WHAT will make JW be ACCEPTED? - Page 7

Great post Anu, I was even wondering the same…..what for God sake can make JW accepted in people's eyes? Whether he does something, it's never good enough and leaves reasons to complain. 😕

I've always loved JW and will continue to do so. 😳 Though I'm mad at him sometimes or even irritated, but I've never hated him nor will I be able to.

We tend to overlook the fact, that the JW we saw in the beginning and the JW we see now, are two complete different people. Why? Because he has been through a constant journey since the Dixit sisters entered his life. He was taken for a roller coaster ride since then and according to me he's still on that ride.

He experienced so many emotions, most of them made him grow, made him stronger and at times even a better human being.

JW is one of the most real to life characters in the show, he acts and reacts to the current situation, just like any normal human being.

From the moment he fell in love with Bani (Yes, I do believe that he loves her), he himself changed. He was not that arrogant, tough or blas man anymore, as he used to be.
His love for Bani made him realize that there are more and better ways to live your life…..he experienced that and wanted to do so…what's wrong with that.

I won't dwell on the ONS for very long, because personally I know that nothing happened. He just passed out and that's how he'll be redeemed after the leap.

He's taking all this shit form Pia (though I don't like it), because of one single reason: BANI. If he had nothing to loose, do you think that he would tolerate Chipku for this long? No! But because of his fear to loose the most precious thing in his life, he succumbs to Chipku's antics, which is labeled as weakness. Well, so be it! At least he I weakened in his love for Bani!

Just assume that he admitted to Bani that night itself in Dubai, when she came with her lotta to his room, that he just ended up sleeping with her sister, because he thought that he had lost everything in life, that he feels sorry for her, but can't accept her back because of his guilt……in this case it would still be not good enough and people would lable him as a JERK, because how dare he break Bani's heart, when she realized that she made a mistake in judging him and wanted to be with him. She came all the way to Dubai on Karvachauth with her lotta for God sake….!

I just want JW to get over his fear to loose Bani, and come clean with her, also for his own conscience. Only then he'll be able to live his life peacefully and without any fears. Bani will have to make the decision to stick with him or to leave him, and knowing JW either both the ways he'll support her decision.

Whether Bani lives with him or not, he belongs only and only to her……

Originally posted by: Grumpyyy

First of all nice thread anu! I always love to read your analysis and threads even though I dont always agree with you. 😆 Now about Jai Walia ... I always had a love and hate relationship with him. 😆

The first time I saw Jai on tv, it was on a promo of his wedding night when he litterly barked at Bani and kicked her out of his room. You all must still be able to recall that ragging bull infront of your eyes. 😆 He scared the shit out of me, but at the same time made me curious to know what the show was all about. I went searching and came across the video updates on KS-forum and I watched the show from episode 1. The first time Jai and Bani were shot together in one scene I became a huge fan of them and wanted them to be together. I loved Jai for his total-in-control and Im-the-man attitude and Bani for her selfconvidence and caring nature. But the first disappointment was on its way: Jai fell for Pia! Boy was I disappointed or what?! Well I kept watching keeping my fingers crossed, as I didnt remember the girl in the promo, so I really didnt know he would end up with Bani. The guy got all my attention that I didnt notice Bani or Jigz in the promo. 😆 Anyways, when Jai ended up marrying Bani I was thrilled. Even though after a little while I got sick and tired of him treating her badly, but he has a valid excuse and Bani was back then getting on my nerves by taking all of his crap. But since they were coming closer and closer I loved them more and more. Jai's character was one of many shades. He was a realistic character: he had different emotions and yes he turned evil when people crushed his heart and if you ask me thats a very human reaction! But there is a difference between taking your anger on the person who hurt you and the person who has never done any damage to you. That exactly what I disliked about Jai. I just couldnt stand it that he was so weak towards Pia, but didnt let a chance go by to humilate Bani. Anyways I forgave him for all that after he got over Pia and started treating Bani well. Everything seemed going well untill that cursed PR raaz was revealed and KS started hitting rock bottom. My heart went out to him when Bani left him and he was drowning in missery, but at the same time he irritated me by being such a devdas. Right at that point he should have been the man we all used to know. That total-in-control dude who can handle his business and private life. If he had done that Bani wouldnt have got this crazy ideas to save his business. And then Jai commited probably the biggest crime a husband can do. He spend a night with another woman, a woman who was none other than his own sister-in-law! That's when Jai just totally dropped out of my eyes as we say in arabic. I lost all respect for the man and just couldnt stand him anymore.

To answer you question: what do I expect from Jai? All I want him to do is stand up and be a man. Take control of his life and face it! He should take control of Pia and set her straight. Take care of his family and deal with their problems and make everyone know their place in the Walia house. He should face Bani and tell her the thruth even if that means he will lose her. Atleast it will be he who told her and not someone else. She will feel much more decieved if she got to know from someone else. He will have to pay for his crime and when he has he will get all his respect and dignity back! 😉

Well I hope I answered you question and Id like to read your comments!

Greetz,

Grumpyyy

Completely agree with Grumpyy. Couldn't have said it any better. Anu, waht we all really want is Jai getting Control of his life, thats all. Is it so much to ask from him, to be the Jai that we all fell in love with, the Ji in the beginning of KS, before the whole PR raaz fiasco, alimony and ONS.

Love

Krishna

Anu, waht we all really want is Jai getting Control of his life, thats all. Is it so much to ask from him, to be the Jai that we all fell in love with, the Ji in the beginning of KS, before the whole PR raaz fiasco, alimony and ONS.[/quote]


However much I want him to be the Jai you describe I sometimes wonder that it IS too much to ask from him - PR/alimony/ONS seem to have taken such an emotional and mental toll on him, and I am not suprised in the slightest, in fact it would be unrealistic to go through so much and never change.

I want him to take control of his life too, and i am sure he will, but as much as i want him to be, he will never be the JW we saw at the beginning of the show. However, is that neccessarily a bad thing...? 😊

👏 👏 👏 Amazing responses... completely floored 😃 Uff, i guess i did good... did serve as a good morale boost to the Jai Camp. 😃

I think i should add that around 80% of the answers have been from Jai camp... I would have loved to hear from noted Jai Critics... Where r u guys 😕

Ok, So from what i gather, we dont have a problem with Jai's characteristics... We love him the way he is, But are not ready to say the same about his ACTIONS! It is only his Actions that seem to be a problem and not the man himself, Am i right?

So Mr. Jai Walia the Verdict is here. Most of us feel u need to GET THE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE BACK! ABSOLUTE CONTROL... and DO whatever it takes... be it coming clean with Bani and/or having Pia out of ur life for GOOD, and Yup u need to make a clear stand about the kid(just cause u believe it is yours at the moment!!!) ANd one more popular demand seems to be seeing u back in Black!

Keep ur replies coming... it is always a pleasure to read them.

Lots of Luv
Anu.

Anu, ...I want to see him back with his old arrogant,no nonsense attitude!!!! and he needs to stop trusting people like ranveer and pia who have betrayed him in the past.I want to seem him happy and smiling for a change!!!!