Bani a hypocrite

If Bani insists on J-P getting married for baby she will be biggest hypocrite. When she herself was pregnant witth JAi's baby & she didn't think about baby needing a father. HEr mother was more important than baby then.

Only reason she should leave is because of her own betrayal.And shouldn't care whether or not J-P get married.

She didn't think about JW desire to have kid when she was pregnant & kept saying she will go away with baby. NOw she will be a great saint & will leave WM so that JW can have a kid. Talk about hypocracy.

Suwas,

To add to what u have to say. When she was preggie, she wouldn't write JW's name in the kid's father's column bcos her kid didn't need a father. But Pia's kid must have a father. Amma has said that so it has to be so.

You r 200% right of course. But who will tell that to Amma? A Dixit can never be wrong.

Rgds,

Pri

Farah,

I am not sure about that. She sought divorce for her Mom, the alimony angle was brought in only when she found out about the J-R scam. But I may be wrong on this.

(She was angry at him for killing her mother and hiding it from her. )

Yes. Rightly so. But why isn't she angry with ND for what he has done. I am not asking her to hate him or trash his memory but can't she just walk up to his portrait JUST ONCE and say "Papa, why did u do this to JW" Is that too much to ask?

And didn't she plan to leave JW forever after returning his property to him. On this I am 100% sure. So what punihsment should Krishna have given her for wilfully depriving her of a father?

Rgds,

Pri

Farah,

(I don't remember Bani ever saying that she would not allow JW to see his kid or have a relationship with the child. )

She told Jigs as well as herself (after TS infromed her that JW wanted to lose the alimony case) that "main itni door chali jaungee etc.) And JW in his Friday speech too conceded that he may never see his kid.

(As for going and asking her father, she def should there is no doubt about that, her parents have wronged him.)

I dont expect a Dixit to ask a fellow Dixit for an apology for harming a mere Walia. But what about the sisters themselevs. Did KD do the right thing by commiting suicide, did ND do his duty by concealing the truth about Kirans' death or by abdicating his responsibility to his children.

(But as a child who has been brought not to question elders that would be hard for her to do. )

Hard but not impossible. And I am not even asking her to stop cherishing her parents memories or forget them. But why is questioning her parents a sin.

Rgds,

Pri

Originally posted by: suwas

If Bani insists on J-P getting married for baby she will be biggest hypocrite. When she herself was pregnant witth JAi's baby & she didn't think about baby needing a father. HEr mother was more important than baby then.

Only reason she should leave is because of her own betrayal.And shouldn't care whether or not J-P get married.

She didn't think about JW desire to have kid when she was pregnant & kept saying she will go away with baby. NOw she will be a great saint & will leave WM so that JW can have a kid. Talk about hypocracy.

so agree with you .. as i said o MK post the only thing Bani hasnot done and is saved from being labeled as a women without Morals or values is a ONS otherwise she she has been very manipulative and controlling ,her deeds lately have me thinking about her morals and Ethics .

Klue

I fully agree with you. Bani really drives me nuts. She expects everybody to believe her. She did not reveal to Jai who was behind her divorce naatak or the manner in which she lost her child (apparently for his own good). He is expected to not question her.

Regarding the accident she would not leave things low. She had to dig up the past and inspite of knowing that it was an accident she kept punishing Jai. Jai did not reveal it to her because it would hurt her. Even regarding the ONS there have been atleast three instances when he wanted to come clean - once in Dubai, the second time in Alibaug (when Jai did not realise madam was sleeping through his entire confession) and the third time when he admitted to Bani about the extra marital affair but Rano stopped him. What is the poor chap to do when Rano and then Pia keep drumming into his ears that it would kill Bani to know the truth. Do you think he is happy with the situation? He is dying everyday out of guilt. It seems a greater punishment than to come clean and face the consequences.

And yes he may have committed adultery but he did not do it willfully. That Pia dragon seduced him when he was fully drunk and hurting from Bani's apparent misdeeds. He is at fault but considering that he is repentant should count for something. Tell me, will a person who could not forgive him for an accident forgive him for this? If Bani's mother had not left behind that tape even now she would not be with Jai.

In my view Bani is less trusting than Jai who is always willing to give Bani the benefit of doubt. I think his love seems to be stronger than hers. She claims to love him but her love seems to be conditional, far inferior to her love for her sisters.

Jai please leave her if she does not leave you. You are better off without her.

But as a child who has been brought not to question elders that would be hard for her to do. )

***Those elders only had taught her that "sacchaayi rahoon mein chalna"! Sach bada hota hain!!

fully agree with you. Bani really drives me nuts. She expects everybody to believe her. She did not reveal to Jai who was behind her divorce naatak or the manner in which she lost her child (apparently for his own good). He is expected to not question her.

***This is what I had told in one of my posts yesterday!! She needs proofs to believe JW is innocent, but she wont provide a proper explanation also for her karnaamas, but still expects him to keep faith in her!! Wah, Bani mahaan toh hain hi!!

Optimist I agree with your last line that jai should find someone else 😭 bani shouldnt come 100 meteres near jai. I woman that only thinks about her sisters happines is not worth it 😡

Originally posted by: suwas

If Bani insists on J-P getting married for baby she will be biggest hypocrite. When she herself was pregnant witth JAi's baby & she didn't think about baby needing a father. HEr mother was more important than baby then. True, Pia never thought of her sister when she fell in love with her brother in law no matter what her di's marriaed life is like how hypocritcal of Pia to turn round and say "I've changed my mind i don't love Pushkar, i love Mr Vollya," chi how disgusting......

Only reason she should leave is because of her own betrayal.And shouldn't care whether or not J-P get married.Amma looks after everyone else apart from her self😡 this is typical Dixit, DNA that has bypassed Pia!!!!!

She didn't think about JW desire to have kid when she was pregnant & kept saying she will go away with baby. NOw she will be a great saint & will leave WM so that JW can have a kid. Talk about hypocracy.Good serves Mr Walia right i just hope that if Bani can forgive her sister(you know she will, she's so weak when it comes to Pia her poor little sister) that she that she can forgive Mr Walia too!!!!!!

i think most of the charcters in KS our hypocrites, they always want more than they have!!!!!!!!!

Good post suwas.