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Posted: 19 years ago

Originally posted by: mk727272




To Klueeless & Mohena123,


Good to know that we have ppl in this world who think ONS is another partners fault and JW is faultless.
You want to go climb at the top of the mountain and say that JW is not at fault the poor man was broken and he did not do anything.

Pls go ahead and do that. It is your prespective and viewpoint but please do not tell me how to judge people. I have my beliefs and I am not about to change that for anyone. No matter what.

Jai Walia admitted his mistake so what? He wants a noble prize for that. He is nothing but a man who is nothing but a lying person to me.

And before you start defending anyone, first have the commonsense to look at all viewpoints and decide. It is easy to point fingers and say u know what Bani is wrong and Jai Walia he has suffered so much.

Well, of course, JW has never done anything wrong?
To say that he did not sleep with Pia on purpose so u want to vindicate him and great if it makes u happy.

But before you become so involved in defending JW lets me know just one thing- It must feel so good for you to put Bani down to know that nice people suffer.

No matter what nice people always bounce back. And remember one thing always, ppl who are nice and quiet when they break down and then get back on their feet. People pay big time because then they know both sides of the world.

And when Bani gives it to JW and Pia they will come to know what happens when a nice person hits back even the Gods do not come to help people.

To make fun of people who are nice it is good to know that people think being nice is being weak. And that is when they make a big mistake.

Often people think nice people are weak they forget that we are strong as so is Bani.

So never think nice people are weak.

Keep Smiling,
Happiness Always,
Manish

Dear MK i dont think Bani is Weak at all, infact she has the great strength thats how she mounts on Missions all by herself ,and doesnt feel its necessary to share Important matters with her life mate whom she claims to love and respect In My opinion what Bani put Jai through isnt Nice but plain WRONG .She is very controlling and can manipulate any situation for her convenience ..eg .. making Jai sign a blank piece of paper , thats was just too much for me to digest first refusing to go to dubai not even considering the feelings of her husband , then again turning and manipulating the situation , by asksing Jai to take her to Dubai coz she wants to snoop around and wedding Anniversary can go to Jhumri talaiya ..!..that to for who ? a sister who is Independent and is Married isnt a child .doesnt need help from Bani , coz pia is phusically and mentally capable of living her life by herself .But Bani has always made Pia her priority .. when she got married .knowing howJai felt she Got Pia married in WM itself of all the places in Mumbai .. ?She has always been headstrong , the only Thing Bani didnt do and is being put on a pedestal by her Fans and Bhakts is she didnt have the ONS ,so tomorrow even if she murders Jai she will still be seen As Mata Bani Rani ..sayani .

What Morals , ethics and values are these that a wife goes to the extent to make her husband ..who she claims is her bhagwan ..-make him sign a Blank Paper , turn him down when he wishes to spend their Anniversary in another place , then for her own purpose change her mind . Call her Husband a liar in front of people*bandh darwaZa Raaz ),Keep secrets from her husband keep him in the dark and do things her own way . She never asks Jai what he wants ? what he Feels ..just takes control of situations on her own . She will do it again soon..by Ordering him to marry her sister , without considering Who he really wants to be with . Is That what a husband wife and marrige is al about .initially had Jai desired and if he was a moralless , characterless ,valueless man then he would have slept with Roshni inspite of him disliking Bani ,and bing in a marriage he didnt wanna be in the First Place .So Yes Bani is responsible for driving Jai into pia's arms . The way she had treated him .Bani 's actions are no way Quiet and Nice .

bechari Bani she is Faultless Coz she didnt sleep with anyone.so whatever else she does is Justified .

but we can go on and on and on .. and still this discussion is not going to end . Manish , I am not asking you how to judge People and change your beliefs .

its how you look at a discussion about a fictional show, and charcter on an open Forum in a thread that you commenced .

Amen šŸ˜›šŸ˜†

Klue

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Edited by klueless - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
Klue,

(bechari Bani she is Faultless Coz she didnt sleep with anyone.)

Exactly.Only an unwarranted exchange of genetic material constitutes sin. Everything else is immaterial.

Rgds,

Pri
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Posted: 19 years ago

Originally posted by: majumdar

Klue,

(bechari Bani she is Faultless Coz she didnt sleep with anyone.)

Exactly.Only an unwarranted exchange of genetic material constitutes sin. Everything else is immaterial.

Rgds,

Pri

šŸ˜† Priya, U are just too Good for my Soul and lift my spirits as i stand here defending J and myself

klue

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Posted: 19 years ago

Originally posted by: majumdar

Klue,

(bechari Bani she is Faultless Coz she didnt sleep with anyone.)

Exactly.Only an unwarranted exchange of genetic material constitutes sin. Everything else is immaterial.

Rgds,

Pri

pri,

the truth is this so called unwaranted exchange is something we cherish as sacred as a mangalsutra... even in the western world they have some kind of sacredness in their approach... even couple would not be able to do that exchange if they are in bad moodu...

the point is as a human being this desire is controlled by our sense of morals and principles in life... when we are drunk our control is gone out of hands... what then happend is not in his full consciousness and even though thing which happened would have been the biggest erro had he had done it when he was not drunk. this is the main reason i think he should be forgiven.

on the other hand bani was gone off the road with her sisters life... after a marriage it is her husband who is the most important.. if she wanted to help pia she could do it... can she hide it from jai in the whole life... she was calling his name for each and everything to talk to pia... not only she put jai down in the priority list she never even talked to pushkar who stood for her through her thick and thin... how can she be called a sincere person so good? a person should be good to everyone... how her sister's sin of killing her own child that too without telling her husband be so forgive and this error... is there two kind of judgement for her sisters and jai... i am sorry, but i have to say that bani is too much partial and insensible towards her duty as a wife... i love her though and understnad her sufferings everything.. after making so much damages like losing her own child is there any use of preaching about love? i think it is high time jai should react!!!! but he also like to torture himself than bring the torture level to a minimum... how long can he do all these kind of circus...

we see both of them approached the life in a inmature way at times... it is the truth. if communication is abscent in love then it will destroy the link and hence the end of love too. leaving unbearbale pain.

here the creatives shows one doing so great just making the other a good for nothing man.. so what is use she call him her Bhagvan.. Bhagvan is strong and is capable of doing things his own too. Why does she makes him stay like the idol, not actual Bhagvan... ? there is the wrong approach...

i don't take side.. but see things a nuetral way...

Rose

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Posted: 19 years ago
What Morals , ethics and values are these that a wife goes to the extent to make her husband ..who she claims is her bhagwan ..-make him sign a Blank Paper , turn him down when he wishes to spend their Anniversary in another place , then for her own purpose change her mind . Call her Husband a liar in front of people*bandh darwaZa Raaz ),Keep secrets from her husband keep him in the dark and do things her own way . She never asks Jai what he wants ? what he Feels ..just takes control of situations on her own
***Well said klue! She becomes Mahaan because, she gives a monologue about how sorry she is to JW, by hiding things from him! But when JW does feel guilty he comes a confused man!!
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Posted: 19 years ago
Rose,

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Well said. There is nothing I have to add.

Rgds,

Pri

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