I was offered a job when I was 3.5months pregnant! - Page 2

Originally posted by: opsora2090

and in normal recruitment of job , employee needs to show medical certificate to proof their ability to do job . cos in a job they need capable employee who could serve them the best . aur idhar just aye , geye aur job mil geye without any proper meeting. iyea track convenience hote for pregu woman , agar prerna would inform them the truth that she is capable to do this in her crucial health position , and would give the proof her worth by passing some challenge. tab iyea inspirational hote for society .. aur idhar ghanta , final staged ki ek pregu lady , college drop out jo aye ek bhangar company mai ek meeting mai job mil geye ... cv jabardasti trying to create romance of couple rather than developing character at all.. bas kaise bhi karke dono ko jodo, chahe nonsense track bhi kyu na ho

As far as prerna being a college drop out is concerned..I think u have missed the episode where both prerna n anurag were shown to completed their exams already....

Hope we aren't expecting a convocations ceremony for Anurag n Prerna, multiple interview rounds for Prerna and Medical chk Up n producing reports for the same in a fictional show....

I don't think there is much to argue in this for a show which never had logical writing from the very beginning itself. However suddenly searching for logic where there wasn't any ever.... I m like 🤪

But really I'm happy to see our Prerna smiling.... she wants to live... for herself and her family 😃 If she is expecting then that shouldn't stop her from searching for her smile. If she is happy and content doing a job it's fine. I'm happy that atleast here we didn't see her getting rejected just bcoz of her pregnancy.

Rest I guess regarding the interview the medical examination etc etc etc are just like searching for moon in the sky on amavasya especially when we have KZK in consideration. So if we're enjoying what's being shown here... whatever our reason is... it's our choice and we are totally entitled to that. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: opsora2090

and in normal recruitment of job , employee needs to show medical certificate to proof their ability to do job . cos in a job they need capable employee who could serve them the best . aur idhar just aye , geye aur job mil geye without any proper meeting. iyea track convenience hote for pregu woman , agar prerna would inform them the truth that she is capable to do this in her crucial health position , and would give the proof her worth by passing some challenge. tab iyea inspirational hote for society .. aur idhar ghanta , final staged ki ek pregu lady , college drop out jo aye ek bhangar company mai ek meeting mai job mil geye ... cv jabardasti trying to create romance of couple rather than developing character at all.. bas kaise bhi karke dono ko jodo, chahe nonsense track bhi kyu na ho

LOL!!! BTW Oppo Ji, did Bajaj provide Prerna's fit to para-glide certificate while he was provoking her for that sport? Isme kaun sa sense ya logic dikha tha aapko?... Ghanta? Us waqt Prerna ka healt crucial nahin tha? Ya Bajaj ye sab jaan bujh ke kar raha tha? Aapka Bajaj society ke liye kaun sa challenge ya inspiration de raha tha tab?

BTW woman working during pregnancy is far more logical. Besides, Prerna koi high post pe nahin hain. Neither is she given a high-level position at policy making or/and decision making level. PA hone ke liye PHD ki zaroorat nahin hoti...

Jab tak Pre kaam kar rahi thi, tab bhi logon ko problem thi ki she is not working. Jab kar rahi hai tab bhi problem hai... Itne dino tak ko Pre ki pregnancy ka khayal nahi aaya, aur ab jab wo kaam kar rahi hai, tab uske liye itna saara concern?

BTW pregnancy ke final stages tak ladies kaam kartein hain. Agar upar nahin padha to phir bol doon, just last year, New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern delivered a baby while still in office. Also, Prime Minister Benazir Bhutto delivered her second child in 1990, while serving as prime minister of Pakistan.

Toh, society bahut aage badh chuki hai...

Originally posted by: pallawi1803

fair point... however these days MNCs are coming up with policies where it's an offense to ask women if they have plan to get married, are pregnant or planning to have kids...the interviewer can be reported for such behavior..shows how things are changing...I m a part of such organization n have seen how things are changing for women...they work till the last day if their health approves.

As far as prerna being a college drop out is concerned..I think u have missed the episode where both prerna n anurag were shown to completed their exams already....

Hope we aren't expecting multiple interview rounds and Medical chk Up n producing reports for the same in a fictional show....

baat ho rahe hai inspiration ki where a pregu woma like prerna is working in a company in this stage and she could inspire people... a lot of post and replies from anupre fd is saying this... agar pregnancy related koi chis show hi nei kar rahe hai .. yes Interviewer could not ask those questions , but they could ask a medical report or prerna could tell about his health condition . cos company needed a stable worker , i don't know Indian office policy .. but in general i saw workers and those who wants to do higher studies they need medical check up as per formalities of course. even this year during my post graduation apply , i have to submit my medical report where a govt doc gave me the required permission as if i was able to continue my study or not.. despite being, i am fit and strong (by the way i am not telling about pregnancy , it was overall health checking )

and it is bounded for every organisation for all employee . cos if they recruit a unstable person without inquiry , their works would suffer , and also for the unhealthy environment , if pregu woman would have any danger or her baby would have to suffer any bad things then company has to bear the complain . so no company would take risk on it easily in this last stage of pregnancy . isiliye ek proper medical permission needed to do things for future in this case, not only in this case, it is overall for all....

Originally posted by: bashful_moon

LOL!!! BTW Oppo Ji, did Bajaj provide Prerna's fit to para-glide certificate while he was provoking her for that sport? Isme kaun sa sense ya logic dikha tha aapko?... Ghanta? Us waqt Prerna ka healt crucial nahin tha? Ya Bajaj ye sab jaan bujh ke kar raha tha? Aapka Bajaj society ke liye kaun sa challenge ya inspiration de raha tha tab?

BTW woman working during pregnancy is far more logical. Besides, Prerna koi high post pe nahin hain. Neither is she given a high-level position at policy making or/and decision making level. PA hone ke liye PHD ki zaroorat nahin hoti...

Jab tak Pre kaam kar rahi thi, tab bhi logon ko problem thi ki she is not working. Jab kar rahi hai tab bhi problem hai... Itne dino tak ko Pre ki pregnancy ka khayal nahi aaya, aur ab jab wo kaam kar rahi hai, tab uske liye itna saara concern?

BTW pregnancy ke final stages tak ladies kaam kartein hain. Agar upar nahin padha to phir bol doon, just last year, New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern delivered a baby while still in office. Also, Prime Minister Benazir Bhutto delivered her second child in 1990, while serving as prime minister of Pakistan.

Toh, society bahut aage badh chuki hai...

Lol Bashfull ji , we are not supposed to talk about Bajaj and his track at all in this forum . so i am not going on that track or not answering you about this. aur rahi bat inspiration ki , iyea mai nehi , iyea aplogo mai sei ayi hai bohot sare post and reply mai , kaise kzk prerna through iyea dikha raha hai ek pregu woman bahar kam kar sakte hai .. toh iyea mai nei aplogonei inspiration ki bate ki...

aur prerna ke kam se kisiko problem nei hai , but jis time pe karna chiye thi woh time pe she was lazily spending her times to do kitchen politics. this time she needs care and peace more than this... where shivi is on the house . but chalo thik hai she is doing , good... lekin bat usss bare mai idhar nei ho rahe hai so pls dont take this in another way ..

aur rahi bat prime minster 's reference , unke sath medical team always ready hote hai , and precautions sath mai hote hai ... lekin am tor pe hum jaise logoke sath hamesha medical team nei hote sath mai . aur idhar pre kisiko iyea inform hi nei kia about her pregnancy ... toh agar office mai uske sath kuch bhi hte hai no one will be here to help immediately .. she is in risky state where not a single person is aware about her condition . bat uske bare mai ho rahe hai ....

and these are exceptional reference. exception could not be a example at all in random thoughts.

Originally posted by: opsora2090

Lol Bashfull ji , we are not supposed to talk about Bajaj and his track at all in this forum . so i am not going on that track or not answering you about this. aur rahi bat inspiration ki , iyea mai nehi , iyea aplogo mai sei ayi hai bohot sare post and reply mai , kaise kzk prerna through iyea dikha raha hai ek pregu woman bahar kam kar sakte hai .. toh iyea mai nei aplogonei inspiration ki bate ki...

aur prerna ke kam se kisiko problem nei hai , but jis time pe karna chiye thi woh time pe she was lazily spending her times to do kitchen politics. this time she needs care and peace more than this... where shivi is on the house . but chalo thik hai she is doing , good... lekin bat usss bare mai idhar nei ho rahe hai so pls dont take this in another way ..

aur rahi bat prime minster 's reference , unke sath medical team always ready hote hai , and precautions sath mai hote hai ... lekin am tor pe hum jaise logoke sath hamesha medical team nei hote sath mai . aur idhar pre kisiko iyea inform hi nei kia about her pregnancy ... toh agar office mai uske sath kuch bhi hte hai no one will be here to help immediately .. she is in risky state where not a single person is aware about her condition . bat uske bare mai ho rahe hai ....

and these are exceptional reference. exception could not be a example at all in random thoughts.

Oh Oppo Ji.. Bajaj can be talked... as a reference. Reference as in the danger Bajaj put Prerna in then versus the supposed danger Prerna is at now. Bas according to new rule, Bajaj ka stand-alone appreciation aur criticism post nahin bana sakte...

Aur nahin, Prime ministers ke reference exceptional nahin hain. We see many women working till the day they deliver, unless the pregnancy is not a complicated one. Aur agar exception bhi hai toh, kehte hain na.." Exception Proves the Rule"... suna to hoga na?

Aur rahi baat Prerna ke pregnancy ke baare mein na batane ki, toh decide kar lo ... kabhi kehte ho uska itna bada baby bump hai, kabhi bolti ho usne nahi bataya... Jo dikh raha hai uske baare mein batane ki kya zaroorat? Agar is Company ne uske baby bump dikhte hue use hire lya hai, toh kiska kya ghata, kuch jaata to unka jaata na? Besides, bade companies mein emergency medical assistance hoti hai. Aur woh itne logon ke saath kaam karti hai... Use emergency assistance mil jayegi.. Toh isme rai ka pahad banane jaisa kuch hai nahin...

Originally posted by: opsora2090

baat ho rahe hai inspiration ki where a pregu woma like prerna is working in a company in this stage and she could inspire people... a lot of post and replies from anupre fd is saying this... agar pregnancy related koi chis show hi nei kar rahe hai .. yes Interviewer could not ask those questions , but they could ask a medical report or prerna could tell about his health condition . cos company needed a stable worker , i don't know Indian office policy .. but in general i saw workers and those who wants to do higher studies they need medical check up as per formalities of course. even this year during my post graduation apply , i have to submit my medical report where a govt doc gave me the required permission as if i was able to continue my study or not.. despite being, i am fit and strong (by the way i am not telling about pregnancy , it was overall health checking )

and it is bounded for every organisation for all employee . cos if they recruit a unstable person without inquiry , their works would suffer , and also for the unhealthy environment , if pregu woman would have any danger or her baby would have to suffer any bad things then company has to bear the complain . so no company would take risk on it easily in this last stage of pregnancy . isiliye ek proper medical permission needed to do things for future in this case, not only in this case, it is overall for all....

And pregnancy isn't considered as a disease...even in pregnancy if women are healthy they can continue. With the job...

Originally posted by: pallawi1803

yes they could ..buy who said pregnancy is unstable condition for a women to work in that scenario the maternity leaves would have been for 9 months...and these days some company gives mat leaves from the day the kid is born which means they expect women to work till that tym..

And pregnancy aren't considered as a disease...even in pregnancy if women are healthy they can continue. With the job...

am I saying this is a disease? Stability words not only using for disease or sickness at all.. Here I m using this being a pregu woman everyone needs to take some precautions..probably company needs to do , but in pregu state she could not do that..this is called stability in works..ike today prerna stuck in store room.. This kind of track once showed in yeh rishta where Akshara stuck in a close area n due to less oxygen she had miscarriage... Now pre is here in same state... In real life agar company ko pata hote they never would send a pregu woman to do this type works... Ofcourse company give the permission..but iyea work ke requirement n criteria pe depend karte hai.. Like an army female pregu woman also does her duty in this state..but that not means she will go to in war field or in mission ... Becoz of her health stability she has changed her duty.. Toh pregu woman ke liye terms and criteria alag hai.. That is why I say cv could show this track intelligently ..logic Ki bat nei ofcourse from kzk. . But as some of forum member bring the inspirational matter for woking pregu woman... But this track is not giving inspiration for pregu woman at all ..this is all about office romance ..neither they are bringing pregnancy track, bewaja ek baby bump de dia Jo dunia ko dikhti hai basss kzk characters ko nehi ...

Originally posted by: grace4317

Pinot...it is not Pre's or the baby's health that is bothering all of them.

During Pre's first trimester, which is the most dangerous phase nowadays, Pre was made to run long distances, fell flat on her stomach, had to go through the emotional turmoil of loosing her father, got humiliated by her lover which could have led to mental trauma for a long time, was thrown over the wall by Komo, was kidnapped by Ronit....yet none of these so called lovers were bothered about Pre's or baby's health; their only botheration was Pre's self respect & never had a complain about the writers.

In her second trimester, she was shown stopping a pole falling on Anu, was hit on head by Ronit's goons in Swiss, was provoked to go for paragliding, again running long distances on hearing about Anu's accident and above all was subjected almost everyday to psychological pain & trauma induced from her deal marriage.....yet noone had a complaint; even advised her to continue in the marriage which was suffocating her. Then too they were like just go with the flow.

Now in this third semester, she started getting back her happiness by working & her happiness doubles to see Anu near her, she feels butterflies in her stomach, after ages she became old chatterbox Prerna.....then all of a sudden these lovers get reminded of CV's logiclessness & starts complaining of Pre trying to be happy in Anu's presence, nagging CVs to remind her of what Basus did to her & to concentrate on her baby. And the irony & funny thing is that, these were the same people who were justifying Pre trying to move on in the previous track saying Pre can't always live her life thinking of the past & that there is no issue if she is trying to forget her past with Anu. Now all of a sudden they want Pre to remember her past & are finding KZK without logic.

This is what is called 'Hypocrisy at it's best'. These lovers were never bothered about Pre or her baby. The only thing that bothered them is Anu's presence in Pre's life. For them, always it was Pre's selfrespect more important than Pre's happiness or peace of mind. Which as of now looks like not going to happen any soon. And so, we will get to see more rants & frustrations happening with the upcoming episodes.

Rather this is a classic example of selective reading and selective understanding ..since the beginning makers are being criticized for showing prerna so irresponsible , careless and doing all these stunts during pregnancy , completely forgetting the existence of her child, FOR anurag now suddenly it's ok because it's for anurag and she is happy. ...at least I read a post on it every other day ....there are lots and lots and lots of issues with her , i dont need to list them..Everyone expected her to work during naveen babu , that time she wasn't pregnant ...and now this ridiculous "office track"is not being shown to show women empowerment or prernas self respect , the only purpose is to show the boring romance again . So prernas pregnancy is still being ignored and her self respect too. Hence the rants.

Originally posted by: grace4317

Pinot...it is not Pre's or the baby's health that is bothering all of them.

During Pre's first trimester, which is the most dangerous phase nowadays, Pre was made to run long distances, fell flat on her stomach, had to go through the emotional turmoil of loosing her father, got humiliated by her lover which could have led to mental trauma for a long time, was thrown over the wall by Komo, was kidnapped by Ronit....yet none of these so called lovers were bothered about Pre's or baby's health; their only botheration was Pre's self respect & never had a complain about the writers.

In her second trimester, she was shown stopping a pole falling on Anu, was hit on head by Ronit's goons in Swiss, was provoked to go for paragliding, again running long distances on hearing about Anu's accident and above all was subjected almost everyday to psychological pain & trauma induced from her deal marriage.....yet noone had a complaint; even advised her to continue in the marriage which was suffocating her. Then too they were like just go with the flow.

Now in this third semester, she started getting back her happiness by working & her happiness doubles to see Anu near her, she feels butterflies in her stomach, after ages she became old chatterbox Prerna.....then all of a sudden these lovers get reminded of CV's logiclessness & starts complaining of Pre trying to be happy in Anu's presence, nagging CVs to remind her of what Basus did to her & to concentrate on her baby. And the irony & funny thing is that, these were the same people who were justifying Pre trying to move on in the previous track saying Pre can't always live her life thinking of the past & that there is no issue if she is trying to forget her past with Anu. Now all of a sudden they want Pre to remember her past & are finding KZK without logic.

This is what is called 'Hypocrisy at it's best'. These lovers were never bothered about Pre or her baby. The only thing that bothered them is Anu's presence in Pre's life. For them, always it was Pre's selfrespect more important than Pre's happiness or peace of mind. Which as of now looks like not going to happen any soon. And so, we will get to see more rants & frustrations happening with the upcoming episodes.

Er I don't expect this from you. You have been here for long enough, I guess. These issues have been always brought up and the logic had always been questioned then be it the running instances, falling instances, humiliation instances, paragliding instance (by the way - she has to be a really, really weak and dumb woman if she did it by getting provoked for in that case - she put it over her kid's safety and just to clear - I had said this even back then)

You have addressed people - :them' and wrote the stuff that actually shows your lack of knowledge about the posts, and responses in the forum which I find really awful.

I am sorry but there is no hypocrisy here. A lot of people here have always bothered about her unborn, perhaps a lot more than the woman herself did. So you actually think that people here are insane enough to rant out of a kiddish frustration of seeing Anurag's presence in her life because they don't like it? You have stressed on only quite a lot of times which is even more awful.

Ah the famous self respect issue. I wonder if real happiness can really be found with losing the self respect! Also, it is even more intriguing why and how is it okay to lose to one's self respect in love! Does true love demand one to compromise with one's self respect and if it does, is it worth? Perhaps, for a lot, it is, it seems!

Anyways, my point was - people haven't got issues because of Anurag. People have always had issues and people would continue to have them, with the reasons best known to everyone even if it is denied of the same!