Nice People Like Bani Always Finish Last!

Originally posted by: mk727272

Hello Guys,

I can feel what Bani is going through. And frankly, I know myself one thing and that is from past experiences of my life that Nice People Always Finish Last and the reasons are very simple and that is they want to make everyone happy. I know... Bani is trying to do everything to make sure that everything comes out right but in the process is forgetting the fact that she needs to give her own relationships some time. Pretend for one second that Jai wasnt the one Pia had ONS with, then Bani is for no reason ignoring JW. I mean she is breaking her own relationship because of Pia. I hate Pia.

For them their happiness is not as important as the happiness of people around them and that is why they always get bashed by people and people think they are naive.
Bani is my favorite character in the show. Because even though it looks like she has no brain at times, she is the only one in the show that is morally intact still. I mean the GREAT Jai Walia- crossed the marital limits by having a ONS with Pia- I might have forgiven him for that- but i hated the fact that the next night he slept with Bani and till now (3 months!) he has kept it a secret from her!

Irrespective of how much they do for others they always end up alone in life. The main reason for this is that they think with their hearts and not with their minds.
People who think with their hearts often end up sad, but at least when they are with people they give the most. At least these people arent like Pia...

People who bash Bani's character should always realize one fact that all people are different and hence their mindset and beliefs are also not alike.
Exactly...

To bash Bani is to say that humanity and thinking of others and trusting in love is a bad thing.

What has the world come down to if we think that trusting your husband and sister purely is a bad thing

People who do this should at least one time look at themselves before pointing fingers at others because it is easy to give advice to others but when you land up in the same situations it is hard to take your own advice.
Yup. If I was in the same situation I would not suspect my sister and my husband so that is why I do not blame Bani at all.

Bani has been shown as a caring and a loving sister and wants to know who the father of the child and that makes her bad because her two-faced husband wants to take Bani away for their anniversary so his truth does not come out.
Jai is just digging his own hole.... deeper and deeper and Bani is the one who is going to end up suffering

And yet ONS is Bani's fault. It is just stunning as to how people think and bash Bani's character because she wants to get to the truth. It is beacause she loves her husband and sister and people do not care how heartbroken she will be when the truth comes out.
I think to some extent Bani was at fault at the beginning but that is gone now... if Jai had told her right away abt his mistake then YES all would be well and Bani should have forgiven him to an extent! BUT now that he has streched it and tried to hide it from her, she is not at fault any longer.

Most of them are worried about the lying and cheating husband Jai Walia who is nothing but a man who cannot even face his wife because of his sin. If he is man enough why cannot he admit his guilt?
He is a chicken. And I am going to get belans thrown at me. But Jai Walia is not strong as he was at the beginning, he is a weak weak character. Maybe because of love but that is no excuse to not tell your wife the biggest truth of her life.

Jai Walia cannot decide between the child and Bani? And that is the height.
YUP!

When Bani leaves JW and Walia Mansion people will bash her again for being mahaan. But if that is how she is then who are we to take a shot at her? Would love to know who you will react if u found urself in a similiar situation and people took shots at you? Would it not just make your day?
I would leave no matter what. However I would not get Jai and Pia married before leaving! If Bani gets those two married, I am done with the show.

That is why I know in life people like Bani will always end up alone.
😭 Sadly

The reason being Nice People Always Finish Last.

Would love to know ur comments.

Keep Smiling,
Happiness Always,
Manish

Great Post! Loved Reading it. Fully support your viewpoints.

-Pari

Originally posted by: mk727272

Hello Guys, nice discussion👏

I can feel what Bani is going through. And frankly, I know myself one thing and that is from past experiences of my life that Nice People Always Finish Last and the reasons are very simple and that is they want to make everyone happy. me to..nice people always finish last not just because they want to make people happy but people are not all like them and take advantage or always assume they gonna be there

For them their happiness is not as important as the happiness of people around them and that is why they always get bashed by people and people think they are naive. Yeh its not i support bani and do not think shes being naive..who in the world who thinks like bani would suspect the people closest to them ...or not want to make the people the close to happy😊 ..but not everyone respects it like banis gonna learn

Irrespective of how much they do for others they always end up alone in life. The main reason for this is that they think with their hearts and not with their minds. That is true because they can never think bad or that person might not want good for them or be good , worth your time ! I do not think they will end up alone just takes time to find the person who respects that..bani has despite what i say about him😡 found that in jai because he does respect her !

People who bash Bani's character should always realize one fact that all people are different and hence their mindset and beliefs are also not alike.

I agree with all that bani has done at first i was like she might have drove jai to the affair but now thinking about it , its not her fault at all she blindly trusted people..and shes one of those people that the ones she trusts are the ones who let her down from her parents to jai

To bash Bani is to say that humanity and thinking of others and trusting in love is a bad thing. I agree thinking positive and beliving in the good can only pay off one day and rub off on others..people should never change the way they are 😊Bani is great has she is

People who do this should at least one time look at themselves before pointing fingers at others because it is easy to give advice to others but when you land up in the same situations it is hard to take your own advice. sure is i think bani fails to do thinks herself that she does for others.

Bani has been shown as a caring and a loving sister and wants to know who the father of the child and that makes her bad because her two-faced husband wants to take Bani away for their anniversary so his truth does not come out.

she is really caring and unselfish..i respect her because she always wants the good

And yet ONS is Bani's fault. It is just stunning as to how people think and bash Bani's character because she wants to get to the truth. It is beacause she loves her husband and sister and people do not care how heartbroken she will be when the truth comes out.

I dont think its her fault.i am sad for the day already she finds out it is gonna be devestating😭 the worst possible thing! what faith will she be have left when the one thing her sisters love thats always drove her has let her down.

Most of them are worried about the lying and cheating husband Jai Walia who is nothing but a man who cannot even face his wife because of his sin. If he is man enough why cannot he admit his guilt? 😡I agree i do not like cowards especailly liars i respect people more if they admit their mistake

Jai Walia cannot decide between the child and Bani? And that is the height. 😡coward !

When Bani leaves JW and Walia Mansion people will bash her again for being mahaan. But if that is how she is then who are we to take a shot at her? Would love to know who you will react if u found urself in a similiar situation and people took shots at you? Would it not just make your day? No it will be great ! i want her to leave...I would first get so angry lash out then leave😆i have alot of angar towards people who break my trust!

That is why I know in life people like Bani will always end up alone. so true😭 to a extent!

The reason being Nice People Always Finish Last. 😭

Would love to know ur comments. 😊 hope you like.

Keep Smiling,
Happiness Always,
Manish

Originally posted by: Arwind

My thoughts exactly. It just seems that writers are in a position to really make this nice gal finish first but instead she's taking so many knocks right now I don't know how she'll manage to get up. Bani is like my hero right now and seeing this happen to her actually hurts me inside. I relate to her in a sense because no matter how much you try and be nice in life, you take knock after knock after knock and still have to get back up. I guess hope is what keeps us alive. I don't take what the bashers say to heart because in the very heart of some of them they truly wish they could be like her. Bani's only sin is that she blindly trusted those around her and for that she has been betrayed all round. Where is the justice...nice guys do finish last. Bani girl I'm with you all the way, hang in there.

Originally posted by: sapnon_ki_pari

Great Post! Loved Reading it. Fully support your viewpoints.

-Pari

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Very nice post Manish. 👏 👏 👏


Thank you so much Reema. Nice to see you on KS forum. I think u like BMTD more than KS nowdays. Cannot blame you though. Nice to see you comment on my post.

Personally I don't feel Bani is being too innocent or stupid (as some people like to believe so) because at the end of the day she would rather believe that the ones she loves the most are the ones she can trust the most too.


I whole-heartedly agree with your point. Very well said Reema, if you cannot trust your own then who can you trust in life? So how come Bani is wrong in trusting her family?



What amuses me even more is, some members feel Jai is entirely blameless for the ONS, its all Bani's doing. I guess this covers the great Mr.Walia from all ways i.e. if he has not committed the ONS, then "We knew he wouldn't do such a thing" yet if the ONS has actually happened then its all Bani's fault. 😕


The problem with that assumption is that it is completely biased would love to know what will these people do if they were caught in the same situation as Bani will they then blame themselves or their partner?
See, then the whole thing will change because they will find themselves in Bani's place.

As they say Reema, "Grass is always greener from the other side."

And I am with Bani all the way. U know us Bani supporters have to be together.

Keep Smiling,
Happiness Always,
Manish