Aankhon mein aason chupe te kahin...

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Posted: 17 years ago
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...Unko chalak na tune sikaya.😭

One of my Fave songs… Dil mera churaya kyun from Akele hum Akele tum. (If only Anu Malik hadn't spoiled adding his own voice to the English bit of it😡) It suits Milind so much…🥺

Dil mera churaaya kyoon
Jab yeh dil todna hi tha
Humse dil lagaaya kyoon
Humse muh modna hi tha Dil ko dhadakna tune sikhaaya
Dil ko tadapna tune sikhaaya
Aankhon mein aansu chhupe the kahin
Inko chhalakna tune sikhaaya😭
Seene mein basaaya kyoon
Dil se jab khelna hi tha🥺
Humse dil lagaaya kyoon
Humse munh modna hi tha
Dil mera churaaya kyoon
Milti thi nazrein jab bhi nazar se
Uthte the shole jaise jigar se
Saanson se nikla jaise dhuaan sa
Banta tha mujhse jeete na marte
Aag kyoon lagaayi jab
Bujhaaye dil chhodna hi tha
Humse dil lagaaya kyoon
Humse munh modna hi tha
Dil mera churaaya kyoon
Jab yeh dil todna hi tha
Humse dil lagaaya kyoon
Humse munh modna hi tha😭


May not be the right song for Michi but suits Miind to the T😭

I swear I tried to be unbiased and look at both the point of views… but those two drops of tears that fell of Milind's eyes after he heard Prachi… left me numb and shaken. They fell off like life left him at that moment. His moist eyes waiting to unleash was thoroughly killing…and when they finally dropped… It sealed it for me…nothing can justify those tears… NOTHING😭! Prachi, Ayesha & Sukruti… pray I never cross ur path… I wont let u three go without making u all pay to hell for those tears😡. It isnt about crying… Milind has cried before so has Prachi… Prachi was also crying at that time… but there was something too overwhelming about those 1st two tears that silently fell off his eyes…. And that is going to haunt me for a very LONG time and I am not ready to forgive anyone responsible for that… Not Prachi, Not Ayesha, Not Sukruti and def not Shabbo😡.

Prachi tell me one thing, how are u related to Milind😕? Are u his neighbour by any chance😃? His Personal Secretary may be🤔? A Business Associate😕? What😕? By the look of it, you don't seem to realise the fact that you are indeed HIS WIFE😡! What makes u think that Sukruti matters to Milind more than you😡? And that he will be able to handle anything against you? You surely have a short memory…Didn't the guy tell u you matter to him over his family? Don't u remember how he cant handle u being associated with someone else? Have u forgotten how Possessed and Possessive he sounded when he reminded you 'Tum ab bhi MERI PATNI ho' Hasn't he told u anyone questioning your integrity means they are questioning his aswell?(the day he caught burning the briefcase) Hasn't he told you that if he cant trust you, he cant trust anyone else… hasn't he told the world that he trusts you over himself. Then lady what the hell were u thinking before you made the biggest blunder of your life and destroyed everything😡? You didn't want to see him fall from grace infront of Niharika… so your decided to kill him instead… Wah Prachi… only you can do something like this👏.What do u think of your Husband? That some Niharika Shregill has it in her to get Milind Mishra on his knees? If u thought so... U dont know your Husband😡

I don't buy the argument that Milind didn't trust Prachi… he trusted her till her confession came as the last straw. When Ayesha was throwing all accusations at Prachi… he looked highly irritated and didn't once look at Prachi for an explanation… he just waited to see Ayesha's drama unfold. It was only when Kamini said Ayesha threatened to hand her over to the police she had to spill the truth… Milind for the 1st time turned and looked at Prachi. Obviously if Ayesha had got local goons to blackmail her… it is understandable… but with police around… it surely sealed off all possibilities of Prachi's innocence. Yet, he believed that there must be an explanation… he waited patiently for her to answer Premlata's questions… No reply came and he took it upon himself with the belief that Prachi will speak the truth… His Love was at stake, she cant lie now… even then look at the way he worded his sentence. He didn't ask her if what Ayesha is saying is the truth, He didn't ask her if she was the mother of Ritwik… he asked her who the parents of Ritwik were. His eyes were pleading her to speak up the truth… and what does that girl do? Says 'Ritwik mera bacha hai, Milind!'😡 Looking at his face if I was in Prachi's place and if indeed Ritwik was my son…at that moment I wouldn't have thought beyond not letting Milind break… and this girl doesn't think twice before uttering a lie. And she dare not give me 'I did it for your sister, Milind' How about doing something for his wife for a change?😡

Nor will I buy the argument that Ayesha instigated him against Prachi… Ayesha had no effect on him whatsoever… he reacted and broke only at Prachi's confession. You look at Milind in his fave haunt recapping all the events… with every accusation of Ayesha, he backed it with a moment spent with Prachi…. Indicating that it was Prachi who had the last say… and it was indeed Prachi who had the last say… it was her confession that finally had him collapse. And do u really think I will let Prachi go after seeing Milind fall against the tree?😡

I will not hold anything against Milind for the stand he takes now and for what he believes is the truth. I believe Love should be Unconditional, NOT Blind. If Milind had trusted Prachi without questions it would have been blind faith… I do believe they share a relationship where they can question eachother and the other one is obligated to give an answer. It is not that he asked her once and she said something and he believed her. Prachi had enough time to come clean with him… but she chose not to despite the threat looming large by the moment. What trust of Prachi in Milind are we talking about? When the guy made claims infront of the whole world that he trusts Prachi more than himself… wasn't it her duty to uphold that faith in Milind… Milind ended up looking a Class A fool with her confession infront of the same people he had defended Prachi😒. Milind fought himself for Prachi's sake and still believed that Prachi must have had reasons to lie to him…he didn't question her once… hoping she will tell him what was going on… she continued in silence and he battled himself in silence. Did Prachi even realise how Milind would have felt watching her stand silent when her love for him was being questioned… if she really loved him, why didn't she fight for him? Why didn't she fight for the honour of her love for him? What was it that was more important to Prachi than him? Prachi didn't have to tell the truth if she didn't want to… all she needed to do was look into Milind's eyes and say 'just trust me, I will tell u the truth when the time is right' If only Prachi had said so instead of acting being a sacrificing queen… Milind would have unconditionally stood by her and given her the time she wanted without any further questions asked. But she has to behave like the know it all queen😡. If Milind feels let down by Prachi… then he has every right feeling so, because the truth IS that Prachi has let him down.

I find Milind more balanced and more respecting the relationship of Marriage… He tells her about everything that is related to them and their family… except at times when he wants to surprise his wife. And here is his wife, who doesn't care to tell him if not ask him that they have adopted a child. Adopting a child isnt like going shopping and blowing up a huge amount so u hide from your husband till it is time for him to pay off the Credit Card Bills😡. I assume that Prachi found the entire adoption process easy because she was Milind Mishra's wife, a reputed Businessman… and she doesn't care to inform him?


She might have the best of intensions in mind, but there is no denying that the track record has proven that when she goes to implement it… she only worsens the situation. There cant be any denying that it is ONLY Milind who steps in save the day for her by taking the correct course of action. He has come around every single time for Prachi… but now Enough is Enough… Milind will not be come around this time for Prachi… she has to. She has to come around for him and place him and their relationship above all and sundry. I hear 'Es Shadi ko maine apni Zindagi maana hai' once again and I wont spare her😡. What Zindagi is she talking about? When she can talk as if this marriage is a mistake when she sees her sister in pain, then she sees Milind's sister in trouble and she wont think twice about throwing it all up…. and she has the audacity to say that the Marriage & Milind are priority in her life😡. And did she actually say that Milind wont have listened to her if she wanted to explain😡? If only I didn't love Prachi… I swear Prachi would have been killed for making the statement. Did she forget that Milind asked her something and it was SHE who after a long silence had blurted out a Lie? And didn't she shut up Milind when he questioned her on the day of Sukruti's marriage and didn't he listen and understand to every word she said and what was left unsaid? And she says Milind wont listen? She better come up with better excuses to justify herself… Else I am not in any mood of giving her a benefit of doubt. Now I have decided, justified or not… I am forgiving Prachi only on the day she restores the life back in Milind that she took away with her stupidity and sacrificing nonsense😡. I will forgive her only on that day Milind smiles big to wipe out the torturous tears dropping off his eyes.

And Prachi better not give me the crap that Milind cant handle Sukruti's truth. What makes her think that she can take care of Sukruti more than Milind can? Has she forgotten for the past 20 years Milind has taken care of Sukruti like a daughter?😡 And why does she think that Milind cant handle the situations when he has proven beyond doubt that in moment of crisis and in a crunch situation… it is only he who stands the test of time and comes good ultimately? Before anyone questions if Milind hasn't learnt from the past, how about answering if Prachi has learnt from her mistakes😡? I would have felt justified even if Prachi did this to protect an innocent and honourable person. She threw up her marriage to cover up Sukruti's dishonourable act🤢? Maaf karna Main itni Mahan nahi hoon… for me what matters is everyone's happiness over nobility of someone. If everyone happiness is lost as the cost of someone's nobility, it spoils the very purpose.

Just wait and watch the repercussions of Prachi's 'selfless' act. Milind will leave and noone can hold anything against him. Ayesha will be back to torment the Shahs… With Neev swearing Revenge, God knows what he has in store. The truth about Sukruti will come out…. And her brother wont be around to fall back on and I wont be surprised at all if Sukruti blames Prachi. Ritwik future is still in question. And if Prachi's gets pregnant, then what about the future of that Kid😡??? The saddest thing will be even after all this set right say 3 months from now… Prachi wont change😡. She will find a new set of problems to sacrifice her marriage. May be I read too much into Prachi's 'Es Shadi ko maine apni Zindagi maana hai' Normally that means Milind and their marriages rank as No 1 on her list of priorities. But did I forget I heard that from Prachi? If she thinks Milind and their Marriage is her Zindagi… then without a doubt both will feature along side her own self… that is at the bottom of list😡. How I wish Milind had remained a stranger… she would have put him at the top of the list like the way she did when Neev got Milind arrested. The moment she made him her zindagi… usko bali ka bakra banadiya… and if Milind doesn't agree… I don't find him at fault at all.

And Milind hasnt behaved in a brainless or impulsive manner for me to say his temper clouded his reasoning... it didnt... He is too shaken up to feel anger just now. It isnt his temper at all... he is plain shattered. Milind surely used his brains... and the verdict is that... there is something drastically wrong going on... and Prachi was leading him on purposely into believing something that isnt the truth and the problem is the efforts Prachi is making to hide the truth from him is clearly visible to Milind. Prachi needed to OWN UP to the truth for Milind to stand by her.... and she chose to take him for another ride instead😡Btw just curious, what was Prachi expecting out of Milind after that confession? Slap her and say tell me the truth I know u r lying? I can bet on anything in the world that the girl would have sworn on Milind if required that Ritwik is her child... and then she will get away on technicality because she indeed is the legal mother of Ritwik😡I maintain Milind is the most balanced character among the 4 people... he may be the impulsive one flying into dangerous tempers...but there is no one as practical, reasonable and effective like him.

Milind ki bhi kya kismat hai… Prachi who is all heart no brains, Ayesha has all Brains no heart and Sukruti takes the cake… No heart, No Brain.I hope his daughter atleast has the perfect set of Heart and Brains like him. I seriously cant understand why it has to be Milind of all people who gets stuck with women who are so selfish when it comes to their love for him😡. They don't care about his happiness, do they? Sukruti wants everything perfect of her… if the world has to go take a hike so be it, she would care less. Then there is Ayesha who is so stubborn about her love for him, that she doesn't think of his happiness… she wants him, he wants to be with her out not…. I don't believe she was smiling seeing Milind this shattered😡. And then there is our Mahanta Queen who for the sake of her love will crush Milind's love without for once asking him what he wants😡. She couldn't see her Love bow infront of a woman like Niharika, so what she decides instead… that Milind's love will take the blame, be humiliated and dishnoured infront of the whole world…. She puts herself at stake and disgraces herself… because she cant see Milind being insulted… and this should be termed as Selfless😡? It is the most selfish act Prachi could have ever done in Love😡. Couldn't she see Milind shattered? Milind was right when he wondered how Prachi could see only Neev's hurt and not his. He is absolutely right… How could she not see how tortured he was feeling… if she realized she wouldn't have been so stupid😡.

I find Milind in the worst position in this mess. Atleast Prachi knows that Milind Loves her with all his heart, She can love with all her heart… the memories of their shared Love will be always be with her… for she knows the integrity of the love they shared… the happy moments will always bring a smile on her face. But can one imagine the plight Milind is going through… The memories will only make him disgusted, he will feel like a fool, he will feel like he has been used. He will torture himself with the belief that the woman he loves pretended to love him for some secret gain and that will be such a revolting feeling… the guy cant even respect the woman he loves, but cant stop loving her aswell… he is going to hate himself for that🥺… and to forget this pain, I don't know what kind of stress he will put himself through to keep his mind off Prachi. Milind has always loved Children…he is always shown smiling at the children who play around… and now the guy has to live the fact that a baby is the proof of betrayal vented out to him. There goes his stress buster and his dream…. One cant fathom the trauma he must be going through for asking Prachi for a child. Not only did Prachi spoil the future for them, she spoiled the Milind's memories for him😡. She didnt break only his heart, their relationship... she broke a family😭 She has left him in a state that he cant trust himself... and Milind lossing faith in himself will be the final nail in the coffin... can u imagine Milind Mishra devoid of the supreme faith and confidence in himself? How much i hate the fact that Milind has become so vulnerable😭

Fine, I have lost it… do u blame me, I come back to see this nonsense and I want to bash up everyone who is responsible for this state…. Shabbo included. All was atleast tolerable till those tears fell off his eyes. Now get used to me being fiercely protective about Milind, I have a reason or no…I am not ready to see another tear drop off those eyes like it did. Now all responsible will pay for it…Sukruti, Ayesha, Prachi & Shabbo😡. Who the hell asked him to put in so much of intensity into his performances in the 1st place😡? I feel like picking on him more… all this is happening because of his Mission Istanbul😡. And Shabbo if we have to deal with this crappy track and do without Milind for God knows how long… you better make Mission Istanbul worth all that we are put through and what we miss. Jitna pyar uspe kal aaraha tha seeing his nomination, aaj utna hi gussa araha hai… need sometime to get used to the fact that he will disappear for a long time… anyone knows when is he back?

And i wonder how they will send him off? A Business trip is what it will be mostly...because Milind isnt a guy who will run away from things esp leaving his family (his dad & Sis) behind and i doubt they will shift with him. He is going no where with Ayesha because they have to justofy Milind being out of focus not Ayesha. Sanjeeda will be very much around to shoulder the show with Panchi and Jay. So? The tried tested... accident formula? Fake Death and Return?😕 Do u think with Neev's challenge if something happens to Milind, Neev will be blamed for it... Neev was supposed to look dangerous with that challenge... but kahin par it wasnt chilling. Lets see... how they wind up Milind's track for this season... and then it is season break time for Shabbo and his fans

Enough of my ranting... I surely have more to complain and crib... but shall keep it for the next time. Sorry for the long post once again... adath abhi tak waisi hi hai.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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WOW, Ryka, you really must be feeling better after letting all that out in one go. 😃 . Well this was after catching up after 2 weeks....just imagine the state of the rest of us who were put through slow torture.

There are so many of us who wanted to put our hands through the TV screen and give that Prachi a good shaking when we knew what she was going to do....it was just too obvious....I wouldnt call that love for him...she gets a kick out of being a martyr...but she does not bother to think of what the person she sacrificed....1st Neev and now Milind.......what they might go through......she just thinks of her duties... and I dont think covering up for her GFN sis-in-law is supposed to be on her list of duties.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Ryka darling I want this to be sent my way, please😊

To be honest I feel like throwing up because this makes me so angry again 😡 Angry at Prachi's stupid logic and priority, angry at the creative, just angry with current track.

The only bit I disagree with is when you said that Prachi is selfish. She's not. But I hardly care for she's being even worse than selfish. I'm tired with calling her names so I won't start again but seriously the girl needs some tight slaps. But then again she's incurable, slaps won't do. I too think she won't learn anything from this and will always do the same thing after making Milind feel so terrible then guilty (why should he?! 😡) she'll come up with something new and equally disastrous.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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ryka long post.how much time u took for writing .

i will comment after i read it,,,it takes more time and it is about milind heart - breaking one 😭

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Man..give me some time to read............veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy..looooooooooooooooong one..read only half..u explained it well👏
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Ryka wrote:but those two drops of tears that fell of Milind's eyes after he heard Prachi… left me numb and shaken. They fell off like life left him at that moment

Totally agree with you on this.That two drops of tears conveyed his reaction very strongly.That image of Millind is still in front of my eyes. Shabbo brilliant acting. 👏 👏 👏

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Posted: 17 years ago
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wow 👏 and wow is all that I can say to u right now wow 👏 👏and also my heart go's out to my Milind 😆 😆
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I don't buy the argument that Milind didn't trust Prachi… he trusted her till her confession came as the last straw. When Ayesha was throwing all accusations at Prachi… he looked highly irritated and didn't once look at Prachi for an explanation… he just waited to see Ayesha's drama unfold. It was only when Kamini said Ayesha threatened to hand her over to the police she had to spill the truth… Milind for the 1st time turned and looked at Prachi. Obviously if Ayesha had got local goons to blackmail her… it is understandable… but with police around… it surely sealed off all possibilities of Prachi's innocence. Yet, he believed that there must be an explanation… he waited patiently for her to answer Premlata's questions… No reply came and he took it upon himself with the belief that Prachi will speak the truth… His Love was at stake, she cant lie now… even then look at the way he worded his sentence. He didn't ask her if what Ayesha is saying is the truth, He didn't ask her if she was the mother of Ritwik… he asked her who the parents of Ritwik were. His eyes were pleading her to speak up the truth… and what does that girl do? Says 'Ritwik mera bacha hai, Milind!'😡 Looking at his face if I was in Prachi's place and if indeed Ritwik was my son…at that moment I wouldn't have thought beyond not letting Milind break… and this girl doesn't think twice before uttering a lie. And she dare not give me 'I did it for your sister, Milind' How about doing something for his wife for a change?😡
Ryka dear I dont agree with you that Milsi trusted Prachi till Kamini opened her blessed mouth. In fact the seeds of doubt were sown the day he witnessed NP at the hospital together with Ritwik and she lied to him that she went shopping with Ritwik when he asked her where she had been. I felt that the man should have confronted her then and there instead of going away hurt. He could have told her how he had seen them together in the hospital . He need'nt sound supicious of her relationship with Neev but can make it sound that he is aware that she is hiding something and demand to be told the truth no matter how bitter it would be because he can take it. Then when he see Neev preventing ritwik from rolling over, he immediately feels jealous and upset even as he was patiently listening to Ayesha feed all the lies. His attitude towards Prachi had undergone a change. This was more than visible in the pooja when he did not even llok in her direction when the pooja started. Must give it to the creatives though for not butchering his character completely by making him utter words of accusations at Prachi. Agree he did plead with her to tell the truth and was crestfallen when she admitted to bieng Ritwik's mother.

I will not hold anything against Milind for the stand he takes now and for what he believes is the truth. I believe Love should be Unconditional, NOT Blind. If Milind had trusted Prachi without questions it would have been blind faith… I do believe they share a relationship where they can question eachother and the other one is obligated to give an answer. It is not that he asked her once and she said something and he believed her. Prachi had enough time to come clean with him… but she chose not to despite the threat looming large by the moment. What trust of Prachi in Milind are we talking about? When the guy made claims infront of the whole world that he trusts Prachi more than himself… wasn't it her duty to uphold that faith in Milind… Milind ended up looking a Class A fool with her confession infront of the same people he had defended Prachi😒. Milind fought himself for Prachi's sake and still believed that Prachi must have had reasons to lie to him…he didn't question her once… hoping she will tell him what was going on… she continued in silence and he battled himself in silence. Did Prachi even realise how Milind would have felt watching her stand silent when her love for him was being questioned… if she really loved him, why didn't she fight for him? Why didn't she fight for the honour of her love for him? What was it that was more important to Prachi than him? Prachi didn't have to tell the truth if she didn't want to… all she needed to do was look into Milind's eyes and say 'just trust me, I will tell u the truth when the time is right' If only Prachi had said so instead of acting being a sacrificing queen… Milind would have unconditionally stood by her and given her the time she wanted without any further questions asked. But she has to behave like the know it all queen😡. If Milind feels let down by Prachi… then he has every right feeling so, because the truth IS that Prachi has let him down.

I thought Prachi did exactly that with her eyes, plead her innocence, even as her lips were at difference with her eyes, mouthing that lie. I understand her plight not wanting to admit the truth in front of Niharika the dragon woman. All her efforts in guarding Suki's secret would go waste and definitely suki would find herself back in the shah mansion in a jiffy. The effect this would have on Milsi and Baba is definitely going to be enormous. So she had no other alternative but to tell what she did.

I find Milind more balanced and more respecting the relationship of Marriage… He tells her about everything that is related to them and their family… except at times when he wants to surprise his wife. And here is his wife, who doesn't care to tell him if not ask him that they have adopted a child. Adopting a child isnt like going shopping and blowing up a huge amount so u hide from your husband till it is time for him to pay off the Credit Card Bills😡<!--[if !supportEmptyParas]-->. I assume that Prachi found the entire adoption process easy because she was Milind Mishra's wife, a reputed Businessman… and she doesn't care to inform him?

Here I agree with you. She should have confided in Milsi before the adoption and if she did not, for lack of time (because Alaap was breathing down her neck) then atleast after that when she brought home the baby. It could have been 'their' secret and nobody, not even PL, need have been told about it. After all by then she did get a good idea of how much her husband loves her.

She might have the best of intensions in mind, but there is no denying that the track record has proven that when she goes to implement it… she only worsens the situation. There cant be any denying that it is ONLY Milind who steps in save the day for her by taking the correct course of action.

What is this thing about Milsi taking the correct course of action? If it had not been for his hurry in getting his sister married off to someone the minute he came to know of her feelings for Saket, she would not have eloped with Saket. He should have sat her down and explained to her why he did not want Saket and why the other match was better. He should have given her time to say yes and proceeded only after she did. After all it is her life. Where did all this end? At the end of the day it was Prachi who stopped the clandestine wedding and further humiliation for Milsi. And when he relented and went to ask that his sister be accepted by the shergills, he went overboard and gave up on his self respect. He could have atleast set out the terms and conditions for the match. Now he is on a weak wicket, a fact which must be playing up on Prachi's mind when she decided to take the blame.

He has come around every single time for Prachi

I dont think so. He has been more than willing to jump into conclusions based on what he saw and heard rather than what he felt deep down in his heart. the only difference between his attitude to her prior to c-night and post is that earlier he was unwilling to listen to her and now he does. But still he has not learnt to hear his heart which I am sure will be screaming her innocence.

And Prachi better not give me the crap that Milind cant handle Sukruti's truth. What makes her think that she can take care of Sukruti more than Milind can? Has she forgotten for the past 20 years Milind has taken care of Sukruti like a daughter?😡

Well, if he indeed had taken care of her as a daughter, he did'nt seem to have done a good job of it, has he? Here is a sister who ends up having an affair with someone, bears his child and then does not tell her own brother about it. Why should Prachi be the only one taking the blame? Milsi does not seem to have done enough to instill confidence in his siter to come out with the truth.

Before anyone questions if Milind hasn't learnt from the past, how about answering if Prachi has learnt from her mistakes😡?

I would fault both Mi and chi for not learning from their mistakes.

Just wait and watch the repercussions of Prachi's 'selfless' act. Milind will leave and noone can hold anything against him. Ayesha will be back to torment the Shahs… With Neev swearing Revenge, God knows what he has in store. The truth about Sukruti will come out…. And her brother wont be around to fall back on and I wont be surprised at all if Sukruti blames Prachi. Ritwik future is still in question. And if Prachi's gets pregnant, then what about the future of that Kid😡??? The saddest thing will be even after all this set right say 3 months from now… Prachi wont change😡. She will find a new set of problems to sacrifice her marriage.

Sure Prachi will not change. She is a BT heroine. Hope they dont make Milsi into a typical BT hero (read wimp)

And Milind hasnt behaved in a brainless or impulsive manner for me to say his temper clouded his reasoning... it didnt... He is too shaken up to feel anger just now. It isnt his temper at all... he is plain shattered. Milind surely used his brains... and the verdict is that... there is something drastically wrong going on... and Prachi was leading him on purposely into believing something that isnt the truth and the problem is the efforts Prachi is making to hide the truth from him is clearly visible to Milind. Prachi needed to OWN UP to the truth for Milind to stand by her.... and she chose to take him for another ride instead😡

Milsi was certainly acting brainless if he thinks Prachi is the mother of the child because she says so. Yes, he is way too shattered to be angry with her. All his anger is reserved for the hapless Neev who by the way went after Kamini instead of slapping Prachi. That would have shook up Milsi from his shock and he would have stepped up for his wife. If he used his brain and it was telling him something is'nt right and Prachi was hiding the truth then why did he not try to get to the bottom of it, with or without her assistance? After all the big businessman he is, he surely must have the resources to do so.

Btw just curious, what was Prachi expecting out of Milind after that confession? Slap her and say tell me the truth I know u r lying? I can bet on anything in the world that the girl would have sworn on Milind if required that Ritwik is her child... and then she will get away on technicality because she indeed is the legal mother of Ritwik😡I maintain Milind is the most balanced character among the 4 people... he may be the impulsive one flying into dangerous tempers...but there is no one as practical, reasonable and effective like him.

Well, I do have a huge soft corner for Milsi, inspite of all his flaws. But I would'nt call him the most balanced character. In fact all the characters have come unhinged thanks to this stupid retarded track that the creatives have thrust on us.

Milind ki bhi kya kismat hai… Prachi who is all heart no brains, Ayesha has all Brains no heart and Sukruti takes the cake… No heart, No Brain.I hope his daughter atleast has the perfect set of Heart and Brains like him.

You wish his daughter if he has one, should wear her heart on her sleeve as Milsi does? Come on, ryka have a heart. Let the poor girl not suffer like him. Let her be more balanced, like her grandmother PL.

And then there is our Mahanta Queen who for the sake of her love will crush Milind's love without for once asking him what he wants😡. She couldn't see her Love bow infront of a woman like Niharika, so what she decides instead… that Milind's love will take the blame, be humiliated and dishnoured infront of the whole world…. She puts herself at stake and disgraces herself… because she cant see Milind being insulted… and this should be termed as Selfless😡? It is the most selfish act Prachi could have ever done in Love😡. Couldn't she see Milind shattered? Milind was right when he wondered how Prachi could see only Neev's hurt and not his. He is absolutely right… How could she not see how tortured he was feeling… if she realized she wouldn't have been so stupid😡.

Yeah, Prachi's acts of selflessness are only ruining the lives of the people she loves. As to why she cannot see his tortured feelings, she suffers from a low self esteem. she does not feel worthy of his love I guess. She places his love for her below that of his love for Suki.

I find Milind in the worst position in this mess. Atleast Prachi knows that Milind Loves her with all his heart, She can love with all her heart… the memories of their shared Love will be always be with her… for she knows the integrity of the love they shared… the happy moments will always bring a smile on her face. But can one imagine the plight Milind is going through… The memories will only make him disgusted, he will feel like a fool, he will feel like he has been used. He will torture himself with the belief that the woman he loves pretended to love him for some secret gain and that will be such a revolting feeling… the guy cant even respect the woman he loves, but cant stop loving her aswell… he is going to hate himself for that🥺

Well, here I would blame him equally. He has witnessed Prachi's love and concern for him first hand. Has even seen her in her most ungurarded moments when she was not even aware of his presence. For God's sake he has been intimate with her to know that she could not have delivered a child. (Sorry, had to bring that up although by now I guess we will have to resign ourselves to the fact that he believed that babies dropped from heaven). Yet if he chooses to believe what she says (that too with so much pain in her eyes which clearly speak of her innocence) he does need to hate himself.

… and to forget this pain, I don't know what kind of stress he will put himself through to keep his mind off Prachi.

Hope you are not hinting at a ONS. If he indulges in one, I will never forgive him, no matter what his compulsions are.

Milind has always loved Children…he is always shown smiling at the children who play around… and now the guy has to live the fact that a baby is the proof of betrayal vented out to him. There goes his stress buster and his dream…. One cant fathom the trauma he must be going through for asking Prachi for a child. Not only did Prachi spoil the future for them, she spoiled the Milind's memories for him😡.

If he loved children so much why is he not accepting Ritwik as his own even if he believes it is Prachi's? Milsi, dont expect Saket to be large hearted enough to accept your sister once he comes to know the truth. After all you are not being large hearted, are you?

She didnt break only his heart, their relationship... she broke a family😭 She has left him in a state that he cant trust himself... and Milind lossing faith in himself will be the final nail in the coffin... can u imagine Milind Mishra devoid of the supreme faith and confidence in himself? How much i hate the fact that Milind has become so vulnerable😭

Milsi has to pull himself up and go beyond what meets the eye if he really loves Prachi enough. For as you put it, Prachi will never change. He will have to work doubly hard at his marriage because of the drag she is. but at the end of the day she is the one who gives him peace and happiness even if she puts him through hell before it. He needs to be clear what he wants- Prachi with her set of baggage but also eternal happiness or no Prachi, no problems and also no happiness.

And i wonder how they will send him off? A Business trip is what it will be mostly...because Milind isnt a guy who will run away from things esp leaving his family (his dad & Sis) behind and i doubt they will shift with him. He is going no where with Ayesha because they have to justofy Milind being out of focus not Ayesha. Sanjeeda will be very much around to shoulder the show with Panchi and Jay. So? The tried tested... accident formula? Fake Death and Return?😕 Do u think with Neev's challenge if something happens to Milind, Neev will be blamed for it... Neev was supposed to look dangerous with that challenge... but kahin par it wasnt chilling. Lets see... how they wind up Milind's track for this season... and then it is season break time for Shabbo and his fans

Hope they dont go for the accident track. Most probably it will be a business trip. I think alaap would have messed up his assignment in trukey and Milsi would have to rush there to set things right.

Thanks Ryka for your elaborate defence of Milsi. Thought I'll just put in my bit to defend poor Prachi (though I am pretty annoyed with her right now). Guess we only have to blame the senseless creatives for thrusting this retarded track at us.

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Ryks its so lovely to have you back. I missed reading your comments so much. But i just saw your thread. If i had seen it earlier i would have written my two cents here instead of in the ED thread. Do read it if you get time cause i am not gonna repeat it here.

I agree with you only on two things, Prachi should have opened her mouth to Milsi much earlier. And her confession has left Milsi so shattered that he is unable to trust himself. But he was able to trust himself before that. Before he started doubting Prachi (with the hospital episode). Why didn't he listen to his heart then. When he had still held onto the belief that Prachi can't be wrong. But why did he have to scream it that he believes Prachi. Remember the last time he screamed like that, was when Ayesha was bugging him about divorcing PRachi and he screamed yes i'll divorce her...but it wasn't what he was really feeling inside. He had to scream to end the turmoil in himself. Same happened up on the balcony. He had already started to doubt Prachi but those seeds of doubt were choking his happy life and so he had to scream that he trusts PRachi in a voice of desperation. I don't agree with you that he held his trust in her till she confessed. He should have confronted her when he knew that she was lying about not going to the hospital. If he had confronted her she most definitely would have told him the truth because it would have been between them only and no one else would have heard it. I am damn sure about that. Like during the c-night when Prachi was a bit hesitant due to her shy nature, all he had to do was reassure her and she obliged. I am not drawing a similarity here but i just wanted to say that if at that point instead of being confrontational, he had calmly told her that hey "i thought you went to the hospital with Ritwik" she would have said yes and Neev dropped me..."why did you go", Ritwik was sick, "but i didn't know he was sick last night?" "tell me the truth Prachi, whats going on" "Ok dear hubby this is the truth, Ritwik is not kamini's child, i have adopted him" What the hell, why? "he is part of our family, he is our nephew". End of problem. BUt he didn't and just left that nagging feeling inside him that was telling him that Prachi is hiding something. That is a very dangerous thing to do. It is always important to clear your suspicious as soon as they arise...otherwise it always leads to bigger misunderstanding. So i won't just blame Prachi for ruining it. Prachi put in a hell of an effort to make her marriage work with a very 'difficult' Milind. Milind hasn't put in half that effort. At the first sign of problem he faltered. Why is it that the woman is always advised to forgive her husband's shortcomings and be patient and find ways to improve her marriage, whereas Milsi in this case is not expected to go beyond what Prachi said. Why is it Prachi's responsibility only to safeguard her marriage. How many times did Milsi not tell Prachi that he hates her and her family and Prachi still held onto their relationship, even knowing that her husband doesn't love her and still is affected by his past with her sister. Don't tell me Prachi didn't love Milsi then and so it didn't matter. Oh it mattered to her. Evidenced by her very first smile after Inder's death, granted by her small victory in being able to take care of Milsi without Ayesha hanging around. Or the tears that came out of her eyes at the way Milsi danced with her at the party and then insulted her in front of the crowd and yet when he came back in the room she tried to help him and get him to stop drinking. So if Milsi is shattered by the knowledge that the wife he loves so much is lying to him can't i still reasonably expect him to put in the effort in making things right, try to find out if there is something more to the story, or even if doesn't care to find out at least try to work it out with her even trough that. Why is it that women are not forgiven for their mistakes. Why Milsi would go for divorce as the next step after finding that his wife lied to him (if like you said, the love-child is not his problem and the lie told by Prachi is the actual reason). Separation is understandable but whey a drastic step as divorce so immediately. If the Prachi's love-child is not the problem and the problem is that Prachi is lying, is that more of a crime than telling your wife on wedding night that you hate her and were once in love with her sister and have married her only to take revenge and then use that wife to make ex-gf jealous with absolute disregard for wife's feelings and even beyond that, hurting wife physically and constantly accusing her of her past and going to the extent of scaring the poor soul to the core by a fake attempt rape (that was no less torturous than a real one). I am sorry but i expected more from the Milind that knows how to handle situations and people so well and the last episode is the only one i'll forgive him for because i know how much he is shattered. But his next step which looks like is to file for divorce is not in my list of 'forgivable things done and said by Milind Mishra'. I expect him to be forgiving and i don't think i am wrong in it. So if Prachi is such a sacrifice queen and consideres her marriage as lowest priority like herself (which i don't agree with) why can't Milind be the man he is and step in to save his own marriage. It was easy to share love with someone who loves you back. But Prachi shared her love with Milind when he constantly gave her hate and insult. Why is it understandable that men have huge egos and can't show patience with a woman who may be wrong in her actions. Why is such a man said to be a whimp and the woman who shows the courage to be forgiving and all bearing is said to be brave.

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