Anu,
Nice post,read it before too but wanted to see response of others on this.
I want Jai in control of his life too and grow a spine.Return back to being the same old Jai Walia that we all fell for and adored.But I am strictly not against him , why should I be?I see no reason to hate him.He is being blamed for lying about Pia and not coming out clean with Bani but why does eveyone choose to overlook the dilemma this man is in?At one hand is his love, his wife and on the other one is the child who he always desired.He cannot live without either.This child does not remind him of his betrayal to Bani but Pia does, the child is innocent.Although I too want him to come clean with Bani but then there is a reason why he is doing all this.He knows very well what life would be for him and Bani without each other, nothing.If he is being selfish for himself and Bani, I stand by him and I see no fault with him or his actions.The reason I adore this character is because it is close to reality and in real life no one is perfect, not even a man in his 40's and who is experienced.Isn't it more than enough on his part that he has made changes in himself for his wife, he forgave people who betrayed him and the only reason he did so was because they were close to Bani.I cannot hold his one mistake against him forever, his good deeds will surpass his bad ones on any given day.
My secret wishes for Jai
Get back in Black again
Take control of your situation, I loved the Jai who used to grit his teeth in anger
And lastly a smiling Jai and the one who used to blush like a school boy when Bani paid him any compliments before Marriage and after 19/6
and it does not matter to me anymore whether he slept with Pia or not or the child is his or not.He has been a man enough to admit his mistake and take up the entire Blame on himself for that night inspite of knowing that he is not fully responsible.If not for Bani,I can bet he would have thrown Pia out of the WM, he is standing her and her blackmailing because more than himself he is scared of Bani being hurt by two poeple she values the most
Amen
Edited by mahimn - 18 years ago