Kayamath Episode Discussion Part 15 - Page 26

^^I guess because Milind told her repeatedly to trust Neev, and she did not, thats why Milind would find it hard to forgive her as she misunderstood Neev and repeated Milsi's mistake in the past. I agree with you Sajani that Prachi's mistake is not so great that she should be made to feel any worse than she already has too. I guess the creatives like to dramatise things more than they have to. I still think that Neev is not dead, so Prachi will be forgiven.

Neev's detective is a lazy bum. He only gave the information that the killer is someone close to Milind and left the rest for Neev to figure out. When Ritwick was kidnapped, Neev hired a detective. I think he is same one. At that time too he gave the same piece of information that the kidnapping was done by someone from the house.

This time he didnt say that the killer is someone from the house...that means it is Ranvir.

Powerpuff girls are better than this detective. Only if Neev had joined hands with powerpuff girls, Ranvir would be behind bars by now.

yas,what I do not get is what has Prachi done to make her need Milind's forgiveness?I don't get it😕all she was trying to do was to save Milind.

Prachi needs Neev's forgiveness not Milsi's.

Originally posted by: gawker

@anju, if i remember correctly, she made the choice for sukruti and milind. and she never said the kid was neev's. it was only assumed to be.

if you have made a choice to criticize her regardless, there is little i can say to make you change your mind.

so now we can criticize her for not setting alaap on the right track, for not finding her father's murderer, maybe for not finding sowmya a groom, for not saving sukruti's marraige, maybe even for not paying enough attention to ritwick...the list is endless.

Is that what you are trying to do, change my opinion about prachi..aww 🤗.. come gawker..... My opinion is mine and urs is urs ....... well the show is about her, if ppl dont criticise her, who will they talk about.... ?? ....

thanks for reminding me the other list.........which for some reason i didnot know.......😕

Originally posted by: shali

yes he once was his biggest opponent but that turned around the moment mills realized his fault and saw the honest person neev was...even after the hole PA track he not once Q neev or prachi...

At the end of it I too liked the Milind Neev relationship very much as it progressed..After PA I was ready to endure the never ending 'NP'crap jaap 🤢 from Milind but the man surprised me in a good way who accepted and understood NPs friendship and found a good friend in Neev.

Originally posted by: basanthi

well becoz she is the only one who is playing perfect here, i dont see any of the other characters who are competing with her for saintness......

That is not what she is claiming to be. She never said that she is perfect. That is the title the rest of the clan in the show and out are giving her and expecting her to uphold.

So? How does that allow prachi to mistrust neev? If i am not wrong, Prachi put her sisters happiness before hers and sacrificed neev, without asking his opinion ? So told neev that she picked moeny over him? Did neev tell prachi that he wants to kill milind ? Did i miss something here ?

Just because she tell him something as ridiculous as that he should believe it? She told Milsi she is the mother of Ritwik and he believed. No wonder even flimsy lies like the one she says get readily accepted.What's with the guys in the show? Have they no brains of their own to think and reason? Obviously Neev would not say he is planning to kill Milind if he really is planning to do so. Why would she expect him to? In fact all his secrecy had strengthened her suspicion.

well till date have you seen prachi doing anything against alaap for all the problems he created ? Nothing she is his elder sister, if she showed half the concern she showed to ayesha , she would have ensured that alaap is in the right path ? She just stood there and watched...... other the only time where i think she slaped him and i dont see her interest in making her brother a better person ?

She has been much harsher with Alaap than with Ayesha. She had admonished him time and time again and warned him off Suki. She had tried to explain family values to him. It is another matter Alaap is a rotten scoundrel who refuses to change. Anyway I dont think anyone has that much power to change people's basic character unless the person himself/herself is willing to do so. And Prachi is no God who himself does not do it because he allows people to make their own choices in life.

opti, I am sure we have different definitions on friendship so it is futile to argue........

Yes, we do.

this i agree, neev should have told prachi, but i am sure neev never thought that of all the ppl prachi will suspect him, do you blame him for that ? No......

If he really claims to be her friend he should have confided in her ireespective of whether she suspects him or not. Or maybe your definition of friendship does not include sharing one's problems and apprehensions. And why the hell does he have to look guilty everytime Prachi asks him a question as though he is up to something he should be doing?

According to me Prachi killed neev by not trusting him to save milind, out of 2 lifes she chose what was more dear to her. For once her act was selfish and i appreciate that, but it doesnot make her any less guilty........Well opti from where i see, if you m ake an error once then its called an error and pardonable, but prachi has made so many countless judgemental errors that it just makes it hard for everybody to forgive her. So if she pays for the next six months then i am all for it.....becoz according to me she totally deserves the shit she gets.......

Yeah, she chose her husband over her friend because the consequences of erring in the side of trust and later finding you are wrong were larger that the consequences of erring in the side of doubt. A friend who normally confides everything to her including when and where he thought Milsi would be attacked suddenly goes silent. He goes to great lengths to hide a stab wound. He gives shifty glances evertime she asks him a question about his whereabouts. He does not give the car registration number to the police. To top in all he is found with a gun with Milsi unconsious and wounded after she had heard gun shots. I guess all this means Neev is innocent.

So what are her other errors of judgment? That she trusted Ayesha? But who did not, including her own husband. And even if she is repeatedly making errors of judgment that does not mean she has to be condemned for life. All it shows is that she is gullible. Just as gullible as her husband, who is all set to fall in Ranvir's trap because of an error of judgment. They are made for each other.

She did not commit a crime.

Matter of perception again

I think crime is defined by law and not by perception

if he does forgive her right away that would hardly make him normal, it wouldnot be milind for me.......but a stranger

Who is he to forgive her, anyway? Whatever she did she did in the interest of protecting him. If at all anybody should forgive her, it should be Neev who should be forgiving her. If he goes about rubbing the salt in the wound saying I told you so to a girl who would already be broken, he is not Milind for me.

The Milind I have seen so far cannot bear to see Prachi miserable even when he thought she betrayed him. He wanted to divorce her and send her away not because he could not stand her or he could not forgive her but because her tears made him weak and hurt him. If one recollects, it is only after Ritwik's kidnapping that he became very rigid about the divorce because that was the time he had seen her totally shattered and he could not take it anymore. At the same time he could not accept her because of what he thought she did, he wanted to send her away.

Now things are different. He knows the extent of her love and he knows whatever she did it was for him. Why should he now punish her more than she would already be punishing herself?

Anyway marriage is not about oneupmanship. It is not about who is right and who is wrong. It is about accepting your partner with all his/her flaws and supporting them when they need the support most.

If they create a rift between Michi because of this they have already ruined Milsi for me.

Anju, I am not here to change your view and you can continue to hate Prachi with all your heart. I was merely responding to your comments on my comments to your comments!!!

BTW I wonder why that stupid Pandit didn't predict Neev's life was also in
danger. Milsi was very much right when he said he doesn't believe in Pandit
etc.... "Bhaad mein jaye Pandit".

😡

MFR, I think that Panditji is Ayesha's set up, a bogus man to heighten Prachi's fears and insecurities. We have never seen him before in SM and he is not their family panditji. I assume they have one like one has a family doctor.

Originally posted by: basanthi

Is that what you are trying to do, change my opinion about prachi..aww 🤗.. come gawker..... My opinion is mine and urs is urs ....... well the show is about her, if ppl dont criticise her, who will they talk about.... ?? ....

thanks for reminding me the other list.........which for some reason i didnot know.......😕

😆 nah, i'm not trying to change your opinion at all. that would be too big a challenge for poor me. just disagreeing. for me to change your opinion, i'd have to force you to watch the show.

the list is a joke.