Bani Has not Spared a Thought for Pushkar - Page 6

Originally posted by: majumdar

Farah,
(Her sisters are imp to her, is that bad, why should a husband she has known for 1 year become more imp than the sisters she raised. )

Which actually is fine with me. If her sisters are more important that JW, she should make that choice and live with it.

Originally posted by: fsam

Asha yet he is responsible, he knew she was after him yet he returned to the same room pia was in, should this be construed as intent? Agreed he was taken advantage of and seduced (not raped because he was an active participant-we saw him hug her, that does not happen in rape). But he put him self in this position, he knew what too much drinking does to him, he should have had self control. He did not. He is bigger and stronger of the two, he could have thrown her off him and walk away. he did not all because he was drunk, but again wasn't that his decision.

first of all, he came back to apologise to her becuz he was mean and hurt her. when he first entered the room he was lyk-- pia im sorry, and then saw her hurt on the floor becuz he pushed against a wall. the reason he lost his self control was becuz was trying to drink away his sorrows and his luv for bani. he was hurt by bani and it seems as if drinking was the only way he knew to handle his pain. i wouldn't put so much blame on him to hold him at fault more than anyone, especially if we add up all the pain bani has given him. if it not been for bani's divorce fiasco and her pushing JW into a completely drunken state... jai would have enuff sense to puch her off.

Bani should have repremanded he reptile long ago, in fact she should have done that when she ran away from her wedding, she did not. That is her fault, but at the same time, when your family, esp children need you, even if they have committed the biggest crime you will be there for them, that is what she is doing. Her sisters are imp to her, is that bad, why should a husband she has known for 1 year become more imp than the sisters she raised. In fact she has always fulfilled her duties as a wife, been there for him, that is why JW fell in love with her. He tells Tarun, when I am sick I know there is someone for me. So what is wrong in lovng your family.

there is nothing wrong in luving ur family. however, by giving them much more importance than urself, ur husband and child isnt always a good thing. y is it that if ranvijay's wife got run over by jai its an accident and when its her own mom, its murder? y is it that she has not once questioned her father about y he had put all the blame on JW and made him suffer for so many years? ur husband should be considered apart of ur family, but to bani, her sisters are more family than her husband is. even tho she had been by JW's side, she brought him so much pain with her mahan antics, and yet he had faith in her and accepted her without a grudge of any sort. there is nothing wrong with luving ur family, and thats exactly wat JW is doing.

What angle is JW innocent in all this please elaborate. I have made my point that she gave him the same right. Buddha is not innocent this time around.

and i have made my point that she didn't. JW was forced into an ONS by the dixit sisters and now the man is living a life of guilt... he is constantly bugged by his conscience and is a nervous wreck. and yet all he wants to for bani to be happy. in bani's eyes y is it that he is always guilty until proven innocent? y must she put her sisters and the parents b4 her own child and the husband who luvs her lyk crazy? bani dixit is very much a hypocrite who has spoiled the reptile of a sister she has to such an extent, the reptile can destroy her big sis' life with no shame watsoever.

asha