Middle Class Sapna - Page 5

Originally posted by: Transference

I have a little less time at hand do unable to quote. Perhaps everyone misses the point I am making. It’s NOT housewife vs working woman! No one is ridiculing homemakers. My problem is the stereotyping, degrading and making it look like ambition is a crime!!!!!

Middle class people are much more ambitious than anyone ever could be!!!

Financial independence is a thing! Having dreams other than family is a thing too.

EKta is still stuck to her archaic shoes!

Here whole track is shabby and you are holding on one word😆

Originally posted by: _charu_

So that audience gets the drift. She doesnt like mr bajaj bec he made her businesswoman of the year against her wish 🤪 But she is still that simple girl who forgets to lock her bathroom door so that her lover gets a chance to peep in. Her whole.world was listening to mohini and nivi 's taunts who in the world will trade this for a trash life in which she has to crack deals win auctions. She tried to find the little happiness in locking lifts and dream dance and moonlight gaze , but then. Jo baat roti mein hai , aur howrah se dive karne mei hai wo definetly, pre city mein nai.

Pre was just cleaning clothes ok.. that's why she did not lock her door.

But it's ok, usko anu ka shoulder mila rone keliye? Revenge..Woh kya hota he.😆

I don't think there is anything wrong if anyone be a woman or a man, wish to have no aspirations or their aspiration is to raise a family. But but but can Anurag and Prerna even be considered flag bearers of this little dream of a family?? My answer is a HUGE NO.. Brains are required not just to land on moon but to raise a family too and they completely lack it more after bridge drama. I mean it is so unfair to equate their stupidity with real people who do everything they can for their family. It's an insult to real people who put family above everything else.

These two find more reasons to separate from each other than to stay together as a family. Everytime they have to face a little problem they are shown to run away in opposite direction in the name of sacrifice. Why?? Because they can't fight for themselves, hence the easy way out. People who really really wanna have a family will sacrifice or fight to stay together not throw each other from bridge. These two have been shown to be extremely selfish who can't see beyond themselves not even their child. That's the reason none of them have any idea about their kid for good 8 years.

Phew.. Prerna who never missed an opportunity to put her unborn child in danger, talks about family.. mere thought makes me cringe. Upar se thanks to oscal level acting her words don't even sound convincing.

Originally posted by: _charu_

So that audience gets the drift. She doesnt like mr bajaj bec he made her businesswoman of the year against her wish 🤪 But she is still that simple girl who forgets to lock her bathroom door so that her lover gets a chance to peep in. Her whole.world was listening to mohini and nivi 's taunts who in the world will trade this for a trash life in which she has to crack deals win auctions. She tried to find the little happiness in locking lifts and dream dance and moonlight gaze , but then. Jo baat roti mein hai , aur howrah se dive karne mei hai wo definetly, pre city mein nai.

Business woman of the year couldn't pull her dupptta off a cufflink?? That's strong she is. Uske liye bhi she needs someone else 🙄

Kaun hai ye log jo ye sab scenes likh rahe hain.

I couldn't agree more to this fact that each and every individual irrespective of their gender, should be financially independent! Though, I somehow don't feel that this financial independence comes only when a person, a woman goes out to work and earns for herself! Ofcourse, I respect all those women working day in and day out to earn their bread and butter. Whether a women is working mainly for providing a financial assistance to her family or just for her passion, she deserves great respect in either case.

Coming to the ladies who choose to be home-makers and are happy and content with what they have chosen for themselves. Are they not financially independent? I don't feel so! No matter how big or small a family is, each family member is inter-linked to each other. One may choose to earn for the family, while one may choose to run the house, as a home-maker. Independence, no matter which one it is, comes when a person feels secured on and at all levels. So, if a non-working lady feels financially secured by whatever means, she is financially independent too. People have different dreams, some of which might look petty to others but as long as one feels happy, content and secured with those dreams, on the journey of fulfilling those dreams and after achieving those dreams.... He/She is Independent!

I think it's not the first time and it's definitely not the first show where something got stereotyped as "Middle-Class". We have heard related dialogues in many ITV shows and BW movies, as well. So, I don't understand what surprise people found here! I have seen many people using such references in real life too. The term "Middle-Class" is itself one stereotypical term! We in majority, from generations are accustomed to use and stereotype "Middle-Class" word with simple and mediocre things in life. And if Prerna's simple dreams are referred to as "Middle-Class" dreams.... I don't find it wrong or any sort of glorification or gender/class-discrimination happening here, what so ever!

Prerna and Anurag are worst written characters I have ever come across who only know to act cute which only makes it worse. And because they happen to be the leads makes the whole thing worse.

I want to know, ladies who are working are really financially independent? I hv seen many working ladies takes permission from spouse to even spend 100 rs. Also I hv seen wife manages husband vallet. She keeps limited cash in his vallet n she keeps his bank card with her.😆 So, what do we hv to say about it. Infact i want to know the meaning of financial independence.

I wish we could discuss these general topic somewhere.

Progressive show ki 21st century woman. 🤪

Originally posted by: Hari73

Pre was just cleaning clothes ok.. that's why she did not lock her door.

But it's ok, usko anu ka shoulder mila rone keliye? Revenge..Woh kya hota he.😆

Hhmm Means..anurag can do his "thing" whatever the reason is to come to the washroom, while pre is cleaning up?🐷reason.."middle class girls" care more for their respect. Its more of an instinctive action .

It’s a very much valid and okay dream to have. Being a home maker (it’s high time we ditched the word housewife), is no easy feat. It’s a whole package of roles rolled into one person and it deserves respect. My mother was one and she is in large part responsible for what I am today.

Woman empowerment does not mean portraying one kind of woman - the one who takes over the working world. It’s about the struggles of balancing that all women have (working woman or home maker) and ultimately it’s about choice - the woman’s choice.