Originally posted by: optimist
Anju, so you are back to stir the brew?
Gasp😲 me and brew what are you saying? I merely stating my comments like the rest of you.
Well, all the characters of KYM have failed in the trust department. so let us not pick at only Prachi.
well becoz she is the only one who is playing perfect here, i dont see any of the other characters who are competing with her for saintness......
Neev was willing to believe that his girl friend of twenty years would pick money over him with half as much evidence it took Prachi to believe Neev was the culprit behind Milsi's life.
So? How does that allow prachi to mistrust neev? If i am not wrong, Prachi put her sisters happiness before hers and sacrificed neev, without asking his opinion ? So told neev that she picked moeny over him? Did neev tell prachi that he wants to kill milind ? Did i miss something here ?
We all know about Milsi's lack of trust in Prachi. Ayesha did not trust her good friend Prachi and believed that she was in with Alaap in the downright mean deed he did against her mother.
well till date have you seen prachi doing anything against alaap for all the problems he created ? Nothing she is his elder sister, if she showed half the concern she showed to ayesha , she would have ensured that alaap is in the right path ? She just stood there and watched...... other the only time where i think she slaped him and i dont see her interest in making her brother a better person ?
Coming to Prachi's mistrust, let us not forget that her initial reaction to Suki's accusations was anger and disbelief. When she saw Neev hide the knife wound she wanted to confront him then and there. It was Suki who stopped her from doing so. So it was not only Ayesha's evidence of matching finger prints, but also Suki's testimony and Neev's own suspicious behaviour which threw her over the edge.
opti, I am sure we have different definitions on friendship so it is futile to argue........
I would blame Neev too for maintaining the secret. Why could he not confide in Prachi? Afterall she already knows that someone is after Milsi's life. Is it not better to warn her when and where the guy intends to strike so that she can keep Milsi from danger?
this i agree, neev should have told prachi, but i am sure neev never thought that of all the ppl prachi will suspect him, do you blame him for that ? No......
As to having undying faith and trust one needs to keep in mind the consequences of having such a faith and not having the faith.
If Prachi had not trusted Neev and Neev was innocent the worst that could have happened is that she would have lost a friend (She did'nt expect that he will get shot). She would have expected him to go away from her.
If Prachi had trusted Neev and Neev was guilty, then the worst would be that Milsi would die.
Now in a scale, is her friendship more important or is Milsi's life more important?
Obviously she would choose the latter.
Prachi made a serious error of judgement.
According to me Prachi killed neev by not trusting him to save milind, out of 2 lifes she chose what was more dear to her. For once her act was selfish and i appreciate that, but it doesnot make her any less guilty........Well opti from where i see, if you m ake an error once then its called an error and pardonable, but prachi has made so many countless judgemental errors that it just makes it hard for everybody to forgive her. So if she pays for the next six months then i am all for it.....becoz according to me she totally deserves the shit she gets.......
She did not commit a crime.
Matter of perception again
This is a golden opportunity for Milind to show that he too can accept a wife who is not so perfect and support her in this moment of grief and guilt.
if he does forgive her right away that would hardly make him normal, it wouldnot be milind for me.......but a stranger