Why isn't Prerna's happiness more important?

One thing all KZK viewers will agree, irrespective of which fandom they belong to, is the circumstance in which PreRish marriage happened. Nevertheless, we all may differ on how Pre should have handled it or avoided her sacrifice. Agreed. But, now that the marriage happened and after seeing from the beginning till now how much she is suffocating, one question I would like to ask you all is don't you feel an ounce of sympathy for her?

Most of the Pre stans, in their quest to see a strong independent woman in Pre and for some other reasons known to them, prefers to see her with Bajaj, under the assumption that Bajaj will help her to become an iron lady.

Most of the PreRish stans, wants to see her with Bajaj, mainly because of the craze for the male actor and also because of some hidden agenda.

I agree AnuPre got almost 200 episodes portraying their journey from friends to lovers. But that will not exempt some of the AnuPre stans from their selfishness to see Pre with Anu, again just because of their craze for the male lead & the fear of him getting sidelined.

To all these stans, I just want to ask one thing. Prerna is a fictional character, I agree. But, for whatever reason it maybe, aren't you becoming obsessive and selfish for a fictional character that none of you ever have thought about Prerna's happiness if she was a real person. Prerna is still that young girl who at one time had lots of dreams. And in a short period, she had to go through lots of trauma. Yet she stood like a rock facing it, though i agree many of it could have been avoided if she was not naive as she is. But, that doesn't neglect the fact that she too needs to have her share of happiness. And after seeing how suffocating & caged for the past few months, I don't now care for what Anu or Bajaj or even any fans think of her. I don't even care for her own self respect. If pouring out her emotions to whoever it may be is giving her a breathe of fresh air & happiness, evenif it is momentary, I am with my girl. Because, to me more than anything, a sound & happy mind is more valuable than anything for any human being. And for my girl to face the next toofan, she needs to get some strength and that is possible only by getting rid of all the negative emotions she was carrying till now & getting herself refreshed.

Possibly because, they spend so much time showing us Bajaj's and Anurag's thoughts, her thoughts aren't sufficiently expressed. And where does she actually believe wanting her own happiness is of supreme importance? Only a crying baby gets milk. 😛 Go hate Bajaj, tell him you won't take care of his kid. Express defiance. She isn't doing that, no?

Prena happiness is totally important too...

Vo Apne liye stand le.apne bhare me soche apne bache ke bhare me soche..

Agar ushe yeh shaadi ni chaiye she can tell bajaj I don't want this marriage that it..

She should be a strong women..have seen so much hardship in the life naveen babu ,komo Nd, mohini

ek dam se change only for trp this is really bad vo trophy thode hai

Aj tho episode me ushe trophy bhi bana diya..

This is really bad for a women to call her a trophy.

I truly want to sympathize her and I think, I used to do to a particular extent but now that I want to continue it, I can't. The foremost reason is - I don't see her miserable in the marriage. Had I seen her getting suffocated in the marriage, I am sure, I am sure the only thing that I would have liked for her is being out of the marriage but since the writing is so bad, that they've miserably failed to show consistency in the character, it's tough to relate to her pain anymore like genuinely, in a lot of scenes, I felt she was a little too comfortable with Bajaj than a woman who is getting suffocated in the marriage would.

Does she want to stay with Anurag? Go ahead, divorce RB and do that.

Does she want to stay with RB? Go ahead. Give Anurag a closure and do that.

Does she want to stay alone? Divorce RB. End things with Anurag for once and all, move out somewhere, start a fresh and do that.

I am absolutely in support of whatever she desires to do but for heaven's sake, make up your mind, woman? Hold your head high and go for the things YOU wanna do but decide what and who you want first. This is honestly a sick life where none is happy, and everyone is wasting time playing insane games, hiding stuff, making ridiculous plans with zero clarity to every individual but then, this is EK universe. What can I even expect other than this? Sigh.

Of course she should be happy.. If she shouldn't happy she can't keep her loved ones happy..

I have just one request for her.. Don't ping pong with two men.. Take a stand and fix for one for herself... If not leave both and stay happy..

But not like this.. one day soul mate and another day nothing..

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

I truly want to sympathize her and I think, I used to do to a particular extent but now that I want to continue it, I can't. The foremost reason is - I don't see her miserable in the marriage. Had I seen her getting suffocated in the marriage, I am sure, I am sure the only thing that I would have liked for her is being out of the marriage but since the writing is so bad, that they've miserably failed to show consistency in the character, it's tough to relate to her pain anymore like genuinely, in a lot of scenes, I felt she was a little too comfortable with Bajaj than a woman who is getting suffocated in the marriage would.

Does she want to stay with Anurag? Go ahead, divorce RB and do that.

Does she want to stay with RB? Go ahead. Give Anurag a closure and do that.

Does she want to stay alone? Divorce RB. End things with Anurag for once and all, move out somewhere, start a fresh and do that.

I am absolutely in support of whatever she desires to do but for heaven's sake, make up your mind, woman? Hold your head high and go for the things YOU wanna do but decide what and who you want first. This is honestly a sick life where none is happy, and everyone is wasting time playing insane games, hiding stuff, making ridiculous plans with zero clarity to every individual but then, this is EK universe. What can I even expect other than this? Sigh.

I agree with what all you have written and I will keep on repeating it that the CVs have always been cruel with Prerna by never showing her state of mind except for twice - once in the Mahaepisode and sceondly after the talk she has with her conscience after Anu's accident. But right now, I will forget all those things and would have my imagination work on how it would have been if it was the case of a real person. And that is why today I will support Prerna, because she is reaching her threshold limit and if she doesn't shed her inhibitions & pour out her caged emotions to someone, then soon she will loose her mental balance once she comes to know the truth of Bajaj. So, before that let she get refreshed.

Of all the above bolded options, i would want Pre to go for the third option. Let her breathe some fresh air and get rid of all her bitterness from her heart, after which with a sound & balanced mind she can take a decision to which she should stick to it lifelong. But truth is that none of the options is going to happen in EK's world, unless she has been strictly warned by the channel and we are heading towards a closure of the show. Until then, she will keep on making Pre a ping-pong, trophy or whatever she wants. So, no use to expect anything from her and I have accepted this reality, when she started resorting to offscreen dramas with the leads, to get her things done as per her ego.

ladki khud hi weak hai...woh khush rehna nhi chahti...aur waise bhi anurag ke saath thi bhi kaunsa itni khushi mil gyi use...bs bolne ki baat hai...prerna will be happy on the last day of the show...😎 tab toh woh royegi, doosron ki happiness ki bhikh mangegi...use apni parwa nhi...🐷

if the person who deserves the happiness is not feeling it or not working on it. toh hum kya karein. get rid of majbooran relationship and go back to your true love in a legal and social way. do whatever you want, but dont preach ethics, morals, life lessons which you dont follow. and dont be a hypocrite either.

I think Prerna is addicted to unhappiness🤔

10 Signs of An Addiction To Unhappiness

A key to determining if you are addicted to unhappiness is to understand some of the signs that are present in your life, signs which show you may have underlying issues with being in a perpetual state of woe.

David Sack, M.D., a board-certified psychiatrist and addiction psychiatry specialist, identified these 10 signs of addiction to unhappiness in his latest article, “Are You Addicted To Unhappiness?”:

• Find reasons to be miserable when life gets “too good.”
• Prefer to play the victim role and blame others rather than take personal responsibility for their choices.
• Compete with friend and colleagues to see who has it the hardest.
• Have difficulty setting and achieving goals, or conversely achieve goals only to find that they can’t enjoy their success.
• Struggle to bounce back when things don’t go their way.
• Distract, escape or cope by using drugs, alcohol, sex, food, or other addictive or compulsive behaviors.
• Stop taking care of their basic needs, such as a healthy diet, regular exercise, and adequate sleep.
• Feel enslaved to their emotions and powerless to change.
• Feel dissatisfied even when life is going well.
• Have dramatic, unfulfilling relationships.

Originally posted by: hasini009

if the person who deserves the happiness is not feeling it or not working on it. toh hum kya karein. get rid of majbooran relationship and go back to your true love in a legal and social way. do whatever you want, but dont preach ethics, morals, life lessons which you dont follow. and dont be a hypocrite either.

Well I believe that is what they are working on. It's a show nothing happens in one day

She took a decision before to save her love. Now she will take a decision to save herself and her heart. This is the ongoing process for it. Let's wait and watch.😁😁😁

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

I truly want to sympathize her and I think, I used to do to a particular extent but now that I want to continue it, I can't. The foremost reason is - I don't see her miserable in the marriage. Had I seen her getting suffocated in the marriage, I am sure, I am sure the only thing that I would have liked for her is being out of the marriage but since the writing is so bad, that they've miserably failed to show consistency in the character, it's tough to relate to her pain anymore like genuinely, in a lot of scenes, I felt she was a little too comfortable with Bajaj than a woman who is getting suffocated in the marriage would.

Does she want to stay with Anurag? Go ahead, divorce RB and do that.

Does she want to stay with RB? Go ahead. Give Anurag a closure and do that.

Does she want to stay alone? Divorce RB. End things with Anurag for once and all, move out somewhere, start a fresh and do that.

I am absolutely in support of whatever she desires to do but for heaven's sake, make up your mind, woman? Hold your head high and go for the thingms YOU wanna do but decide what and who you want first. This is honestly a sick life where none is happy, and everyone is wasting time playing insane games, hiding stuff, making ridiculous plans with zero clarity to every individual but then, this is EK universe. What can I even expect other than this? Sigh.