who is wrong Prachi or Sanchi? - Page 3

I personally feel it is Prachi who is wrong 98% with her selfish and insensitiv nature.

Originally posted by: Heema22

I am glad you made this post . I was thinking about this issue too.who is wrong and who is right ? Is Sachi making choice between what's right and what's easy ? Or she is a sibling and trying very hard to be parents which is very hard to do . Prachi is spoiled child doesn't understand disappointments is part of your life. Sachi needs to know its impossible to protect Prachi against disappointment in life. If she is thinking that she is Prachi's parent then Her primary job as a parent is to prepare Prachi for how the world really works. In the real world, you don't always get what you want . Sachi needs to know that Prachi doesn't have to love you every minute of every day. She'll get over the disappointment of having been told "no." But she won't get over the effects of being spoiled.One painful duty fulfilled makes the next plainer and easier.

As my experience , I accept that there is no right or wrong . There is many ways to see same situation . But in this situation Prachi need to evaluate Prachi's demands before she goes out of her way and capability to fulfill them .

absolutely right... If Sanchi wants to be a parent, she has to teach Prachi how to deal with life. If she wants to be a sibling, by this time Prachi must have understood that they do not have parents to they cannot demand things ...

Originally posted by: nidhirohan

offcourse saanchi is very much over protective...but i dont think that it's her fault..she lost her parents and she very well know the imp of parents in upbringing of children...she does notwant prachi and adduu to suffer from any kind of pain..so she is lit bit overprotective towards them...fault in this case here is of prachi only,she is not understanding imp of her tai in her life.. i mean prachi is not a kid she is a grown up girl..she knows very well what sacrifices saachi has given to make their life better.. i hope dhruv plays a imp role in making prachi understood the imp of saachi in their life 😳

A very thoughtful question and post AF!👏

In my view, there is no one rule to state who is right and who is wrong.

The circumstances have a big role behind why one should act in a particular way... Saachi has learnt the lesson a bit early and her sister is taking time.

Originally posted by: Heema22

Hi I don't know your first name ! R U Apoorva or Apoorva's fan ? I am Heema .

I see your Thread has difference of opinions and most of them blaming Prachi . obviously , because of her behavior .

When tragidy strikes family and older sibling has to rise to the occasion and become "The surrogate parent " sometimes just a teenager him or herself - must manage household logistics and make difficult decisions for siblings, all while dealing with their own grief and anxiety. This dynamic affects younger brothers and sisters influence them later in their life.Everybody knows how to raise children, except the people who have them so I expect Prachi to make mistakes and she will learn . We don't have schools or formal education for parenting .

Sachi is not sure of her role . Sometimes I feel like she is Tai ( older sister )and sometimes times Aai .( mother).Prachi behaves the way she does because someone lets her. If you want your child /your sister to keep their feet on the ground, put some responsibility on their shoulder. Sachi needs to give some responsibility to Prachi . We have seem many times she overrules Grannies . Prachi takes advantage of this weakness and expect Sachi to solve her problems and expects perfect solution .If she takes life in her own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame. it's easy life when we have someone to blame for . Prachi was very young when her parents died so she has attitude problem "she deserves every thing her own way on the silver platter "

Selfish people are self centered and always looked at life as if they are the center of the Universe. It is very difficult deal with people because they are always willing to take and never willing to give and Prachi is not exception . More Sachi gives more she will expect !! It seems.

Now the sari comments . Prachi was very young when her parents died . We never saw her missing or Idolizing them the way Sachi does . Her memories are very different than Sachi .

At this time she is in love . She is only going to think about what her boyfriends thinks and wants. It's different stage of her life . That's why she chooses pink sari ( and also writers want that yellow sari for Sachi to show her appreciation for parents ) I don't think any thing wrong with this or this doesn't make her " bad daughter " no way !! She is just a normal girl in love .

u wrote it very nicely and i agree with every one
especially the responsibility part
prachi is working person but yet doing nothing at home so why would she care about the home issues she knows her sister is there to deal with all so why would she care
well sari issue .. even at that time sanchi supported prachi and prachi knew it very well that sanchi will support her that's why she can say no and do what she wants to.

this mightbe little out of track but want to mention here that the way saachi took decision of attending lunch and postponing the court date.
she thought there can be another chance and upper court is available . but ther is no second chance
for prachi's happiness if suneel's parents made disapointed . this is the proper way to chose one between two which r equaly important to you. and she made her mind readyto face disadvantages of her decision. good Manager . hatts of to her.
( here I am not commenting on her decision that is whether her decision is rt or wrong. I want to admire the way she took the decision.

and I like cvs decision to show that sanchi need not regrete for her decision. DV solve the court date problem. I want the serial tension free like this . no dragging of problems and unnecessary tension . we saw serials for entertaing us and not to bear the tensions. so👏 👏 for cvs.

@heema22- Agree with the first part. Reg saree- prachi is not a teenager in love. She is grown up, maybe around 25 yrs and working. She is so concerned about Sunil's likes and dislikes. The same way she has to consider her nani's wish also. Nani is a bit senti on that day she's missing her daughter and she want's to see her in prachi.

Originally posted by: ak75

@heema22- Agree with the first part. Reg saree- prachi is not a teenager in love. She is grown up, maybe around 25 yrs and working. She is so concerned about Sunil's likes and dislikes. The same way she has to consider her nani's wish also. Nani is a bit senti on that day she's missing her daughter and she want's to see her in prachi.

Its her nani...prachi can listen to her once and fulfill her wish and make her smile. Saachi understood nani's feelings saw her sad face and agreed to wear it. That's the diff between the sisters.

I completely agree with Heema on this whole Sari issue...I don't even understand why in this day and age, this has to even be an issue? The grannies in this show need to be shown a bit more mature- but then I guess Saachi would not get the opportunity to swoop in and save the day every time😆 But seriously, the nani was upset because Prachi didn't want to wear the sari chosen by her...give me a break!