Originally posted by: broken heart
I completely don't agree with tulip, sorry.
This is because someone can be with you and can care for you without having to be your illicit lover. Anurag happened to be one such person for Prerna... who was always with her (even when against her) for the past twenty years. She knows that Bajaj is already mad at her, so she hoping she could depend on Anurag, who is her wellwisher, who understands her pain, who has been and is some part of her life. That she called him at Prem's grave shows that their relationship is strictly that of two parents who must fight for their kids. That's why in today's episode there were no love scene flashbacks, but simply the flashbacks of those scenes when Anu and Prerna were parents.
It's mamta ki Kasuati, not pyaar ki Kasauti. Anurag is not an illicit lover that Prerna must hide from Bajaj. He simply happens to be the only person who can understand her pain of losing Prem 1, her love for Sneha, and her "mamta" for her children. After all that Anu-Prerna shared, how can she simply forget him and fling him aside??? And the fact that she does not forget Anu and does not fling him aside does not mean she is cheating on Bajaj or that she is not a faithful wife or that she doesn't love him.
I don't know who Prerna loves, but she is damn good at doing her duty to the several different roles she plays in her life. Whatever the circumstances, she is being portrayed to be a loyal wife, a caring and loving mother, a good friend/companion/wellwisher to the man she once shared her life with, and a strong woman who does not back down when injustice is done on another woman.
I admire Prerna's character very much, so sorry I just could not deal with the mudslinging on her. Sorry for the long post.
HHmmm good points broken-heart !
<<Anurag happened to be one such person for Prerna... who was always with her (even when against her) for the past twenty years. >>
If I remember correctly, Prerna and Anurag were not in touch with each other for 20 yrs..they didn't know whether the other person was alive or dead. Anurag is the one who lost udi. Rishabh was with her during those 20 yrs. So, ur statement is wrong.
That she called him at Prem's grave shows that their relationship is strictly that of two parents who must fight for their kids.
This is about Sneha...and Anurag has never really did anything for Sneha-except sleeping with Prerna on Aparna's indulgent encouragement to 'make' another baby on the pretext of saving sneha.
Rishabh is the one who played father to sneha..similarly, anurag has no contribution towards udi as a father- anurag was the one who lost udi to komolika. The fact that Prerna thinks of anurag as 'sneha's father' and not of Rishabh, shows how cheap, sick and disgusting she is. Earlier, too, she told Rishabh 'who are u to care abt sneha'. Though she said sorry later, when Rishabh had said something similar, she had created a big scene. She is so full of double standards.
Anurag is not an illicit lover that Prerna must hide from Bajaj. He simply happens to be the only person who can understand her pain of losing Prem 1, her love for Sneha, and her "mamta" for her children.
Why? Just because he happens to be the biological father? There are many women in this world, who split from the father of their children, and marry some1 else. It's one thing if the father is contributing towards raising the kids, but anurag really has no such right to claim about sneha and prem. This whole total importance to 'blood' is sick.
After all that Anu-Prerna shared, how can she simply forget him and fling him aside???
Well she could fling it aside for 20 yrs ! Besides, this is really like having two husbands at the same time. It's more like a 3some than a couple, and hence it is against Indian traditions and it is disgusting. A friend- old-time male friend, no matter how close once-upon-a-time, cannot be given status of an 'additional husband'. There has to be a line drawn somehwhere. Not just in the physical sense, also in the mental and emotional sense. Marriage is sacred, and emotional infidelity is as sinful as physical cheating.
she is being portrayed to be a loyal wife, a caring and loving mother, a good friend/companion/wellwisher to the man she once shared her life with, and a strong woman who does not back down when injustice is done on another woman.
What about the time when Tushar was paralyzed by Udi? Where did all this talk about 'justice and fairness' go? She actually could have achieved justice for tushar..she was the eye-witness. But she chose to save her son. She supported mohini who lied under oath. Again, the 'blood' factor weighed heavier than 'justice'. I won't call her a caring and loving mother to tushar. She only cares about anurag's kids- she doesn't even care about kasak, who is her own blood, because kasak is not anurag's kid.
I really don't have any problem with whether she loves anurag or jeevan or sam for that matter...but Ekta shouldn't make mockery of an Indian Marriage.
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