Originally posted by: nehavarun
but what anu feels for prerna is not just a fondness or liking. he really wanted to marry her, be with her, as her husband. but prerna didnt want that sort of relationship with anu. anu still craves to be with her, but she only craves to be with her Dumbo Baby :) mere pati muhe gale lagayein- she was telling anu that day how much she wants rish to hug her :) and yes, she is immensely grateful to both anu n komolika and for that, she does love both of them :)
Abt prerna banning love in gurukul- well- she considered pre-marriage love bad becoz her pre-marriage love gave her pain. first that illegitimate pregnancy n all that humiliation. and then she truly believed that anu killed her husband and made her a widow. so she thought pre-marriage love brings u pain. and she cudnt forget that both mukti n kasak too suffered due to their pre-marriage love affairs. her daughters' deaths only made her confirm tht pre-marriage love is essentially dangerous. the fact that she hated pre-marriage love so much only proves how much she regretted n repented her affair with anurag as a huge blunder.
but her love with rish is post-marriage love i.e. shaadiwala pyar (that's madhuri's dialogue in Dil to pagal hai). PRB were strangers when they got married, then they fell in love. Prerna believes in PRB love. she believes in love that happens after marriage. That is why, she wanted her grandaughters not to make the mistake that their grandmother-mother-aunt made. she wanted them to get d great shaadiwala pyar. that is why, though she banned pre-marriage love, she didnt ban marriages. she never said that she wants her grandkids to stay unmarried. never. she wanted them to get married. becoz she found her true love after marriage.
I am soooo with u Neha....Wonderful differentiation lol btwn the pre-marriage and post-marriage love....and that is exactly I feel always always abt Prerna....
She was never against love- She was against pre-marriage love.....College life love.....
Anyways....that's one of the most wonderful post from u and my fav one😳
Arjun
