Middle Class Sapna - Page 4

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

That's OK manzil, it's a woman's choice what she wants, if she wants family, let her want that, if she wants career, let her want that, the problem comes when she sacrifices coz of societal norms, the only prob I have with prerna is her obsession with Anu and how she totally disregards even her own family upon his arrival.

Its her own choice whom she loves...she loves anurag more than herself..

Her family bagwan aisee family kisiko na dhe🙏🙏🙏

Her own mother dnt understand prernas motherly loss her pain ..

Why we expect prerna to regard her family...

Originally posted by: Paricarocks

Why she cant say it as middle class spana.... Koi tag laga hai kya..

U belonged to middle class and calling ur dream as middle class by ur own should be avoided kyunn

Means u dnt feel ur backgeound is high coz u urself feel the background u belong to is low...

Pehle kud ke class ko importance dho.. Accept ur class and give it as high priority..

It's not about respecting or disrespecting any class,I just said dreams do not belong to any class.they belong to person.that person can belong to any class.i have no problem with pre dream of being home maker as I respect that.But by saying typical middle class dream I felt that r subjectifying the home maker status which is not the case

Originally posted by: moniloveanupre

well what u r saying we understand that u trying to say why this styreotype thing

well in in our socaity it does exist

we chote sapne mtlb middle class

daru & party karna mtlb high class

well its ab isko kya kah sakte hai

but i dint find anything worng in pre dialouge

infact anurag too not very ambitious wi toh moloy ka bussiness usse mila hai

otherwise i find he too just 50k ki naukari me pre aur sneha ke sath lhush rahta apni chhoti si duniya me

Sry but I beg to differ here.This is the thinking of Ekta's show and not real life.Not all middle class people have small dream and not all high class people enjoy daru and party.infact middle class people r more ambitious in real life than rich people.Rich people love their health and time and not indulge in daru and party.

I believe in individuality not class.

Originally posted by: Transference

I am amazed by some real strange thoughts about this dialogue:

“Ghar, pati, baccha aur humari choti duniya. Usse Badhke kuch socha hi nahi Maine” -Prerna.

Viewpoints anyone! I can’t figure out whether to laud this stupidity or cheer for the simple joy of Prerna having no sapne apart from this!

So that audience gets the drift. She doesnt like mr bajaj bec he made her businesswoman of the year against her wish 🤪 But she is still that simple girl who forgets to lock her bathroom door so that her lover gets a chance to peep in. Her whole.world was listening to mohini and nivi 's taunts who in the world will trade this for a trash life in which she has to crack deals win auctions. She tried to find the little happiness in locking lifts and dream dance and moonlight gaze , but then. Jo baat roti mein hai , aur howrah se dive karne mei hai wo definetly, pre city mein nai.

Originally posted by: surbhi1995

It's not about respecting or disrespecting any class,I just said dreams do not belong to any class.they belong to person.that person can belong to any class.i have no problem with pre dream of being home maker as I respect that.But by saying typical middle class dream I felt that r subjectifying the home maker status which is not the case

Its all in mentality of ppl that agar use karliya middle class means stereo type... She is talkinng abour her own not generalizing everyone...

How to tell it openly in forum...

Koi bhi class kam ya zyada nahin hotha sab apne pe dependent hotha hai...

Whichever class u belong say it loudly & proudly dnt hesitate..

It will not become stereotype...

Hum tho aise hee bhaiyya accept karna hai tho karo warna chalthe baniyeee

Ye hina hai sabka kud ki pehchaan

I'm confused as to what is the real issue.

The fact rhat prerna's Sapna of ghar, Pati and baccha is typecast as "middle class?".

Or the fact that she had only that sapna?

If it's the former, then I agree. It's extremely weird to say a dream of having a family is a middle class dream. Everyone from Priyanka Chopra to my next door neighbor ultimately wants a family. No man is an island.

But if the issue is that that was her only sapna, then I don't see why that's weird. Some women have ONLY career ambitions. A husband, child etc is always secondary to their career. So when that is acceptable and laudable why is a woman having only family ambitions strange or in anyway less.

Are we still perpetrating the thinking that a homemaker is in some way lesser than a career woman.

As for financial independence, again this is a very very individualistic ideology. I know women who are simply not willing to compromise on their family for the sake of a career. This is especially true when there's a child in the picture. And they don't condone to the idea of your money vs my money in a marriage so financial independence becomes moot.

Its a perfectly acceptable and equally ambitious Sapna.

I have the answer to prernas question. In ekta land , middle class girls never find a middle class boy to marry. That way they can have their sapne fulfilled but they always end up with rich boys who's scheming relatives make her life hell, but she does et to fulfill her sapna of making rotis and working in the kitchen, no matter if there is 10 cooks present.

You will never find the real woman on itv dear , nor in web shows of india.

But that generalization of middle class sapne was totally wrong 😤🤯 but when it comes to stereotypes, itv is full of them ..cant help. N u and I know. Pre is just the worst amongst them.

Originally posted by: hope4u

I'm confused as to what is the real issue.

The fact rhat prerna's Sapna of ghar, Pati and baccha is typecast as "middle class?".

Or the fact that she had only that sapna?

If it's the former, then I agree. It's extremely weird to say a dream of having a family is a middle class dream. Everyone from Priyanka Chopra to my next door neighbor ultimately wants a family. No man is an island.

But if the issue is that that was her only sapna, then I don't see why that's weird. Some women have ONLY career ambitions. A husband, child etc is always secondary to their career. So when that is acceptable and laudable why is a woman having only family ambitions strange or in anyway less.

Are we still perpetrating the thinking that a homemaker is in some way lesser than a career woman.

As for financial independence, again this is a very very individualistic ideology. I know women who are simply not willing to compromise on their family for the sake of a career. This is especially true when there's a child in the picture. And they don't condone to the idea of your money vs my money in a marriage so financial independence becomes moot.

Its a perfectly acceptable and equally ambitious Sapna.

My issue is with the line saying middle class sapna.otherwise she can dream anything

Originally posted by: surbhi1995

My issue is with the line saying middle class sapna.otherwise she can dream anything

Yes im totally in agreement there.

Thats a very wrong statement to make.

Originally posted by: Transference

I have a little less time at hand do unable to quote. Perhaps everyone misses the point I am making. It’s NOT housewife vs working woman! No one is ridiculing homemakers. My problem is the stereotyping, degrading and making it look like ambition is a crime!!!!!

Middle class people are much more ambitious than anyone ever could be!!!

Financial independence is a thing! Having dreams other than family is a thing too.

EKta is still stuck to her archaic shoes!

Piu ur abs right. She should have said mera yahi sapna tha , anurag aur sneha ke saath happy family ka..this has nothing to do with any class or their dreams.

It's just another specimen of trashy writing 🤢