who is wrong Prachi or Sanchi? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Heema22

Hi sorry I am new so I don't know your name . I am Heema .

Thank you for agreeing and and disagreeing . I love healthy debates because it makes me think . Again in my first post said there is no right or wrong . There is many ways to see same situation .

Yes, these two sisters are very different and we need expect different responses from both of them otherwise this show will be boring . One is almost perfect and other doesn't give a damn .

I see lots of discussion about " Prachi being disrespectful " I am not praising Prachi for her behavior . It has taken me so many years to accept that its okay with being different . I finally know the difference between pleasing and loving, obeying and respecting.

Do you really think that not wearing mom sari is disrespectful ? I think Prachi was very polite when she refused and gave an explanation . As you said,she is not a teenager . She is grown up with job and just was promoted she she must be responsible person at work . She asserted herself. May be moms sari is not her taste . First time Sasuralwale are coming to see her . She needs to be comfortable . She needs to look good and have confidence . Nothing wrong with wearing something your boyfriend likes that's human nature .I wish grandma had given her choice or asked her about her choice but she didn't she choose the sari she likes and was expecting to wear it . Is that fair ? I know Nani was little senti but Sometimes you've got to emotionally let go of the things that once meant a lot to you, so you can move beyond the past .I personally liked the way Sachi handled the situation . so Prachi asserting herself on her engagement to please her fiance and feel comfortable and have confidence in herself , this is fine with me plus as Prachi's character is written ,she has her own mind and I am very sure Sachi will wear that sari she is the one who does everything right . Plus I want to find out how many forum member would prefer to wear attire of their own choice on their special day ? How many like grandma to chose your attire for sentimental reason ?

Originally posted by: ak75

Hi Heema .My name is Anu. Its true that Prachi's character is written in such a way as to show that she is opposite to Sanchi. As u said each person see the situation in a different way. I just said what I felt. Personally, I do wear my nani's saree sometimes coz she was very dear to me and I miss her a lot. Yes, her sarees and their color are totally different from my taste but I still wear them coz its the only thing left in her memory and I feel she is with me when I wear them.

Originally posted by: Walden

I completely agree with Heema on this whole Sari issue...I don't even understand why in this day and age, this has to even be an issue? The grannies in this show need to be shown a bit more mature- but then I guess Saachi would not get the opportunity to swoop in and save the day every time😆 But seriously, the nani was upset because Prachi didn't want to wear the sari chosen by her...give me a break!

They are trying to show Prachi and Saachi on two extremes- for very obvious reasons. But honestly I don't like either of them! Prachi seems to do things that please her boyfriend and Saachi seems to do things that please only her family/father etc etc.Agree with this These two women are poor role models- neither has the ability to balance their personal goals and desires with the demands placed on them by others. but not with this . fulfilling father's dream and taking care of family(looking after welfare of family) are Saachi's personal goals. nobody has imposed it on her. and she has balanced between both

Originally posted by: mudraswathi

A very thoughtful question and post AF!👏

In my view, there is no one rule to state who is right and who is wrong.

The circumstances have a big role behind why one should act in a particular way... Saachi has learnt the lesson a bit early and her sister is taking time.

Originally posted by: nutan7

your r adorable Anu.for 1. accepting Heema 2. for the affection u have toward u r nani .you too seem to be sentimental like me.
I request u to pay attention what Heema said in red .
I totaly agree Heema For some time you have to become practical keeping your own seti. aside.yes it is easy to say and difficult to follow even for me. but I have realised the importance of being practical.
It would have been Birthday party or similar occasion and prachi denied to wear sadi of nani's chose then what u say is correct . but at this situation what she did is correct from her pt of view .
nice to have interaction with u. you r welcome here further also

Originally posted by: nutan7

Hi Walden,happy to see u here. it seems that this forum will also become interesting