Yes, it takes two to tango, but why does everyone blame Jai so much? He was technically divorced and drunk. I'm not saying that that makes it right for him to do whatever he wants, but he never wanted to be with Pia in the first place. While intoxicated a person is not capable of making rational decisions and the ONS is a prime example.
Also, Bani left Jai with no good explanation and then walked in with no good explanation and he didnt' even ask any questions!! To him, she aborted the baby he still didn't ask questions. So she can just walk in and walk out? Its not fair. I agree what she was doing was for the care of him and his family but he didn't know that and he forgave her and let her come back in his life.
So why blame Jai so much?!?