Bani Has not Spared a Thought for Pushkar - Page 4

Mahim/Meg/Ash,

(BTW, what atrocities of Jai are your planning to write about , on Dixit clan?)

All in good time. Just watch this space.

Rgds,

pri

You are right about bani but it isnt her fault its the kashme that her dead dad gave her which is tying her down 😡 😭

😆 😆 😆 Poor pushy poodle, is always behind Bani Bond and helping her out, but maybe when the truth is out she will support him.

i completely agree!! bani is a hypocrite if ive ever seen one! she has a whole different set of rules for her luving family, she lets pia get away with almost anything and JW always has to suffer her wrath for things he hasn't even done. and wat surprises me, but hurts me more is that he takes her in without a peep. his arms are always open for his saintlyk bani 007. to her, her husband, her child and herself are nothing compared to her selfish greedy family. i feel bad for JW, who gets beaten black and blue by these dixits... they have killed JW one too many times...

Originally posted by: m3ghna

I always thought bani had good intentions but her actions left a lot to be desired. She is selfless and sacrificing.

But, and this is a big but I also think she is one of the biggest hypocrites around.

Pushkar who has given her blind devotion. Who in face of untold heartbreak is doing everything to protect her from pain and what does bani do for him when she finds out the truth. Nothing. Pushkar is totally heartbroken and Bani has not so much as spared a thought for him. She is all out to bring justice to the unborn child, what about pushkar. Does he not deserve a friend at this time of total devastation. Bani is totally myopic when it comes to her family. Now it is all about Pia and her child....

She had done the same thing before. She married JW to spare Pia. Sshe got Pia married to Pushkar in JW's house. She stood by and watched Pia make a fool out of JW.

When it was Ranvijay's wife dying it was an accident (what about ranvijay and his children) but when it was her mom JW was a murderer of her mother and father and the grim ripper who stole her and her sisters childhood. She sentenced JW with the loss of his child by leaving him.

It is always the dixit family that comes first for her, not her unborn child (who goes and works ar 2 am in a smoke filled facility when you doc tells you that you are weak and you need to take care of your child) not JW.

Her list of priority

1. Pia
2. Rano
3. Dead mother and father
4. Pushkar
5. JW's wealth
6. .....

I was so dissapointed in bani yesterday. Not a single thought about pushkar.

cheers,

meghna

y should she spare a thought for pushkar? she puts her own husband and child way down the list when it comes to her family... so u think she'll actually be loyal to her pooch? bani mahan is very mahan... her greatness is preserved for her selfish family. no wonder pea brain is such a reptile... she gets away with everything with no punishment! bani's LADLI behen... my foot!!!

I think what pushy feels for bani is one sided .... i feel bad for pushy.... he always stand by bani in all her up's and down's ..... after this i dont think bani is pushy's true friend .... the feeling are one sided ...... i would tell pushy be wise and careful as to who u call friends

Originally posted by: angad4life

y should she spare a thought for pushkar? she puts her own husband and child way down the list when it comes to her family... so u think she'll actually be loyal to her pooch? bani mahan is very mahan... her greatness is preserved for her selfish family. no wonder pea brain is such a reptile... she gets away with everything with no punishment! bani's LADLI behen... my foot!!!

i completly agree with you

Originally posted by: m3ghna

I always thought bani had good intentions but her actions left a lot to be desired. She is selfless and sacrificing.

But, and this is a big but I also think she is one of the biggest hypocrites around.

Pushkar who has given her blind devotion. Who in face of untold heartbreak is doing everything to protect her from pain and what does bani do for him when she finds out the truth. Nothing. Pushkar is totally heartbroken and Bani has not so much as spared a thought for him. She is all out to bring justice to the unborn child, what about pushkar. Does he not deserve a friend at this time of total devastation. Bani is totally myopic when it comes to her family. Now it is all about Pia and her child....

She had done the same thing before. She married JW to spare Pia. Sshe got Pia married to Pushkar in JW's house. She stood by and watched Pia make a fool out of JW.

When it was Ranvijay's wife dying it was an accident (what about ranvijay and his children) but when it was her mom JW was a murderer of her mother and father and the grim ripper who stole her and her sisters childhood. She sentenced JW with the loss of his child by leaving him.

It is always the dixit family that comes first for her, not her unborn child (who goes and works ar 2 am in a smoke filled facility when you doc tells you that you are weak and you need to take care of your child) not JW.

Her list of priority

1. Pia
2. Rano
3. Dead mother and father
4. Pushkar
5. JW's wealth
6. .....

I was so dissapointed in bani yesterday. Not a single thought about pushkar.

cheers,

meghna

Haan Haan...Bani is such a hyporocrite! By the way, what are you all definition of of "hypocrisy"? If I'm not mistaken, "hypocrisy" is the practice of claiming to have higher standards or beliefs than is the case. So Bani is a hyporocrite by virtue of being a "Dixit" and because she "has not spared a thought for Pushkar." Meghna, with all due respect, I don't agree that she has not spared a thought for Pushkar because as Farah pointed out, she did reprimand that Reptile in the form of a tight slap because because she broke her marriage vows, deceived and betrayed Pushky. Puskhar was the first thought in that sense.
On another note, granted none of us like that Reptile, but at the end of the day, she is Bani's sister (though I have a sneeking suspicion that she was adopted), apart from being a mother figure. Were we in Bani's position (not knowing that the "father" is her very own RAM, would we honestly tell our sister(s) to go to hell?? Please show me how Bani is at fault for caring about the unborn child's future??
And at the risk of bringing up the past, since we're on the subject of hypocriscy, let's talk about about another character who appears to be a hypocrite....haan, I'm talking about Buddha. He in no which way had higher standards or beliefs when he emotionally battered Bani because of that Reptile's actions....of course not, he was justified because he was hurt. Some of us have selective memory just like Buddha. He was in no which way a hypocrite when he point blank broke Sonali's heart because for the first time "Pia awakened his emotions" 🤢 We can agree to disagree, but can we agree that he should have (as a mature individual) talked to Sonali first and explained the situation to her. If he valued Sonali's friendship and/or relationship that they shared, he owed her that much as a friend if not nothing else. But no, when the poor woman thought she was the one he was was going to propose to she was in for a rude awakening. Again, Buddha was in no which way a hypocrite when he continues to lie everyday to Bani.

My point is, just like Buddha and Bani, we all have our own sets of beliefs....what one may think is right may not necessarily be right to others. Buddha did what he thought was right under those circumstances and Bani has/is doing what she thinks is right under the current circumstances. We each may individually react otherwise given those circumstances.

Originally posted by: kajolfan

Haan Haan...Bani is such a hyporocrite! By the way, what are you all definition of of "hypocrisy"? If I'm not mistaken, "hypocrisy" is the practice of claiming to have higher standards or beliefs than is the case. So Bani is a hyporocrite by virtue of being a "Dixit" and because she "has not spared a thought for Pushkar." Meghna, with all due respect, I don't agree that she has not spared a thought for Pushkar because as Farah pointed out, she did reprimand that Reptile in the form of a tight slap because because she broke her marriage vows, deceived and betrayed Pushky. Puskhar was the first thought in that sense.
On another note, granted none of us like that Reptile, but at the end of the day, she is Bani's sister (though I have a sneeking suspicion that she was adopted), apart from being a mother figure. Were we in Bani's position (not knowing that the "father" is her very own RAM, would we honestly tell our sister(s) to go to hell?? Please show me how Bani is at fault for caring about the unborn child's future??
And at the risk of bringing up the past, since we're on the subject of hypocriscy, let's talk about about another character who appears to be a hypocrite....haan, I'm talking about Buddha. He in no which way had higher standards or beliefs when he emotionally battered Bani because of that Reptile's actions....of course not, he was justified because he was hurt. Some of us have selective memory just like Buddha. He was in no which way a hypocrite when he point blank broke Sonali's heart because for the first time "Pia awakened his emotions" 🤢 We can agree to disagree, but can we agree that he should have (as a mature individual) talked to Sonali first and explained the situation to her. If he valued Sonali's friendship and/or relationship that they shared, he owed her that much as a friend if not nothing else. But no, when the poor woman thought she was the one he was was going to propose to she was in for a rude awakening. Again, Buddha was in no which way a hypocrite when he continues to lie everyday to Bani.

My point is, just like Buddha and Bani, we all have our own sets of beliefs....what one may think is right may not necessarily be right to others. Buddha did what he thought was right under those circumstances and Bani has/is doing what she thinks is right under the current circumstances. We each may individually react otherwise given those circumstances.

Rani,

This post is not about bani's hypocracy vs. Jai's. I am not even discussing Jai here. All I am saying is that when is comes to Bani's family she gets a tunnel vision. That is probably one of the reasons reptile is like she is. bani has never held her accountable for the havoc Pia causes. I was also pointing out that Pushkar has been a deveoted friend to her. Just saying to Pia once that you broke pushkar;s trust in no way shows bani fulfilling her friendship. Has she once tried to make sure if pushy is alright. Her making sure Pia's baby is alright in in effect trying to fix Pia's mistake like she has always done. This post is in noway justifying anything JW has done or not.

meghna

Rani,

(when he emotionally battered Bani because of that Reptile's actions....of course not, he was justified because he was hurt. )

JW's behaviour to Bani in the intitial days of his marriage was disgusting and he was regularly panned in the IF for that. So how has that become an issue now?

(He was in no which way a hypocrite when he point blank broke Sonali's heart )

As far as Sonali was concerned she was just a friend and JW had never made any romantic overtures to her, so why should he explain anything to her.

Rgds,

Pri