To get married, you must be sure you have great communication. The reason is that marriage is nothing but problems! I know this doesn't sound very romantic, but it's very realistic. Couples often mistake good chemistry for good communication.
Dhruv mind was spinning, trying to sort things out. Saachi lonesome bride come across as stubborn to a fault with no communication between them except arguing when they are together. Saachi remaining silent and refusing to answer a question or respond to the other during a conversation or dialog. The problem is not the problem. The communication about the problem is the problem. Communication. That's right--you gotta communicate about communication! When there is a disagreement of any kind, small or large, this is when you find out how good or how bad your communication is. The essence of good communication is that you can consistently reach win-win solutions to your problems and disagreements.
Dhruv break downs because he didn't like what Saachi is saying, or not saying, not because she can't communicate. He believes communicating is all about being able to handle the message, honesty increases. And when honesty in a relationship increases, you grow more as an individual and closer together. Through this growth you are capable of reaching new levels of passion and intimacy.
Saachi in making promises, she was aware that she may be ignorant of some facts and do not completely foresee the future, yet within some limits of error and ignorance, she express her intention nevertheless to do what she promise. In the nature of the case, the limits cannot be specified in advance, instead, when the problem arises they are determined by what is fair, all things considered. Thus, a promise does not lack obligatory force merely because it would not have been made except for ignorance, but it does lose obligatory force if unforeseen conditions render keeping the promise unfairly burdensome.
You can never be prepared for marriage. You are marrying a completely different person than yourself, and you cannot know how you will grow and change or how they will grow and change. Just remember why you're together-because you really love each other.
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