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I will still maintain he trusted Prachi to have a valid reason... and Yes, he DIDN'T trust Ayesha. He looked suspicious at Ayesha when she began apologizing toPrachi. Yes, he was disturbed when he saw Neev-Prachi at the hospital... but he didnt question Prachi's integrity at that point... he NEVER questioned it till Prachi said she is the mother of the child. And even then he slipped into a state of disbelief. And watch him take those steps back... I think that reaction of his is what prompted Premlata to spring into his defense, slap Prachi and tell her not to do this to Milind because Prachi IS Milind's life. I agree he should have confronted Prachi on seeing her in the hospital... What do u think Prachi's answer will be? When the girl didnt come good at a Do or Die situation... do u think she would told him the truth if he asked her... She would have fabricated another brilliant story and that would have had an even more devastating effect in the present.
No Ryka, the seeds of doubt had already been sown. Look at the way he reacted to Ayesha telling that Prachi had cooked Neev's favourite dish. And the way he reacted to seeing Neev and Prachi with Ritwik when he jumped to save him from rolling over. His stepping back when he heard Prachi admit the truth was akin to the waterfall scene when he heard Prachi admit that she loves Neev. This man can have all his doubts but when he hears it from his wife's mouth it hits him hard. His not confronting Prachi as soon as he realised she was lying about the shopping was a serious lapse of judgement. Who knows, with no one around, she may have well blurted out the truth, especially if he had handled it sensitively.
I dont agree she didnt have another alternative... For heaven sake she has Milind to handle things... and he has been effective, and no one can take that away from him. He knows very well to put people in their rightful places. And if Prachi cant trust him... then what can i say? Do u really think that Prachi will be able to gaurd Sukruti's raaz for life? If she manages to keep this raaz in wraps... no matter what she has to do till this story winds up... I will take back each and every word i raise against Prachi.
Admitting it in front of Niharika, the dragon woman was unthinkable. It would have caused irrepairable damage to Suki's marriage and in turn would have humiliated Milsi no end (Prachi had already witnessed his public humiliation in finding Suki had eloped. This is far more serious than that. Suki's future is at stake). One can argue that her's is too. But we already know that P is the eternal SQ, a fool who would throw away her own happiness for the happiness of others (even if she manages to achieve the exact opposite of that). She should have come out clean long before all this happened. Her stupid plans have always been short-term not taking into account the long-term consequences. In fact, if she could not bring herself to tell the truth on earlier occassions, the right time would have been the day when Milsi defended her and told her later that he trusted her more than he trusted himself. Instead of thinking to herself that she should tell him at the right time, she should have told him then and there. Would have saved a lot of heart ache. But then are our creatives so considerate to their main characters or for that matter their viewers?
What about the impact that her false claim would have on Milsi and Baba? If I am not wrong Baba places Prachi on a higher pedastal than Sukruti... now what will happen to Baba? Is it very difficult for her understand that she is an important, a very important member of that family... did she think of the repercussions that will be caused by having herself accused... she had a beautiful vision of what the state of affairs would have been had she told the truth... did she think for a moment what accusing herself will do to Milind? From where i am seeing the situation is a hundred times more worse. If Prachi was pleading Milind to understand (which i dont think she was... I felt she gave him a helpless, I dont have an option... I cant wipe off the pain in your eyes look) Then Milind was eyes said his very existence depended on his answer.... Did she come through for him?
Baba would not have believed Prachi even if she says so. Just as he would not have believed Suki if she says she is innocent. He has more faith in his d-i-l than he does in his daughter. If he was around he would have made Milsi see reason and vouch for his d-i-l.
If on the other hand Prachi had admitted the truth, Baba would have died realising his daughter's life is finished (presuming that Niharika throws her out, which she most certainly will). Although he may despise Suki for what she had done, she still is his daughter and no father would want to see his daughter's life ruined.
When I say Milind takes correct course of action... it is implied that something has gone wrong and he himself could be responsible. So I didnt endorse him of getting Sukruti married off in such a hurry... nor will i do it now. Yes, When the matter stood no where... after the marriage was called off... SS were ready to give up on their relationship(which was a farce by the way... Sukruti would have eloped again😡) It was he who went ahead and made everything OK even at the cost of his self respect and got bashed big time by me. He might have gone soft in the beginning because he felt he had insulted Niharika and now it was her turn and he was ready to bear it... But after that, there is NO denying whatsoever that he took control the very day after marriage... in no unclear terms he warned Niharika to stop playing dirty games or she will have to face the brunt. The Mishra-Shregill family equation at this point in time is on terms and conditions Milind Mishra has chalked out and his wife cant trust him to handle things... I dont have anything else to say to her.
What control are you talking about? Do you think he can make Niharika accept Suki after the whole thing blows up on everyone's face? The relationship between Misras and shergills have been chalked out on the basis of what is apparent. Once the truth comes out, the shergills will definitely have the upper hand.
I dont blame the guy if he cant trust his heart... esp when Prachi left no stone unturned to shatter it into bits. When i heard him say 'Agar tumpe barosa nahi kar paya, tho kissi pe nahi kar paunga' 'Main kudh se zyada Prachi par barosa karta hoon' i had gauged this man's reactions... it scared the hell out of me. So that effectively meant if he cant trust Prachi, he cant trust anything in this world... not another person, not Himself... So he will doubt himself and even if his heart screams out for Prachi's innocence he will not trust... because He cant trust anymore. And knowing the magnitude of that Prachi went ahead and broke his trust. It is going to take him a hell of a long time to nurse himself back... and he is going to do it in private.
Yes, Prachi should have told him the truth long ago. Prachi broke his trust. But to think that she could be the mother. Now, however much you justify it, I cannot accept it. He very well knows she is hiding something. Apparently she does not want to say anything in public. She remains silent even after PL repeatedly asks her why she is not defending herself. I felt that the guy should have told everybody that this is a private matter between a husband and wife which will be settled among themselves and dragged her out of the crowd like he did in the wedding hall and asked her in private. Things may have been different then, who knows. I would'nt have minded him venting out his anger in her inability to trust him but to think the worst of her even if she has uttered those very words, that is beyond me.
Sorry to say, but I for one believe a Parent can NEVER fail... It is a child who fails a Parent. Because Parents are the most Unconditional, Selfless Source of Love and Support. If i have to question Milind's intensions, capabilities & efforts of raising Sukruti... I will end up questioning every parent and cant and wont! And if a child at the age of 10 shoulders the responsibility of his baby sister at time when he himself needed a parent... I will say Milind has done a commendable job as a parent because I dont think anyone else could have managed what Milind did. Can u say that premlata is a bad mother because of Alaap? No right... It is like that. However in this particular context what i meant by saying Milind is there for Sukruti is that... Milind was, Is and always will be by Sukruti's side... she is wrong or not and give her his full support. He has proven that when Alaap's fiasco broke lose, didnt he? When we question him about his decision of getting Sukruti married off... why not credit him for the fact that even after all the humiliation Sukruti faced, he pushed her to continue her education.
Oh parents do fail. They are human after all. Do agree that apart from parents upbringing the peer group also plays a decisive role in shaping one's character. He may have done a good job bringing up suki but there is no denying the fact that suki trusts Prachi (her sis-in-law of a few months more than she does her brother of so many years. It is her sis-in-law's lecture at the mandir which made her realise the mistake she was about to commit). Here I also feel that when Prachi asked her to tell the truth to Saket before starting her relationship with him, she should have also told Suki to admit the truth to her brother who she claims to love very much. I am sure Suki would have listened to her advice. Here Prachi's lack of judgement is clearly showing.
I would discount Milind out of this... because the guy atleast accepted he was wrong when he was... Does Prachi ever show signs of realising she has made mistakes... The only mistake that Prachi realised was that she was wrong in taking a step forward with her husband😡
Prachi has not made any mistake (before this gigantic one) as far as Milsi was concerned. All his misunderstadings were his own doing. So where was the scope for her to repent? I am sure when she realises the magnitude of what she has done hits her she is going to repent big time for this mistake. This girl has such a huge heart that envelopes the whole world and aches for all its sins. So I am sure if she knows just how much she has hurt her husband by her unwilligness to come out with the truth, she will be equally torn and shattered. Looks like she already is.
Shabbo. Sujal till he lasted was never a wimp... and even Angad... his character might have gone through a low patch... but he was never wimp. And i think that had lots to do with the fact that Rajeev and Iqbal were popular by leaps and bounds in comparision to their female counterpart which i think is the same with Shabbo and Panchi. The likes of Jai Walia, Mihir Virani, Mr. Bajaj took a heavy beating because Bani, Tulsi and Prerna had the same reach and impact on the audience (sometimes more) than their heroes. Thankfully that is not the case with Michi. Keeping my fingers crossed, lets see what happens.
Ryka, its early days yet to repose so much faith in the creatives. Lets do hope for the best and Milsi does not fall from grace. Right now he is a bit dented but not totally destroyed.
If Milind would have gone snooping around to find the truth... I am sure he would have been accused of far worse stuff. When we are talking about why Milind cant trust Prachi, how can we in the same breath say he should have gone and found out the truth? If he trusts his wife, then he is expected to believe her and wait for her to confide in him... which is what he did, waited for Prachi to open her mouth and silence everyone who questioned her love for him. Before we accuse Milind of not trusting Prachi... how about asking Prachi if she knows to values his trust. What ma'am did, is doing and will do... is play on his trust... take chances and Milind is supposed to place his trust unquestioned? I dont think so... i will hate him if he has blind faith in anything... yes, i want him to be unconditional... and I am sure he is, else i wont love him.
Why should he not snoop around if his wife is not willing to tell the truth? I am not saying he should blindly trust his wife. All I am saying is that he should have not believed that she could mother a child even if she screams over the roof top because this implies that she slept with him just to get the child into the house. Even he should know that Prachi is not capable of such a lowly act as to sell her soul. All he had witnessed time and time again was her goodness even though he mostly misunderstood her actions. He should suspect she is hiding something that she does not want to reveal and knowing her it may be because she is concerned about his peace. So he should have made atleast an attempt to get to the bottom of this.
I love Milind because he is human... which is why i understand him completely at this point if he isnt being able to be rational, because no human can be rational in such circumstances. I didnt call him the most balanced character... i called him balanced among the 4 main characters. Is there any denying the guy is the most practical one of the lot? Is there any denying at a time of a crisis that it is Milind who DOES something constructive to restore harmony which by the way has goes wrong due to Prachi's Good Intensions? The minute he realises he is wrong... have u seen him waste a moment before admitting it?
Yes Ryka, he is the most balanced of the four. All the more reason he should have started questioning as to why Prachi is telling all these lies and made the attempt to undearth the truth. As the saying goes, what you see with your eyes or hear with your ears may not be the truth. Truth is what you arrive at after proper examination. Milsi failed to do that. Yes, he is human. So he has his flaws. But dont say he is flawless and only Prachi is to be blamed here. For at the end of the day he is also suffering along with Prachi and the rest of us for his failure to go beyond the obvious.
How can she suffer from low esteem when the girl is loved by everyone... Milind's existence depends on her and he has told her so😕
Can you really fault her? She has been doubted endlessly. Even after their union, she sees his doubt very evident in his eyes. He tells her his existence depends on her and yet at the first sign of trouble he is again his doubting self. Yes, he has been betrayed once and is taking time to really heal completely. The poor girl is under the impression that if he comes to know that the sister whom he loved and trusted so much has actually betrayed him, that would be far more damaging to his sanity than if he thinks a girl who he suspected always has betrayed him. Its a clear case of Prachi underestimating her own power over him.
Ok this biological reasoning is surely valid...but is being blown out of proportion. For one they cant state it in clear terms on a daily soap...it is will be too graphic to talk about it. And more over there can be exception to the general rule... for all we know Prachi might have an accident before. Hone ko kuch bhi hosakta hai! But yes the 9 months ka funda is more reasonable and Milind hasnt been around during that time...so ppl with whom Prachi stayed for all her life needs to point that out!
They need'nt be graphic about it. All he needed to do was to tell everybody that he knows that his wife could not have mothered that child. Period. The rest is understood. After all Ayesha made it quite clear to everybody that Michi have started having marital relations. And what is this thing about accident? Here we are not talking about whether Prachi is a virgin or not. An accident can explain the presence or absence of the evidence to the state. We are talking of whether she mothered a child or not. A woman's body goes through a sea transformation after child birth, even a novice can make out. But our bold and cocky creatives want us (and Milsi) to believe this load of crap. As to the 9 months, Milsi was away only for 3 of those and he could'nt make out his sister was pregnant. So much for his intelligence. Her family ofcourse knows the truth. That is why PL slapped her.
Yes, Milind has witnessed Prachi's love 1st hand... Hasnt Prachi witnessed what she means to Milind 1st hand and she still goes ahead and breaks him. The stakes are too much this time around... he has shown his trust in her a lot many times and over looked so many things that was staring at him... because when Prachi said he means the world to her he believed her... when it was time to prove it... where did Prachi's strength go is what he would have wondered and rightfully so! If Prachi's eyes were in Pain... was Milind's any less heartwrenching? For heaven sake Prachi isnt innocent.... and if Milind doesnt believe in an innocence which is marred... then I wont hold anything against him. I will be super mad at him if he feels guilty for his stand after the truth is revealed. He needs to whack her for hiding the truth and putting all of them through torture.
Prachi knows she has hurt Milsi by her admission. I dont think anybody would have been more aware of that than she herself is. Yes, Milsi means the world to her. That is why she could not bear him being humiliated by the likes of Niharika, she could'nt bear to see him lose his father, could'nt bear to see him suffer because Suki's life would be ruined. She thinks that if she admits to being the mother, though he will be heartbroken he will end up hating her rather than hurting himself for long. But when it comes to his own flesh and blood his hurt will be a thousand times more because he cannot even replace that hurt with hate. I am not saying she is right. In fact she may be totally wrong and Milsi may hurt much more because of her lies. But I had already admitted she is a nitwit, a girl with a golden heart but an empty head. Yes, Prachi is'nt innocent of hiding the truth but is definitely innocent of mothering a child which is what Milsi believes now (with all its horrible implications).
And take it from me, whether we like it or not Milsi will definitely feel guilty when he comes to know of the truth later. Even if in this case he is not at fault except in believing the unbelievable. That is the reason I wanted him to go beyond what meets his eye and ear.
What makes u think that I can ever contemplate Milind indulging in an ONS😆 Arre yaar I am being so protective about him is because i love him so much... and i would insult him by entertaining such thoughts as a possibility😆 By the Stress i mean... the self destructing vengence with which he will plunge into his work, alcohol & the bitterness he will habour for life itself.
I have lost complete hope in these crazy creatives. They ruined a perfectly good show like KS with a crappy ONS story line. And now they have sprung up this retarded track on us (which is totally devoid of logic). Anything can happen, only hope it does not. Michi will then surely be irrecoverable (atleast for me).
Milind is a very Just provided he has his facts right. He has always been a guy who has stood by the truth, A truth a way he knows it. It troubled him constantly that he had to lie to his father about him and Prachi... but he did so because his father's life was at stake... at a point in time... he had enough and even blurted out the truth.
Why can he not seek the facts rather than believe what is given to him, even by the one he loves?
Milind is more than willing to shoulder Prachi's problems... Hasnt he taken over Shah's house problems and set them straight.... but will his wife give him an opportunity to save something... he cant keep doing the guessing game. Is there any denying that Milind has adjusted into Prachi's life... he is no longer the Milind that he was, he has changed for the better... and there is no notable change in Prachi's way of thinking...are there any? Lets get practical here... the guy is busy with work, he isnt at home... he doesnt know what transpires at home... unless his wife tells him. Arent we expecting a lot from a guy whose heart has been shattered by betrayal for the 2nd time in a row in such a short span of time? WHY should he work doubly hard when Prachi can continue her mastery in self destruction😡 You can work out differences in a relationship.. but when the basis of your relationship is hit and hit really badly and your partner doesnt make things easy for you... who will you fight? for what will you fight? Atleast Prachi should have refuted when she was being accused of having an affair with another man. She doesnt say No to her affair with Neev, nor does she say fight for her marriage... Kare tho kare kya Milind? And lets not forget the guy has taken off after the fight... we still dont know his reactions to Prachi. And I will wait to see under what circumstances he signs the divorce papers... Whatever it is... I can confidently say it is Milind's decision. He WILL take responsibilities of the repercussions that will unwind.
Is he really busy at work? The last time I saw him working, he left a meeting to go behind that stupid Ayesha to that hospital to check on Prachi. Though he went unwillingly he should have just sent her out and asked her to wait. All his bravado is only for his wife. He is a meek lamb when it comes to his ex. And why should he not work at his marriage? After all Prachi put up with a lot of his nonsense in the inital months of their marriage to make it work,did'nt she ? So why not him? As to his second betrayal, he has had ample evidence of Prachi's goodness. If he still feels betrayed and that too in the way he is imagining, he has only himself to blame. I would have understood it better if he had vented his anger at her for not confiding in him whatever the secret was. Would have even tolerated a slap like the one PL gave for lying to him. But to think Prachi had duped him in the worst possible way, that is really too much to handle.