Bani Has not Spared a Thought for Pushkar - Page 5

Originally posted by: majumdar

Rani,

(when he emotionally battered Bani because of that Reptile's actions....of course not, he was justified because he was hurt. )

JW's behaviour to Bani in the intitial days of his marriage was disgusting and he was regularly panned in the IF for that. So how has that become an issue now?

(He was in no which way a hypocrite when he point blank broke Sonali's heart )

As far as Sonali was concerned she was just a friend and JW had never made any romantic overtures to her, so why should he explain anything to her.

Rgds,

Pri

Originally posted by: majumdar

Farah,

If you remember the story she intended to leave JW forever after returning his property to him. Basically wilfully deny her child a right to have a father. If JW was to be punished for accidentally depriving Bani of her mom, what punishment should Krishna give Bani to deny her right to have a father? I have asked this question on several posts and no one seems to have an answer to this.

(That was just a hospital form,)

So if she had put JW's name, heavens would have fallen apart.

Rgds,

Pri

Originally posted by: fsam

Prichildren do live away from their father and still have a relationship with them.

JW not only denied her a mother, he actually admitted to killing her.

Originally posted by: fsam

Angad I partly agree with you, JW has suffered at the hands of Bani, during the divoce fiasco. I was an ardent JW supporter because i did not agree with Bani's ways. Infact only lost respect for him when he entered into an incestous relationship.

lol, my name is asha... im a gurl. i wuv angad😳

But this time Bani is the innocent one, her husband slept with her sister. There is no excuse for that. I will not go into why and how he ended up there, because at the end of the day JW is an adult, and rsponsible for his own decisions and actions.

yes, he is an adult, but just becuz he is an adult doesnt mean we can't ignore the the conditions that led him to sleep with her? if anything, i would say he was raped becuz pia took advantage of his vulnerable drunken state and came on to him even after he tried to frr himself from her clutches. and yet, he takes the full blame where he barely has fault in this... he barely had any sense! ofcourse it matters why and how he ended up there becuz it speaks in favor of him or against him... and i highly doubt that the ONS would have taken place if he wasnt drunk... JW is not the type of guy who would coming knocking at his sister in law's door to sleep with her.

When you have family in trouble, isn't normal to first think about the ones closet to you. She loves the reptile like a child. Bani did think about Pushky, the slap the reptile received was because she broken her marriage vows, deceived and betrayed Pushky. Bani said as much after slapping her. Even now Bani is first thinking about the child, then the reptile. Why is that wrong? Remember reptile did not tell her that she initiated this, as a sister you will always consider your sister and family innocent until proven guilty.

however, bani has forgived pia and let her slide one too many times. she should have punished pia much more severely, but let her off with two words. there's sumin called tough luv and becuz bani lacks that, the reptile has become wat she is today. her sister is indeed important... but for her, the dixits hold much more importance than her husband and her baby! she didn't even think about pushkar, the pooch who served her oh so loyaly when it came to pia and her child. all she thought about was pia and her niece/nephew... not how shattered her pooch would be and how to break it to him. nor did she ever question her parents and how her father could do this to the man she claims to luv so very very much. her loyalty is so very selective!

She gave the Buddha the same right, she wanted to know who he was speaking to, if there was another woman in his life. Being a wife she has a right to that, when she thought she was mistaken and her suspicions were wrong she did apologize to him and fasted to ask forgiveness. So why do say at this time in her life diff rules apply to her Family and diff set of rules for JW.

becuz her family is innocent 'till proven guilty, and even when they are proved guilty, bani dixit always has the heart to forgive them. and JW is always guilty 'till proven innocent, and even then he has to suffer.

asha