Rishabh Bajaj : The Husband and Ex Husband

Rishabh Bajaj is a lot of things to a lot of people. For some, he's a god and for others he's a literal nightmare. But in all of these shades, one shade of him trumps all the others. The husband,Mister Bajaj.

The relationship between Rishabh and Prerna did not start the way a marital relationship should.

Some say it was just a contract,others insist it was emotional manipulation but nobody can deny it was a marriage of convenience and nothing more at the start.

Even if it was emotional manipulation, a lot of people forget that Rishabh never pretended to be he was a saint and that's why he never owed Prerna anything other than a stranger's distant concern. It was a deal.

What's astounding though that even as a stranger, Rishabh was more of a husband to Prerna than any of her so called self proclaimed past or future husbands.

What makes Rishabh the husband that he was?

His wholehearted acceptance of Prerna's child as his own without a moment's thought.

Here is a man who respected an unborn child enough to never call it 'a mistake'.

No child deserves to be called that. A mistake. Drunken state of conception or not. Rishabh never taunted Prerna about her child even though it wasn't his own. He could have. Infact, they were complete strangers and he was supposed to be ' a villain' like Komo like a lot of people said,no? What stopped him from constantly mocking and taunting his 'wife's unborn child especially when the biological father and his family were connected to his pain in the past?

Well,it's called integrity as a man. And he had so much of it that he even left property in Sneha's name.

And that's not even half of it.

The man never touched 'his wife' inappropriately. He maintained a distance. Infact a lot of times he was awkward and fumbling when the wife herself got too close.

All this when he hadn't even realized he was in love. Nothing was done with an intent to bind her to him. It was just who he essentially was.

Rishabh Bajaj as a husband was LOYAL. And even when he was no longer her husband, he was still loyal to her out of love. He didn't marry another woman, he didn't play house with her,he didn't father another child. He was loyal as they come to her : Physically, emotionally and psychologically. And no matter how CVS try to twist it in the future,his loyalty saved her life. If Rishabh Bajaj wasnt there that day,she would be dead by now. PERIOD.

To go back to their marriage, everything upto the point of him realising he loved the woman could be null and void. What did he do when he realised that he loved her?

He let go to seek her own happiness. He put her life above his own. He 'sacrificed' in the truest sense. Point to note : He didn't have to. Not once. He didn't have to be good to her throughout the marriage. He didn't need to care for her child. But he did that cause he's a good man with actual integrity.

The best part about Rishabh the husband and ex husband?

Till the first day to the last, he never allowed someone to hurt a single hair on her head.

Emotionally? He stood up for her when others insulted her,hurt her,said unkind things about her. Even people who swore they knew the 'real her'.

When Prerna was being manhandled his first thoughts were 'you can't talk like that with my wife'. He stood up for her when others degraded her, he let her know that nobody would respect her if she doesn't respect herself. She should have taken that advice.

Because when she was thrown down the bridge without a single thought or word to her, that's when you realise how important his advice was. Nobody respected her enough to talk to her about her own life. People just made the greatest decisions of her life and motherhood without a single thought about her emotions. Not Rishabh though. The man gave her agency. Even when that blind trust lead to an extramarital affair, not once did he disrespect her enough to take her decisions for her.

He would never ever dream of hurting her,not a single scratch. He would rather destroy people who try to make one. THAT'S HIM. POWERFUL. PROTECTIVE. A MAN WHO WOULD GO TO ANY LENGTHS FOR HER SAFETY. You can't get away with hurting Prerna when Rishabh Bajaj is there.

And to Prerna, he became her rock. He gave her a new lease of life,did not let her succumb to her suicidal thoughts. A supportive man who helped her become confident and independent.

In all, Rishabh Bajaj was the kind of husband who would instead burn the whole Howrah bridge down for Prerna Sharma rather than throwing her off it.

Great Post ATC

Rishab Bajaj is The gem of a Husband, Ex Husband and THE ONLY HUSBAND Pre ever had and will have.

Rishabh Bajaj is the first and only person who always said to Prerna: Aap jhati kya hain?

absolutely love this post...

Rishabh Bajaj is what Prerna needs where as Anurag Basu is what Prerna desires., and coming from her mouth, we dont need what we desire..

These two names; Rishabh Bajaj and Anurag Basu... Love for one and curse for the other.... Thats what Rishabh has earned during the past 4 months he was in Prerna’s life as her Mr Bajaj- The husband... and we still love him as Mr Bajaj - The ex husband..

Res. 😎

I am purchasing your book first. .

Unres.

Actions always speak louder than words.

Rishabh Bajaj always said in his own words that he wasn't a saint unlike the self proclaimed saints.

He was called a raavan and a villain and a criminal and what not (in the show itself) yet his actions proved what he was he is and he will always remain.

And I don't need to say enough because you have said so in your post.

Rishabh Bajaj, the best & the only husband Prerna can ever have. ♥️

The one who protects her, the one who cares about her, the one who respects her, the one who accepted her child as his, the one who empowered her, the one who will always be her rock forever without any conditions without any terms without any strings.

As long as Bajaj is alive so shall Prerna.

Because he obviously loves her

♥️

beautifully written👏

Rishab Bajaj is the ideal husband any body would ask for.

But Prerna does not deserve him and it hurts to see that she does not value his sacrifices his undying support .

In all, Rishabh Bajaj was the kind of husband who would instead burn the whole Howrah bridge down for Prerna Sharma rather than throwing her off it. this is really true.

But Prerna Sharma is the kind of woman without any self respect who would still imagine her lover romantically even after he throws her off the bridge and is responsible for her daughter's death.

Mr Bajaj did not deserve this fate. I so want to see some spin off on Bajaj without soulmate

So well written and expressed.

Loved,it 😍

If any of you have watched vampire diaries, then anupre retaionship is like stephen elena and prerish is like damon elena.

Damon always puts elena first, unlike stephen who saves the friend first and let elena die.

She does realize it and falls for damon.

But stelena relationship was not abusive like anupre

Great post! It's inarguably one of the best I've read on Rishabh Bajaj and the astounding brilliance has rendered me speechless.

The most fascinating aspect of this character is its greyness. The latter provides immense scope to explore the light and dark shades the colour houses. He's both the saint and the sinner.

His relationship with Prerna indeed had an unconventional start with two complete strangers suddenly forced into an alliance under terribly ill circumstances. Yet that didn't stop him from caring for her despite not being required to do so.

While others were accustomed to slapping, degrading, and abusing her; RB patiently tolerated every misunderstanding and accusation he was subjected to, never losing his patience in the process.

In the cringeworthy hospital sequence he taught her the importance of self-respect. As you pointed out, the recent bridge scene showed the importance of his words when we saw the woman being thrown down to death because a man deemed it the only way to rescue her after being blackmailed. Her consent didn't matter. It never did.

Loyalty is absolutely inseparable from RB. The fact that he is a one woman man...ever ready to move mountains for the woman he loves makes him so endearing and even makes his vices outweight someone's virtues. When he fell in love he knew she may never love him back. There mustn't have been a bit of hope left after the divorce. Yet he stayed loyal to her in all forms because he knew he can belong to just one woman.

Now, post the reunion with her, he's content watching her soar higher from a distance. He won't close the distance unless she loses her balance. This is the highest form of love because it's untainted by selfishness and other vices.

RB came to her rescue and elevated her to the status she currently flaunts. Was it required? No. He returned because he loved her. She owes him her strength, her life, her everything.

Lolz I am really tired of reading of how good a husband material Mr. Bajaj vis a vis Anurag with whom he seems to be in potential competition to be husband of Pre since Bajaj track started😊

The qualities enunciated reads like a Resume with all qualities for applying for the position Pre' husband to which Prerna seems to be giving no bhaav as of now🤣

I hope if waiting period is more this can posted on matrimonial site as well for suitable other match. Pre is not the only woman left but then Bajaj' seems to be in love as well with Pre.

Waiting for another next such post with laundry list of qualities of why Mr. Bajaj is husband material for Pre👏

Originally posted by: Sowmya_nathan

Lolz I am really tired of reading of how good a husband material Mr. Bajaj vis a vis Anurag with whom he seems to be in potential competition to be husband of Pre since Bajaj track started😊

The qualities enunciated reads like a Resume with all qualities for applying for the position Pre' husband to which Prerna seems to be giving no bhaav as of now🤣

I hope it waiting period is more this can posted on matrimonial site as well for suitable other match. Pre is not the only girl left but then Bajaj' seems to be in love as well with Pre.

Waiting for another next such post with laundry list of qualities of why Mr. Bajaj is husband material for Pre👏

LMAOOOOOOO. Prerna gave bhav to someone to pushed her off a freakin' bridge 😆 and separated her from her daughter and calls his own daughter the worst mistake of her life. SO WE ALL KNOW how much worth her judgement is. It's a literal self drag and clowning of Prerna to the highest degree.

And For Bajaj, Prerna is the only woman who deserves to be his wife. For him,she's the only one ever. You see, he's not the kind of man who would marry the mastermind behind Prerna's murder and death,reason behind the death of Prerna's father and paralysis of his own father and play ghar ghar with her for 8 years. Naaah.

I love how this post is a SELF DRAG. 🤣

Ignore them, peeps. Not worth it in the slightest lmao 😆