtaion is soo applicable to them, and slowly he is starting to realise that asa husband he will have to fulfil his duties, no matter how much he believes that they are one.... It is getting quite inyteresting now.........Slowly slowly he will realise and fulfil his responsibilities towrds heer .. And i think the exploding point is very near... In kosoli, he will clearly get to see what heer is going through....its not that like he doesnt know.... but being with her every moment ane see her pain every second means much more and here will feel much more guilty...... I think when they will return home, and there will be some big drama , i think he will finally revolt then.... I think it is then, when he will very politely, in his own calm manner , make gaya3 realise whatever heer has done for the family uptil now..... It wont be an agry scene... but with tears in his eyes..... And then gaya3 will ask him to leave........
Farah
Udne Ki Aasha
Kumkum Bhagya
